Who here has love problems?

[i_am_fairy]

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Here's my situation. Na share nani nako sa other thread sad

He and I are close friends. We chat almost everyday since he work overseas. he shares his ideas, thoughts even decisions in life. I was not attracted to him at first, but since he cares for me, na like na nako xa. there was one time, while chatting ana xa nga nagbuhat daw xag presentation para sa ilang company but i was surprised kay ga cge gihapon xag chat nako. then he told me nga he was preparing the presentation while chatting with me. na touch ko ato. he also was the first person to greet me sa akong bday and it was unexpected kay i never imagined him remembering my natal day.

naglibog na ko ron kung unsa jud iyang tan aw sa ako. am i friend or he wants more than being a friend? i wanted so much to tell him how i feel for him pero maulaw ko and mahadlok ko nga mausab nya iyang tagad sa ako.

anybody tell me what to do? is he into me also ba?

[Whales]

Fairy, dont give in to him so easily... Ang mga OFW kasagaran ganahan jud na sila ug ka chat permi para maka lingaw nila ug makatambal sa kamingaw sa ila family... kasagaran man gud sa ila is wala kaayo kaistoeya while naa sila sa gawas mao na nga the hook on chatting... iv known a lot of OFW na makig chat sila para ma fill in ang kamingaw... More precaution lang jud Fairy kay masakitan unya ka...

[DEMENTIA]

okay :3 would you like to share your problem?

lisod man i share kai taas ra..ako lang gyd na notice kasagaran kai naa man gyd ma involve other girl..i dont know why ngtarong man unta ko..

[pretty_lady]

@Queen mojitos

same ta ug problema until now wla pud ko uyab..2013 na..at the age 33 no uyab since birth huhuhuhuuh..

@Cris_ kakashi24: naa u ka tambag/ka tabang?

[hans josefina]

ako....kung asa ko toa sad cya...hahahaha.... pero dili cya maka storya... di bitaw oyy... im single for 2years... wla lang,boring ra akong lovelife..zero balance...

[taekitaeki]

ako TS!

this is my story:

i had this bf when i was in college year 2003 pero among relationship is way klaro ky chickboi kaau cya, as in mo communicate lang cyag kalit nko then mawa nasad pila ka weeks or months,walay permanent number so di gyud nako cya ma reach cya ray kabaw sa akong number.pagkauyab namo na inlove jud kog maau ani nya kay he has the sense of humor na turn on jud ko which is wala nako nakita from my past relationships and even sa akong husband karon.on and off jud among comunication wala mi klaro nga closure,kung magkakita mig balik ok mi kung di nasad ok lang gihapon mi frends lang gihapon mi, maski kaybaw nami nga naa mi mga uyab ato na time.pero maski naka uyab nko after nya naa lang gihapon times na mokalit lang cyag sud sa akong huna2x, mag damgo ko nya.days,months,years past until i got married and so is he.frends mi sa fb usahay mag ka chat mi pero purely friendly things ra among storyaan,di mi mag storya sa among na agian or namong duha and pnagsa ra sad kaau kay dili kaau cya tig online.until 1 time nag ka chat mi nangau cyag number so i give him not my main number but my extra sim.ni txt dayon cya pag log out.kumusta na daw ko,about mga problema and etc. nya ako cya ge ingnan molakaw ko and sad cya asa ko ako sad cya ge ingnan asa akong destination.wa ko nag expect na niadto sad diay cya sa ako destination so nagkakita jud mi.mao to nagkatalk mi for awhile,we shared experiences sa married life,problems.ni abot sa point nihilak ko ni ask cya nganu nihilak ko ako cya ge ingnan na konsensha ko.nikalit bitaw na cya ask nko ani na question: "naa ko pangutana nimo,naa pakay feelings nko?" na shock ko.i answered wala na.honestly diko kasabot skong self,di man sad ko kaingon na inlove pko nya but murag gemingaw lang ko sa mga things na nakapakatawa nko kung akong reminisce murag lahi na kalipay akong na feel ato bah.so nakahinumdom na nuon kog balik namong duha.nihilak kog samot.iyang ge trapohan akong tears nya ge gunitan nya akong kamot.ana cya strong man akong pagkaila nimo ayawg hilak strong man akong pagkaila nimo.then i ask the same question f naa paba cya feelings nko.dugay kaau cya nitubag nya but then he said wala na.pero ang pagka ingon is pretending bitaw(dko assuming pero mailhan man jud if from the heart ang tubag kay mka tubag ka sa questions promptly).then ni follow up pa gyud cyag ingon "if mutubag kog naa pakoy feelings i know dika mahimutang ig abot sa inyo mao ni ana kog wala na".then i said wala na tay mahimo now kay puros nata minyo lets leave everything behind.then we had a closure then he says sorry .ni ask cya ug embrace but i refused.then we parted.

