What to do?

[PebblesandKisses]

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haay naku. mao ni. barato rkai magpakasal pero ang pa-annul. my goodnes, perte ka-mahal.

Think about it TS, ul be dealing with this man's status, kids, the ex wife, for life if ever. pag-uyab² samo, ayaw samo pakasal, ayaw sa na huna²a ang annullment.

Unsa na diay mo kadugay TS? paabta sa ug 5 years. then ask urself again if you still wanna get married.

[Dj Know_well]

mao ni gi ingon TS nga "you have the right love at the wrong man"... ibutang nato sakto nga LOVE nimu cya, pero ang sunod nga pangutana.. is he legally free? OK ra nga mag buwag cla sa iya family, pero ayaw nlng pun-e ang problema.. try to think of this "ma sulbad ba ang problema niya sa iyang family kung pananglit mag ipon mong duha?" ang problema TS dili ma sulbad kung pun-an ug lain nga problema... ako dili ko mu-tuo nga kana silang duha (ang bana ug aswa) dili na mag ka uli... walay problema nga dili ma kuha sa storya, ug pinasaylo-ay... ang bana mu ingon lng na siya nga wala na siyay gusto sa iya asawa kay naa man ka.. naa man siyay choice... pero kung gusto jud ka nga mutabang nila, if you really LOVE the person, tabangi siya nga mu balik sa iyang pamilya, pahig mata-a siya sa iyang pag katulog, pabalika siya sa iyang pamilya, Mao na ang tinuod nga GUGMA..

[Psyche18]

Dj Know_well: wow..late nani nako nabasa nga advice pero ds s what i really did..I already told him that..Thanks a lot..ako lang e pray nga makaya ra nako..ug makaya ra niya tanan.ako giingnan nga balik lang sa imong pamilya gud..kahebaw ko gehandum pa gihapon nimo imong mga anak..I love them too..basta..sana makaya ko lahat lahat..kahit masakit..pero akong e sakripisyo sd para sa iyang pamilya....ds s not easy pero I need to..THANKS A LOT SA INYONG MGA ADVICES...I appreciate everyone..GOD BLESS US ALL!!!

[ad_dur]

Under the law ur partner is still legally married to her wife.

So, ang wife naa pay habol sa iya husband and ur relationship may turn sour if his wife decides to file a case againts both you.

I would suggest that if you dont have the money to process the annulment. Let your partner and her wife sign an agreement that they are no longer together with the given time and that none of them will interfere with each others business.

Make sure theirs witnesses when this is agreement is signed. Importantly have it notarized. So to make it a legal document.

[maddox_pitt]

Why do people always say that? I love him etc when he's married and legally bound to be with his wife..I don't wanna judge, pero did it ever occur to you what his wife says and feels about her husband having a gf while he's still married to her?

[maddox_pitt]

Dj Know_well: wow..late nani nako nabasa nga advice pero ds s what i really did..I already told him that..Thanks a lot..ako lang e pray nga makaya ra nako..ug makaya ra niya tanan.ako giingnan nga balik lang sa imong pamilya gud..kahebaw ko gehandum pa gihapon nimo imong mga anak..I love them too..basta..sana makaya ko lahat lahat..kahit masakit..pero akong e sakripisyo sd para sa iyang pamilya....ds s not easy pero I need to..THANKS A LOT SA INYONG MGA ADVICES...I appreciate everyone..GOD BLESS US ALL!!!

I hope you will find someone who is unattached and could love you more than he did

[God'sWarfare]

basta if love nimo siya, go lang.. hehehe maayo kay friends mo sa asawa, kung ako ikaw no? tabangan nako ug tigom ang akong uyab to finish it asap, para makakalas na siya sa iyang past and to live a happy life with you don't be negative, daghan na kaayo karon ang gipakasal not because of love but obligations. So if the guy really loves you and you feel the same ug swerte pa kaayo ka sa tanan kay payts ra kaayo ang asawa na makigbuwag sa imong uyab, tigumi na ninyo.

[lejean]

uncertain man tanan TS...

fact #1 you love him and he loves you
fact #2 he is married but would want to be with you
fact #3 problem is to make it all legal para both of you can go out and be called as husband and wife
fact #4 annulment is the solution but lay ika-afford

possible things that may happen

#1 unsa guarantiya na kaw ra jud ang babaye sa yaha kinabuhi if ma married mo, he did to his wife naa gane sila kids how much more with you? mura ra kaw ni puli sa yaha wife, then kaw nasad mo face sa circumstance na naa sya laen. im not saying na mahetabo ne but men will be men man gud, sooner or later it will happen. willing ka mo accept ana?

#2 ma puno ka sa libak sa mga tawo, complicated au nyoha situation, and a lot of things will add on to your problematic love life... willing baka to go through life and say to yourself "love conquers all" makaya ra lage ne namo, etc...

what i can suggest?

1. live each day with him as if it it is your last.
2. yaw pag expect na maging kamo legally etc, kay the more you expect you are going to fall so hard you are not going to get up and move on
3. ayaw paminaw sa uban tawo, kana mga negative stuff, mga libak, ikaw ra og muha uyab ron nakabalo what the real score is... you get into that situation you know unsa moha gisudlan you are of legal age and matured na nesud ka ana.
4. love him, continue to love him without forgetting loving yourself...
5. remember, sooner or later mawala sya sa moha life (either death or other reason) be prepared for that, you do not own him even iyaha wife does not own him. nobody owns anybody...
6. you are the captain of your own ship, take control of your life...
7. be happy...

good luck TS

[Dj Know_well]

Dj Know_well: wow..late nani nako nabasa nga advice pero ds s what i really did..I already told him that..Thanks a lot..ako lang e pray nga makaya ra nako..ug makaya ra niya tanan.ako giingnan nga balik lang sa imong pamilya gud..kahebaw ko gehandum pa gihapon nimo imong mga anak..I love them too..basta..sana makaya ko lahat lahat..kahit masakit..pero akong e sakripisyo sd para sa iyang pamilya....ds s not easy pero I need to..THANKS A LOT SA INYONG MGA ADVICES...I appreciate everyone..GOD BLESS US ALL!!!

Daghang salamat pud TS, sorry pud late ko naka visit diri... salamat sa Ginoo kay nindot nga disisyon imu na buhat...

[anguish_darkness]

So, what's the reason nganong buwag sila? Is it because of you? pareho mong duha sa imong boyfriend mga walay buot, wla na gani kwarta nangabit pa. I feel sorry for your parents for raising a b*tch. Take my advice, leave the man, you don't know what you are dealing with, they are bounded by law which means you commit a crime and they are bounded by the will of God which means you commit a sin. You(a b*tch)+married man(an asshole, no money, can't stick to commitment, a womanizer obviously) is equals to a sh*tty relationship. Goodluck! have a nice day