Recommend a Licensed Psychologist Please

[dasher_d]

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Hi! Kabalo ka, I was in the same situation before. And siguro, ako mahatag na advise nimu, maka ingun ka hypocrite ra kaayo ko. I live life with the principle nga, Life gives us choices. So I chose to be happy. I know daghan ka problems na gihuna-huna. And yes, tinuod, kapoy kaayo. Maka stress, ma-consume niya imung energy. First, put on a positive outlook in life. Lisud jud na considering sa mga problems nimu nga gidala, pero kaya ra jud kaayo. When you have a light heart, and a positive mind, mas maka function ka ug tarung. The next time you look for jobs, try to be positive. Being happy is a state of mind ra jud. And please pray harder. Ako, I go to church kana first mass, kana mingaw pa bitaw and you have all the time to reflect and talk to God. I know i'm being corny, but ni-epekto man jud na nako gud.

"Life has choices, and I chose to be happy."

[nissanss]

kumusta na akosibert? i hope all is well with you. just come here anytime and just pour out whatever that is in your mind. imo mga problema. ipagawas lang na diri. ato storya storyan. palipas lang and to lighten you up. we're all here for you.

we pray hard not because so HE can hear us. we pray hard so we can finally hear HIM.

drop by here bro anytime.
peace!

[mmp]

help urself, its just a matter of self-c0ntrol.. mind in control..

[babypaupau]

i just have something to say. infairness to the thread starter, its actually good to consult a professional if ur depressed. technically, they will NOT SOLVE ur problems, per se.however, they can help you sort out ur thoughts and emotions, thus they can help you get to the bottom of what's really bothering you. it may seem as if ur finances is what's bothering you but it could just be the tip of the iceberg. it could be an indication of a more pressing issue.

wanting to be healthy is not bad, dont believe in people who tells you that you dont need help. if you think you need help and you think it'll be good for you to go see a professional, go ahead. afterall, thats for your well being. its not like your wasting ur time and money on drugs and alcohol.

by the way, its gud pud if ul see a psychiatrist kay clinical sad ilang approach. for psychiatrist, you can call chong hua hospital and mangau lng ka ug names sa ilang psychiatrist, clinic sked and phone number aron maka inquire ka with the rates but i think na ra na sa mga 300.just try and check kay di ko sure sa price.

[akosibert]

sorry all of u la jud ko infrom u pila ka months. I was in boracay last october kay ngita ko work.pag feb this yr. nka work ko as a on-call banquet. but after ana wala na function. My purpose there is g tawagan ko sa friend sa kng tita nag work sa hotel sa bora. but til now...wala pa jud klaro ang hotel establishment. sa uban nka pass ko sa lain hotel until octo 2k8 to jan 2k9 la pa ko tawaga. ignon nila crisis na ang bora. so ni uli ko last 3rd week of feb after sa kng on-call banquet. igo ra ako pliti pdung caticlan to ilo2x, then nag barko ko 2 cebu. karon (march 12) g balik na sab nay nag motor na paningil sa utang sa credit card. kulba jud ko. mayta ugma puhon sa job fair sa cebu...mayta mka shoot ko mka work ko. karon gani kahilakon ko. pls...anyone help me? i mean it.

[nissanss]

i wish you all the best akosibert. that's the spirit - keep on trying & never give up. keep the faith, keep praying, & try to keep a happy, positive mindset. ganito/ganyan talaga ang buhay, lain-lain lang atu problema.

by the way, why are you the one so bothered by that credit card debt? ako na nahibaw-an maningil nga mag motor kay kana manang 5-6 loan/lending. kung dili pa diay kabayad unsaon man nila?

if you don't mind me asking, what's your educational attainment? how old are you?

just drop by here during your spare/bore time. good luck! God bless!

[achibaby]

akosibert, just think positive..mao gyud na ingon sa among teacher nga pyschiatrist....don't give up! Ma solve ra lagi na..keep on praying..good luck bro! i hope nka kita naka ug work..

[T0xic]

are you married!? because if you are, the best advice comes from our wives/husbands and it's for free!

[akosibert]

Im not married. im still single. i hope mka work ko puhon pra mka tabang ko sa mga parents. bitaw kuyawan jud ko nay mu hunong ang motor sa amo kaning sa credit card bill. cge sila mu hatag sa letter. pero nay usa mu suko wala kuno asingkaso. Btaw 2 b honest...hadlok lang ko mu hunong ang motor sa amo. ako mama ug papa nko mu probelma. ako sad mu problema, kami tanan. Ill try my best na mu think positive. btaw ganahan ko mu lipay everyday. wala problema. Ganahan ko lipay. Sana ako i sundan ang movie ni will smith sa The Pursuit of Happiness kay its all about work hard, and mu lipay. I hope mu lipay ko mka work ko.

[T0xic]

Im not married. im still single. i hope mka work ko puhon pra mka tabang ko sa mga parents. bitaw kuyawan jud ko nay mu hunong ang motor sa amo kaning sa credit card bill. cge sila mu hatag sa letter. pero nay usa mu suko wala kuno asingkaso. Btaw 2 b honest...hadlok lang ko mu hunong ang motor sa amo. ako mama ug papa nko mu probelma. ako sad mu problema, kami tanan. Ill try my best na mu think positive. btaw ganahan ko mu lipay everyday. wala problema. Ganahan ko lipay. Sana ako i sundan ang movie ni will smith sa The Pursuit of Happiness kay its all about work hard, and mu lipay. I hope mu lipay ko mka work ko.

bro, di jud pwede nga lipay all the time or way problema. Kita man kaha ka ug Pursuit of Happyness? Before na nindot iyang life, kita man sad ka sa iyang mga kasakit in life. Gi biyaan ug asawa, bitbit atong iyang gi baligya nga para sa bukog, gipapahawa sa puy-anan, nakatulog ug CR ang take note kuyog pajud iyang anak, basta daghan syang na agi-an nga di nato ganahan ma agi-an sa atong life. Nakasuway na ba kag ingun ato sa imong life nga maka ingun ka nga super guol naman kaayo ka and mag kinahanglan paman jud ka ug Doctor? If you are worried about your credit card bill and the means to pay the debt since you don't have work, we cannot do anything about that as of now because you are unemployed. It's ok to worry, but honestly, it won't help and it won't do any good.
It will also serve as a lesson for you, AYAW SIGEG KASKAS SA CREDIT CARD KAY MAGARAS PAG AYO!
Ayaw sigeg kulbaan if naay motor mu hunong sa inyu, tugkan ka anag hubag hubag. If manawag ang credit card company nimo, ingna lang nga unemployed paka....But bro try ragud to ask people nga kaila nimo and kanang naay mga credit card if unsa nahitabo kadtong wa sila nakabayad. Basin naa ka mga kaila nga pareha nimo sitwasyon, who knows basin naa solution. Di ba?

"So don't ever worry about tomorrow. After all, tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. -Matthew 6:34


Live one day at a time!