How to Heal A Broken Heart?

[wsraxe]

fixing a broken heart is really difficult. shit!

[Velvett]

fixing a broken heart is really difficult. shit!

lisod, dugay, kapoy *sigh*

[JaM_meE]

i guess..if that tym comes.. the best thing i can do is to go back to gym.. enroll for short course/ take another 4 yr course.. remind myself everyday that there are billionzzz of people in the world and its not possible to find another guy better/like him.

[wsraxe]

acceptance then start mending by loving yourself. make-over, shop, enroll in dancing class, jog, party with friends, sing your heart out or travel. it helps a lot.

[pinkit]

me too apil ko dha

[taga_ipil]

acceptance then start mending by loving yourself. make-over, shop, enroll in dancing class, jog, party with friends, sing your heart out or travel. it helps a lot.

uyon ko ani.. its hard to forget and forget if acceptance is not present...

[taga_ipil]

im in love at the moment...
though we know someday we will have to go seperate ways..

i guess..if that tym comes.. the best thing i can do is to go back to gym.. enroll for short course/ take another 4 yr course.. remind myself everyday that there are billionzzz of people in the world and its not possible to find another guy better/like him.

I'm one of these billionzzz guys hehehe

[charmz_fire]

sakit.dugay...suma,. mangita ug lingaw para dli mapukos sa gebati..

[Ryan747]

Surviving the Breakup Season: How to Mend Your Broken Heart
Source: Yahoo

Don't Get Down on Yourself
“After a breakup, people tend to plummet into a pit of low self-esteem and guilt.”
After a breakup, people tend to plummet into a pit of low self-esteem and guilt. You are looking for reasons why the relationship ended, and you start obsessing and blaming yourself. "Maybe I was too hard on her for canceling dinner with my parents" or "Maybe I shouldn't have yelled at him when he came home late without calling."
This kind of negative thinking spirals out of control quickly. You may start feeling you're not attractive enough or funny enough or just plain good enough to be with that person, which isn't true. Sit down. Take a breath. And STOP this negative thinking right now! This isn't to say that you shouldn't reflect on your role in the relationship. Just be kinder to yourself!

Forget About Being Friends
Anything that has the word "friend" in it, forget about. "Friends with benefits," "Just friends" -- just say "No."
“It's hard to move on when you are still keeping one foot in the past.”
It's hard to move on when you are still keeping one foot in the past. It's time to rely on your other friends for support and get out there and make new friends. You won't be as quick to accept an invite to a party or call an old high school friend if you are busy with your ex.

Stop Thinking They're "All That"
When a relationship is over, it's easier to think of the good times as opposed to the bad times. The annoying habits and bad character traits seem to recede into the background. All you can think about is the great chemistry and the fun Saturday nights you had going out to your fave Italian restaurant together.
What you're doing is idealizing the relationship now that it's gone. You're turning it into some blockbuster movie romance when at best it was a B movie with mixed reviews. Start looking at it with more objectivity. Remind yourself of the fights you had and the frustration you felt.

Start Dating Again
Post breakup, some people might advise you to work on yourself and forget about the dating scene for a while. And if that's what you feel like doing, no problem. However, this isn't good for everyone and there is nothing wrong with getting back out there sooner rather than later.
“Emailing a person you met online or going on a dinner date may be just the thing you need to lift your spirits.”
Emailing a person you met online or going on a dinner date may be just the thing you need to lift your spirits. Of course, this doesn't mean you should dive into anything right away either. Start by getting your feet wet.

Never Lose Hope
When you are hurting after a breakup, it's easy to tell yourself, "I'll never meet anyone this fabulous again" or "I'll never find anyone." But the reality is, you WILL meet someone and, eventually, you will wind up in a better relationship. If this one was healthy and meant to be, you wouldn't be broken up. If you maintain hope and don't give into the hurt, you can pursue and find what you are looking for.

[BuslotBulsa]

slowly pick up the broken pieces of your heart...