It's OVER!

[christa]

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hahayz.. a very sad reality in life..
kung naa ka sa situation ky makaboang..

you can color you words, but when it sinks in ..it will still be: it's over..

sakit jd para sa taw na mabyaan oie.. all the negative feelings will be there..
ana na jud na cya.. bisag unsaon nimo likay..ana jd na..

u can soften the blow, or make it worse..either way it will still heart..so i guess , honesty is still the best policy..

what i learned from the past is that, when a relationship ends.. what hurts more is not really the "falling out" of love of the other..
but rather, it's the sudden stop of the whole realtionship..the care..and the love..

[shaxyra]

...no matter how you break it gently it would still hurt because it still meant twas an end.. the end.. but hey.. ever wonder why the sunset just as colorful as the sunrise endings are just as colorful as beginnings..

....been there and a lot more complicated even
haha..
the key is acceptance...

[cuttie_angel]

if it is OVER it's really OVER don't turn it back the page that you pass through. Just mean what you've said and accept that it is OVER already and try to move on.

[spoil]

Ok.. so you tell him/her honestly na wala ka nang feelings and you want to end it...
but what if he/she says, "ayaw sa, di pa nako kaya" What do you do?

[vesper13]

tell him the truth, talk to him honestly,by doing this you might end up as good friends...(kantahi dayun sya ug STEEP....)

[sexyjelly]

over is over.. d na magkita or even talk.. bsan shadow nimu d nako gusto makakita.. hehehe...dumot? hehehe

[shinobi101]

BE HONEST..


i think that would be the best thing you could do..

dont let the other party think that there;s still a chance when it actually it does not..

juz as what they said.. if you tell lies.. then its like stabbing ur partner.. and twisting the knife.. plus pouring alcohol after.. haha..

[iamapplekiss]

tell her.

id rather be dumped.
than be played.

played -- depends on how you define the word *disclaimer*

[vienzel]

arayyy...seemed like my situation i was into b4 12 yrs ago! i had to end it and it was so painful...we had the relationship for 7 yrs. i had to stop because things didnt seemed to change at all. i felt , i cud not live all my life hoping for things to change for the better. i have given too many chances already but what did i get?...people might think i was demanding then but m not. i was too patient and giving. didnt even bother to leave something for myself...my turning point to end it, i was at the verge of losing my own life LITERALLY! you all might not believe it...but i have my records at CDC, hahahaha...i did not commit suicide ha...ober na na!

i was in acute respiratory distress at that time...and did not realize it was all cause by stress (MD ruled it out)! i was never an asthmatic but i am now and will be all my life! so, once u called it OVER...then it's over!

PS. my ex n i are friends now, we recently talked after those years...he admitted t'was his fault for he took me forgranted. in his sick mind, he thought i wud be there always for him no matter wat! unsa ko BUANG NA GYUD? he is married and still flirting around. i sensed he has not gone over it yet...too bad!

[andch81]

love is not enoough... rather end it than continously hurt each other bec of some difrences...