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[diem]

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@cookie_cola, its not normally my thing to judge people but I think your boyfriend is just an arrogant neanderthal. How could he make you feel insecure and seem inadequate by describing his bestfriend to you as 'every guy's PERFECT girlfriend'?! Who are you then, chopped liver?!

Who, in heaven's name, does he consider and see you as, cookie?! If he's really sees you as more special than his girl bestfriend, shouldn't you be the One he consider as "perfect" for him?!

Your instincts are telling you something's up and your senses are keeping record of these little details that tell you that something is wrong..... . You're not being paranoid girl, you're just having your woman's intuition shrilling an alarm.

I humbly think your boyfriend is a player, he's having his cake and eating it too. He's selfishly enjoying the attention and company of two women without caring how each other truly feels of the situation. If I'm wrong then maybe he's just this insensitive idiot with an EQ and IQ of null.

Bottomline: Life is short, YOUTH is SHORTER. Please don't waste it suffering.

Sincerely wishing you all the best in Life and in Love!

[MyMaria]

okay two things......

a) ditch the guy
b) teach him who's boss

for more info.. message me nalang. :mrgreen:

[wicked_b]

when you are not a couple but you are sexually attached wit each other.
she is single and is not dating anyone else.
what was on her mind is that, why not enjoy the game then..
the gurl is falling for the guy but the guy doesnt want commitments.
the gurl is aware of that. but practically she is accomodating what the guy wants and offers.
she is having doubts wether to stick to the
so-called relationship or get out of it fast.
so she put a space and never communicated wit the guy again.
but after a month the guy wanted to see her again.
will she give in?
will it be possible that the guy can learn to love her back?
can guys develope love from lust?

please give ideas..

will she give in?
will it be possible that the guy can learn to love her back?
can guys develope love from lust?

1st Q: will she give in?
NO!!! in a sense dont let go over with ur HEART..
dba, u started to play with him..PLAY the GAME wise..
aim to WIN. for the reason kung unsa result sa game
iether ma.inlove xa nimo or wala, still no hurt feelings dn
u jpon ang wa ma.alkansi..
coz in that kind of affair bai, gamer to gamer ang gurl
dont pa alkansi kai alkansi namn jed daan ang gurl..sa sense
nga play MIND ove HEART not Heart ove Mind..

2nd Q: will it be possible that the guy can learn to love her back?
YES!!! of course labi na nkita nya u nga u have the guts
to love back..pro depende sa guy sad, kung iya treat u is
pang PLAY lang, h*** jed..wa epek ang imong ghatag nga love
kunohay..as wat ive said play it wiser, aim to go home the bacon! hehehe

3rd Q: can guys develope love from lust?
NO!!! to me...when guys man gud start
mkig.close sa gurl through body-body confuse au na
cla kung love na after ***..kai all i know sa guy jed.
once confuse na cla they never risk, kung confuse labi
na sa feelings better na daw ana nila nga wala..
so libog pana cla nato..lisud na i.teach ila heart..


hope miss u get my point..kung libog PM me lang..

[iryn]

when you are not a couple but you are sexually attached wit each other.
she is single and is not dating anyone else.
what was on her mind is that, why not enjoy the game then..
the gurl is falling for the guy but the guy doesnt want commitments.
the gurl is aware of that. but practically she is accomodating what the guy wants and offers.
she is having doubts wether to stick to the
so-called relationship or get out of it fast.
so she put a space and never communicated wit the guy again.
but after a month the guy wanted to see her again.
will she give in?
will it be possible that the guy can learn to love her back?
can guys develope love from lust?

please give ideas..

tell your friend she's just a bootie call,
she better get out of that unhealthy relationship because after everything she will be at the losing end.

[gelbey04]

sometimes we overused the word love, we tend to forget what it really means. :mrgreen:

[MyMaria]

when you are not a couple but you are sexually attached wit each other.
she is single and is not dating anyone else.
what was on her mind is that, why not enjoy the game then..
the gurl is falling for the guy but the guy doesnt want commitments.
the gurl is aware of that. but practically she is accomodating what the guy wants and offers.
she is having doubts wether to stick to the
so-called relationship or get out of it fast.
so she put a space and never communicated wit the guy again.
but after a month the guy wanted to see her again.
will she give in?
will it be possible that the guy can learn to love her back?
can guys develope love from lust?

please give ideas..

Lust is powerful and seductive, but it's inherently selfish and opposed to love. As we foster and feed lust in our lives we're dragged inexorably towards isolation, loneliness, insecurity and emptiness. What do we have left when orgasm becomes boring and unsatisfying, left alone to face the pain of guilt and loneliness?

Love with commitment is clearly very expensive and hard work. It requires honor, respect, forgiveness and sacrifice. However it's the road out of the loneliness, suspicion and despair that plagues our culture. If we substitute lust for love we end up with a meaningless sensation which eventually loses its novelty and can never satisfy beyond the physical.

God's intention for us is that we should be set free from the power and slavery of lust and become men and women of genuine love. Everyone falls short of a God who views sleeping around and entertaining lustful thoughts alike. However, he offers us all the forgiveness we need to bring us into a deep personal relationship with him. The love we experience in our relationship with God begins to be worked out in our relationships with each other. Our choice is either to respond to God's offer and pursue a life of love empowered by his love or to reject him and set off on our own. -Duncan Moore

Nothing is impossible, lust can turn into love as long as it becomes true love... people/things change... you'll never know, until you try.. i believe that's what happened in the first place

[diem]

[font=arial][b]@MyMaria ^^Amen to that, sister

[dessay]

when you are not a couple but you are sexually attached wit each other.
she is single and is not dating anyone else.
what was on her mind is that, why not enjoy the game then..
the gurl is falling for the guy but the guy doesnt want commitments.
the gurl is aware of that. but practically she is accomodating what the guy wants and offers.
she is having doubts wether to stick to the
so-called relationship or get out of it fast.
so she put a space and never communicated wit the guy again.
but after a month the guy wanted to see her again.
will she give in?
will it be possible that the guy can learn to love her back?
can guys develope love from lust?

please give ideas..

good that she got out of it quick! it was a smart thing to do.

In my opinion,

it's all about love for one's self
It's all about taking control and making some boundaries.
and
about knowing the pros and cons.

Her choices will reflect her happiness.

If the guys is indeed in love with her, he'll find a way to prove it...mga butang na wala niya gi-expect na mabuhat sa guy mabuhat na kung tinuod gyud ang gibati sa lalaki. I believe na once ma in love ang mga guys there's no stopping them...todo bigay gyud na.

kining klase na relasyon, ang babaye gyud permi malugi kay kita mga gurls emotional ta ug dali ra ta ma-attach..
Ako pa niya, kung interesado gyud ang guy na makig-balik niya, they should start anew. Maybe, as friends lang usa.. that is how a real relationship should start...getting to know each other- then develop na---- usa na ang toyi!

In a generation wherein *** is more of an activity than love-making.... 2 out of ten ra siguro ng magka-FB ma develop oi....

[rainne]

how does one balance love and money?(having no money..that is.)

[rainne]

unsaon kung way kwatra ang tao?
meaning wa sai uyab?