Being friends after break up...

[kiwiboy]

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my break.up wasnt that good at all...
i don't know if we'd ever be friends again...
i will not be hopeful...
all hopes have vanished through time...
time surely heals the wounds created...
i was lucky i find someone who could help me...
even for such a short stint...
she made me feel my worth..
wherever she is right now, il pray i'd met her someday...
when the time is ripe to heal the gap i created...
id ever be so thankful for her efforts..
for giving me the strenght to move on with my life..
all the time i thought she was the one na...
but then i thought wrong...
we sometimes think, that we are in love when we really are not...
nadam.ag henuon ko in the process...
all i need pala is someone to let me know my worth...
thank you ate jo..

[grlnxtdor16]

sometime never nlng oie...if it was too painful ayaw nlng coz its too painful

[splendid moonlight]

Sometimes it could take just a few months (or days). But sometimes it could take years. But don't be afraid, you'd have already grown a lot in that span of time.

Anyway, you're ready to be friends with your ex if you're over him. When you're still asking yourself "am I over him?" chances are you aren't. When that time comes, you'll just know.

But whatever the signs, you'd hardly even notice them kay you'd already be engrossed with the life that you made after him. So don't even watch out for 'signs.' Kung magka amigo mo, magka amigo man gyud mo. You don't have to burden yourself thinking when it will happen. Also ask yourself what your motives are for wanting to be friends with him. Do you still harbour hopes that you two would get back together? Is that why you want to be friends with him? Try to be honest with yourself.

[m3taph0r113]

Anytime, provided that both of you has already moved on.

i kinda agree with this one.

[azwethinkweiz]

umm wa nakoy plano makig kita niya as in cut na tanan communication.

wa napud ko ga huna huna na magka amigo pa mi.
Move on nako. kung mgkita man gani..ah just think nalang tingali na wa mi nagkaila. (salbahes noh) hehehe

[maerkz]

yup move on is the right word. as in cutt all attachments

[shaxyra]

..after both of you can already accept it..

[NAN_WEN]

ok ra...no hurt feelings..kai wala man mo work ^___^

[beyee]

It's hard to be back to being friends after a painful break up
because it's like you're opening old wounds and you both
end up bickering of the past.

In my case, we ended in a sour note. I simply cut him out of my
life... twas timely that we moved into our new home and I gave up
my old phone so there was never a way for us to communicate
again.

After four years, I am hoping I can see my ex and his wifey because
it's all been forgotten now. Last I heard, he was even laughing when
our common friend asked him about me. I think that's a good sign.
I am looking forward to seeing him soon...

[judge3ni]

i think its aright. not unless yer present bf/gf dusn like the idea.. if it means trouble bein friends wit him/her then dun. i'd rather not put my present relationship at risk, sure, i do value my friends but there's always a limitation.

i agree.. as for me, i dnt want my mate to be friends with the Xs..c",)