maau!!! good for you...Originally Posted by marv!n
Does money really matter in a guy?
to some extent it does. Girls would prefer guys that can make them feel secure, someone that could feed their fetish needs. Let's face it.. madonna was right when she sang the song 'material girl' but somehow in some cases it doesn't.. other than financial security.. emotional security matters.. think of it this way.. if he gives out a lot of things, wouldn't there be something in return for it? in my case.. i am financially independent.. i've saved enough money for myself.. it's a good thing i'm still too young.. so it doesn't really matter to me.. but i don't want to spend the money for someone who can't even support himself.. all i want to see is the effort.. at this stage sa akong relationship.. we usually spend equally.. pero siguro someday.. i wanted us both to really be stable.. money is not an issue.. it's half-way an issue..
Does he have to have a thick wallet?
no.. besides.. i hate luxuries.. i can by one for myself.. but i hate them.. haha
Would you leave a guy who used to have money and now doesn't?
there's a thing called '2nd chance'
Is even leaving a guy who has no money or no work a valid reason to leave a guy?
definitely.. it's a no..
It's a matter of preference. To some women, it might not matter to them. It does to me. The man has to take care of his woman. He has to be stronger, willful, and responsible. And it's great love too. If you truly love someone, it will hurt to see them having a hard time. Women are different, some women can live poor some can't. I can't live uncomfortably that's why I prefer a guy who can give me a good life. But it doesn't mean I ain't gonna work, I will work. But the guy at least should be making more money than me. Dapat iyaha nang vision to give me a comfortable life. You have to show me you are able and you have strength. Di pud ko tanga nga mag-agwanta, mag stress, sus Ginoo kapait anang mag stress ka'g kwarta kay wa kay makaon? Mawa atong beauty ana molupad sa bintana, maglusyang, naa man gani uban dili na gani kapalit ug pangarte tungod sa kalisud? Nya ang mga bana, uban mangabit kay na lusyang na yang asawa. Kinsa man nang iyang sa? IYAHA.
When a man decides to marry, he has to provide. That's one of the biggest responsibilities he will have, unceasingly. You cannot stop providing, you have to find a way to meet that responsibility. Di pud ka pwede mag relax relax, daku kaayo na nga responsibilidad. I don't believe in equality. Karaan kong taw. I grew up nga akong mama naa sa ra balay and akong papa di mosugot mo work ako mama kay para niya iyaha nang responsibilidad. Ninguha siya constantly to give her comfort and sakitan siya nga dili siya kapalit ug dapat niyang paliton para sa akong mama. I don't see nothing wrong with that. It is very noble. Mao man pud gyud nay role sa lalake sa pamilya.
What happened to your friend tokidoki is that the gf lost her trust on his ability and strength kay tungod nawad-an siya ug work. Perhaps she can't live poor that's why she's now dating a much richer guy. Iyaha pud nang choice.
saon mana nimo ang money kung wla ky love niya oy?
ginoo...yaw nlang patoga ky miserable jud imo life ana!
Well of course, its just one of the requirements. There has to be love too. It's a whole package.
well, it takes a lot of considerations wn it comes to this:
For one, wat a man posses tells him wat hi is because it only shows hw agggressive and responsible he is in achieving his goals but ders also exception of this is,
u cant also judge him using these because possesion coz sometimes its not given to him by the almighty..
All im saying is it depends on person's character....
b4 katung naa pay work akong bf, he'd pamper me with every single thing i want..and really, having those made me feel happy considering the person who gave it to me and what he gave..
now? he's really broke. as in super broke na miskang piso wla jud cya..(luoy nuh?) and xempre girls always have "want" urges bya jud no matter what, which includes "honey, can u buy me this? or honey, buy me a dog pls?" iyang ma-ingon ra tawn kay paningkamutan nya..and its nice bya to hear mu ingon cya paningkamutan nya even tho u know he doesnt have a single money..but honestly? never ni sud sa akong mind na i'd leave him bcoz he's so damn broke..i love the guy, why would i leave him dba? leaving a person behind especially times when u need her the most would cause an emotional breakdown and some anxiety disorders..
all im saying is..a girl nver leaves a guy if she does truly love him. life is all about sacrifices and problems. this is just some trials to see if a couple makes their way thru. f they do then that would may everyone happy. if they don't well, let's just say there's someone out there alot better than that person. life is life. its what makes the world go round. ryt?![]()
unsaon mn sad nimo na ang luv kung ang usa mura ug parasite?
girls do you like guys who's like daddy warbucks? kanang magcge gasto ug libre ninyu?
why ofcourse kung bati sad ug nawung i'm xur librehan jud mo but if you want a guy who's for keeps? be INDEPENDENT not only financially but emotionally as well... it's hard to find a girl that can stand on her own and has backbone... hello your guy is not stress ball and your guy is definitely not working for charity...

so you were thinking na unana imo gf b4 rdyteves?
maybe she was thinking that you might understand her situation.
Originally Posted by frenchfries
i dont want to talk about it.... but im speaking in general... and this should also be a lesson to some... some men don't want to be the knight in shining armor all the time.
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