Falling in Love with Someone who is MARRIED!

[twelve11]

[color=pink]mga ma'ms, thanks kaayo ha.. kc those things realy help me,,
im an aloof person kc,, i seldom talk with people, labi na if personal matters, except for those very close family & friends.. dba TWELVE11?[/color]

yep! she's a shy gurl...but one's she started talking... na hala ugma pa moh mahuman! hehehe

[jonielynne18]

day, ur young pa man, dont rush....daghan pka makit an nga ulitawo, kana wla responsibilidad sa lain....kanang if minyo namu imu rajud pamilya hunahunaon ug wla na lain.....lisod mn gud au na naa lain responsibilidad imu partner....mag cgeh judmo ug away ana...djud na malikayan nga ma lagot ka....so better, karon nga wlah pa better palayo nalng ka and find for the right guy for you.

[denis_jay]

no offense sis but i dont trust him..keeping things from you, not having met ur parents or you being introduced to his family, keeping things from you even his past, those are enough reasons not to trust him that much..pero luv man lagi nimo cya u look way past that, clouded ang imong vision mixed up ang imong emotions over the logical and obvious negative things..im a guy and honestly if il do that sort of thing to a girl thats because i dont intend to be with her forever..trip2x lang

and wala man ka dapat itago sa imong past no matter how dark it was still its all in the past and its what makes you who you are today and the kind of person you will be someday

its a good thing na ur posting this predicament in this thread para ul get "out of the box" opinion on the matter, lisod man gud if ul ask advice from your friends or someone who knows both of u coz one way or another clouded and bias ang ilang ma share sa imoha..as for us who doesnt know both we can give you our fair and just opinion..

goodluck sis

[din428]

no offense sis but i dont trust him..keeping things from you, not having met ur parents or you being introduced to his family, keeping things from you even his past, those are enough reasons not to trust him that much..pero luv man lagi nimo cya u look way past that, clouded ang imong vision mixed up ang imong emotions over the logical and obvious negative things..im a guy and honestly if il do that sort of thing to a girl thats because i dont intend to be with her forever..trip2x lang

really? btaw sad sa? kaya nga i post it here, kc i want to see things that's beyond what i can see
bfore my pastor and his wife told me why that I need other people to see our relationship kc things could be different on how I see it,,,
I know daghan ko nakita na flaws and bad sides sa amo relationship but i was trying to justify it with my love for him...
the best thing I cud do now is to slow down...

wat do u think about this twelve11?

[twelve11]

no offense sis but i dont trust him..keeping things from you, not having met ur parents or you being introduced to his family, keeping things from you even his past, those are enough reasons not to trust him that much..pero luv man lagi nimo cya u look way past that, clouded ang imong vision mixed up ang imong emotions over the logical and obvious negative things..im a guy and honestly if il do that sort of thing to a girl thats because i dont intend to be with her forever..trip2x lang

i don't think the guy really intended to keep things from her.guess he was waitin for the right time to tell her.can't blame him he needs to protect himself from being hurt.

also if naa na xa family from the start(which is annuled na ron) does that mean he doesn't have the right to find a new one?

i wonder pud if ikaw ang naa sa situation sa guy what would u do?trip trip lang pud?

[twelve11]

What to do about Difficult or Missing Pieces of Life’s Puzzle

1. Remember that when the puzzle box is first opened you can’t see the whole picture, but God does.

2. Remember that the puzzle has sides and fits together in God’s own design and time, not ours. So it is best to take a deep breath and give it to Him.

3. Nothing fits together outside God’s perimeter for our individual lives, so it is futile to run here and there looking for the answers to the puzzle, when we need to be waiting before Him and concentrating on what He wants for our lives.

4. Remember that every one’s puzzle is different; so don’t try to fit other’s pieces into your puzzle. God gives individual answers to individual people.

5. Expect there to be missing pieces and learn to live with it. You’ll only produce baldness by pulling your hair out, not answers.

6. Be grateful for the pieces of life’s puzzles that fit and be satisfied with what God shows you. He still knows best.

7. Be more patient, some things take more time and come harder. Easier said than done, but it is good advice.

8. Remember God is the glue that keeps your life’s puzzle together.

[din428]

i don't think the guy really intended to keep things from her.guess he was waitin for the right time to tell her.can't blame him he needs to protect himself from being hurt.

also if naa na xa family from the start(which is annuled na ron) does that mean he doesn't have the right to find a new one?

i wonder pud if ikaw ang naa sa situation sa guy what would u do?trip trip lang pud?

huhuh!! makaiyak mn pud ta nmo twelve oi,, huhuhu!! i owe you a hug!! by the way about the book il barrow it this sunday nlng k?

[din428]

What to do about Difficult or Missing Pieces of Life’s Puzzle

1. Remember that when the puzzle box is first opened you can’t see the whole picture, but God does.

2. Remember that the puzzle has sides and fits together in God’s own design and time, not ours. So it is best to take a deep breath and give it to Him.

3. Nothing fits together outside God’s perimeter for our individual lives, so it is futile to run here and there looking for the answers to the puzzle, when we need to be waiting before Him and concentrating on what He wants for our lives.

4. Remember that every one’s puzzle is different; so don’t try to fit other’s pieces into your puzzle. God gives individual answers to individual people.

5. Expect there to be missing pieces and learn to live with it. You’ll only produce baldness by pulling your hair out, not answers.

6. Be grateful for the pieces of life’s puzzles that fit and be satisfied with what God shows you. He still knows best.

7. Be more patient, some things take more time and come harder. Easier said than done, but it is good advice.

8. Remember God is the glue that keeps your life’s puzzle together.

its great twelve11.. thanks.. hug.hug!

[twelve11]

@din428

yep sunday's better!

[denis_jay]

i never said he doesnt hav the ryt to hav another girl after getting annuled, kana man gani uban ngita pag lain and we justify it bisan naa na wife, my point is if u wana be with her be honest with her and i mean free-fall with the truth and hope u guys will survive kaysa mag tago2x

if he was waiting for the ryt time i wonder when is that? naa na sila kids? inig ka tigulang na nila? unsa iyang gihuwat pasko? has he ever thought of the girls side? women need security in relationship now is he making him feel secure by keeping those things from her? and why does he keep his past? can he change it if he keep it? mas lesser ang damage if cya mismo ang mosulti sa girl kaysa ang girl pa ang maka discover mas ma appreciate pa na sa babae despite the pain it wil bring

if i were on that guys situation? simple lang bro I WONT DO THE THINGS THAT HE HAS DONE coz wla man ko nag trip2x