If The Feeling is Gone?

[nathan]

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sigh.

[toxhell]

ang tinu-od gyud maoy ma-ayo, kana mao ang sunda. kung wala na gani sulti-i og isangyaw kaniya nga mao nani ang imong gibati, pra dli ka mag-antos.

[Aiah]

well said nathan....

it's true, as what my boyfriend always told me that there's no such word as "falling out of love"..because true love never fade away...you just have to fight temptation for you to stay together. Dont try to find the missing part of your partner to another individual...only the 10% is missing...remember that you still have the 90% of that sa imong partner...so if there's any problem, you have to talk about it or regret for the rest of your life...(bey let's talk)

[jrluzana]

My feelings will never be gone, it will only be given to another person willing to accept it.

[white_pigeon]

dI ko Ka reLate (LOL)

biTaw oizT...iF thE feeLing iS goNe...aw dI peRioD...dI k0 mUgoS oiZt!

[yhammee]

biTaw oizT...iF thE feeLing iS goNe...aw dI peRioD...dI k0 mUgoS oiZt!

exactly... i never, EVER, beg for love....

[prettymeeh0505]

anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone he/she loves so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But sometimes, a love lost is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can bring back to life a relationship that just died a natural death. Set yourself free, let your hearts spread its wings and fly. Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still it will not rain forever. One day, the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where you can find rest. One of these is where you will build your nest and start over again. It's never too late. You may find love and lose it but, WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER DIE WITH IT. You cannot be a redeemer all your life. The best way to weigh a relationship is through the test of fire. You cannot be a loser with your mistake forever. We all fall and make wrong decisions, but our blunders are not meant to bury us deep in misery, but to teach us the valued lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process... with love we learn how to CARE AND SACRIFICE. We learn to SHARE AND REACH OUT. We learn to be UNSELFISH AND GIVE MORE THAN WE CAN. Then, when everything doesn't end well, we learn how it feels like to fall and get hurt. But learning doesn't have to end there. After our fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that LIFE DOESN'T END WHERE OUR HEARTACHES BEGIN. THERE'S NO FUTURE FOR A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES AND SELFISHNESS. It's true, there is life in love. But, there can still be life even after losing love. If you leave the past behind and let your heart heal, then you give yourself the chance to find yourself again. The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning, but in its consistency. Make a choice not on impulse but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always remember that... HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE. There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end, our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. YOU DON'T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF. YOU WOULD BE BETTER OFF GIVING THAT DEDICATION AND LOVE TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING. Don't let your heart run your life. Be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. IF YOU LOSE LOVE, IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU HAVE FAILED IN LOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT TEARS WASH AWAY THE HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU WITH. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK TO YOU. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime. A woman on the rebound could easily fall for sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe that she finally stumbled upon the right man... when what she just found is only someone to cover up for the love she lost. A man who makes a promise with words and not with actions may never live up to fulfill them. IT'S TRUE THAT LOVE CAN WAIT FOREVER, BUT IT IS CRAZY TO STUBBORNLY HOPE FOR SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T EVEN CARE OR UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL.

[pinkiepooh]

redzki:

That was a touching story that even as i am reading it now...i am into a deep sorry state for my huney who has been with me for five long years....no am not married yet. siguro i dont believe in falling out of love as this idea is absurd. there will be temptations...yeah...people whom when you look at them may seem to look better and sexier than your love....but isnt this all? temptation? this is how you prove your worth to the person you promised forever with.

if falling out of love is true, then there would have been no marriage and no old people looking happy still together. if falling out of love is true then we are no more than animals or dogs even--that in the slight (sorry for the word) arousal over someone else would make us leave our GF/wife/BF/husband for the benefit of satisfying our hunger for sexual actions. we grow older and less attractive physically...but we should try to see deeper than what the physical state shows...deeper and you will realize that the man/woman that you have loved grows even more beautiful.

we must not forget to nurture our relationships with intimacy, intimacy that transcends beyond ***. always remember that love is something we have to treasure...something we have to nurture.

...in the end, i do believe that the only person you will faithfully be with would be the very person you shared and promised forever.

wow....amazing...did i write this?

nathan

very well said indeed! 'la nai lain laki preha nimo!!! hahaiiii....

[the7thangel]

how do you know if your partner does't love you anymore?

[snussy]

wa na cyay interest nimo..seldom calls..seldom magpakita..as in cold gyud...