TS: gusto ka makatry sa ako natry? since elementary strikto kaayo ako papa. naa jud mi sked na sundon sa studying. 7pm-9pm jud na. ako usual alibi kay wala koy homework pero ang itubag sa ako papa kay "magtuon ra diay ka ug naay homework?" so mao na napugos ko ug tuon. and lain pud kay papilion pud mi sauna nga magtuon na normal o magtuon nga gahilak?hehehehe... either way magtuon ra japon so i prefer nga normal maski walay gana. unya he would always tell me na magstudy jud ko kay mao mana ang ako responsibilty as a student, mao na ako role sa soceity as a student. kay kung dili ko magtuon paundangon ko ug eskwela... unya hatagan dayon ko niya ug example na kung dili ko mueskwela wala nakoy tun-anan. so kay tambay man ko magwork nalang ko. unya wala man ko kaeskwela mahemo kong kargador sa pantalan o driver sa sikad o anything na hard labor ka init ug kayod sa taman na mga klase sa work. mao to naningkamot pud ko. muhilak na gud ko basta paundangon ko ug eskwela.
so naanad ko sa ingana na pattern until namatay ako papa. pero nadala japon nako until college ang study habit... dili man ko very outstanding na student pero i always make sure na i get to study jud. coz either way ako ra japon magsuffer sa unahan if i get lazy in studying. so mao na ako masulti TS, the motivation is not about setting up positive or negative reinforcements but rather it is setting your mind on what you wanna be few years from now and how would you like to see yourself then. like "hosey" mentioned, "Make a specific goal in your life..."
setting your goal in life means you have to set you priorities. what are your top 5 priorities? and if you already have those, then there goes the decision making. from the book of Stephen Covey "First things First" you have to set things around u depending on its "importance" and "urgency".
there are things that are "urgent but not important"
there are things that are "not urgent and not important"
there are things that are "urgent and important"
there are things that are "not urgent but important"
this is how you manage it...for a start.
God bless!![]()
mag lisod na diay pangita trabaho mga 25+ na ang edad? naa raba tako plano mag engineering..lets say mga 26 na ako age kung maka graduate ko ana meaning lisod na kaayo ko madawat?
ask yourself first. Naay future or walay future XD
sayon ra..magtagay..hahahahah
Money. Sa paman diay.
"find a job you like, and you won't have to work a day in your life."
parehas ra na sa: "find a college course you like, and you won't have to study a day in your life."
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