after that incident murag mo boto akong heart diko kasabot...daghan unta kog questions na ipangutana nya pero wa nko na ask nya.

even sa akong mga dreams mo exist gihapon cya diko kasabot nganu ingani cya kadako ug impact nko..

unsay ma sulti nimo ani TS?

[chris_kakashi24]

Here's my situation. Na share nani nako sa other thread sad

He and I are close friends. We chat almost everyday since he work overseas. he shares his ideas, thoughts even decisions in life. I was not attracted to him at first, but since he cares for me, na like na nako xa. there was one time, while chatting ana xa nga nagbuhat daw xag presentation para sa ilang company but i was surprised kay ga cge gihapon xag chat nako. then he told me nga he was preparing the presentation while chatting with me. na touch ko ato. he also was the first person to greet me sa akong bday and it was unexpected kay i never imagined him remembering my natal day.

naglibog na ko ron kung unsa jud iyang tan aw sa ako. am i friend or he wants more than being a friend? i wanted so much to tell him how i feel for him pero maulaw ko and mahadlok ko nga mausab nya iyang tagad sa ako.

anybody tell me what to do? is he into me also ba?

Hey There! Whales is right :/ Don't expect to much out of it you dont want to be caught in a lot of problems if the guy is married :/

Fairy, dont give in to him so easily... Ang mga OFW kasagaran ganahan jud na sila ug ka chat permi para maka lingaw nila ug makatambal sa kamingaw sa ila family... kasagaran man gud sa ila is wala kaayo kaistoeya while naa sila sa gawas mao na nga the hook on chatting... iv known a lot of OFW na makig chat sila para ma fill in ang kamingaw... More precaution lang jud Fairy kay masakitan unya ka...

[chris_kakashi24]

lisod man i share kai taas ra..ako lang gyd na notice kasagaran kai naa man gyd ma involve other girl..i dont know why ngtarong man unta ko..

hmmm okay is this about a boy? your boyfriend? crush? husband? closefriend? :3
well either way it could be that he sees something different towards the other girl? or maybe you need a little space for you to make your love grow stronger with each other? being in an open relationship i think could help you if both parties will be alright with the idea? :/ i'm not really sure about your situation :/

[chris_kakashi24]

@Queen mojitos

same ta ug problema until now wla pud ko uyab..2013 na..at the age 33 no uyab since birth huhuhuhuuh..

@Cris_ kakashi24: naa u ka tambag/ka tabang?

as i have told @Queen mojitos

If you are a girl then TELL HIM! don't be afraid to tell him that you like him. In japan they have cultures that the girl is always the first one to tell/initiate if they love a guy. So why not try doing that here in the philippines, right? i mean we already have adopted the western cultures, this so called "1 night Stands" so why not try the Japanese's culture of courting? what do you have to lose? or regret it your whole life trust me it might be awkward but if it helps you not be smothered in regret then i say DO IT!

On valentines Day WOMEN give chocolates to guys and on White day <March 14> MEN would give back if he likes the girl

[chris_kakashi24]

ako....kung asa ko toa sad cya...hahahaha.... pero dili cya maka storya... di bitaw oyy... im single for 2years... wla lang,boring ra akong lovelife..zero balance...

Zero ang lovelife? no suitors? :3 have you tried online dating sites? not that i'm promoting it but it's worth a try, i mean the feeling of being loved and being in love is the most beautiful feeling in this world >_< and YES LOVE can be an addicting feeling hahaha but it's good

DYK:
The urge to fall in love is, like *** and hunger, a primitive, biological drive ^_^
~Fun Facts