I agree that being direct is better..
Pero for me, I'd rather let her invest on me than me investing on her.
Common man gud ni sa mga lalake na "formula" (By the way, this is based on my own experiences and observations):
PROPOSE + INVEST = RESULT
Guys
PROPOSE to girls first...Dayon pahuwaton pa sila sa mga girls and as a result, these guys
INVEST their emotions sa ila gpanguyaban. How? By buying gifts, hatod kuha, tawag2x, text2x, bangkag kaon, pliti, etc! Hasol ra kaayo! Wahehehe! Later maghuwat sa
RESULT if nakapasar ba or fail.
So I came up w/ my own "formula"...
It's
ATTRACT + INVEST + PROPOSE
I'll attract the chick first, then I'll make her invest her emotions..Kana gani murag kadugayan kay mingawon na siya nako, magsige nag text, kana gani style na ishare nako niya sa iyang mga friends kay she thinks she's in love w/ me? Ka gets mo? After ana kay I'll make her "propose" pero in a subtle manner. Basta, you'll get the hint if pwede na siya panguyaban. Kana gani igdiskarte nimo sugton na ka niya dayon? Kana gani naghuwat na siya ug maayo nako na style? Or siya na lang jud ang mubuto...siya na ang mutug-an nako.
Diba payter?
If you wanna learn this, we can meet and discussed these things. I can share to you some references na akong gpanggamit. I'll even introduce you to the "community" diri sa Pinas. 