Dealing with a LIFE BULLY... Am I traumatized?

[quirkychinita]

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Thank you so much forvall the advises! (hugs and kisses for all)


actually. after sleeping it off, im over it. She's just oce of the many people i should be cautious about. Cuz i hate rage and di ko ganahan makawatan ko.

And yes, wala siyay maayo na family life unlike me who was born and raised with love (although naay pakapin na kasaba sakong mama, ug ocassional paluhod sa monggos courtesy of my dad)...

Nagbag-o na cguro siya....... I hope. Pero di ko ganahan ma close niya specially if asal yagit gihapon siya.


Self defense? I think i figure it out.... Lightsaber will do.... Haha! Bitaw ui, makaya ra nako ni. Di cguro ko niya unsaon kay di man pud ko makigclose niya utro. If atakihun siya sa iyang sudden rage, nah! Ambut nlng nia. Mudagan cguro ko.f



Whew! Kapoya ani.... Just because of one girl who caused me to have flashbacks from my tough elementary life, nawala akong logic! Hahaha! Ataya.... (punching my head w with my fist)


kuratan cguro ko ato na time.....

[adia]

I think that girl is weird...problem child kaau ug dating... There's something wrong with her gyud and it's not good, even dangerous to be close to her... Be vigilant gyud when you get another encounter with her... Judging from the past that she had learned where you lived without you telling her, and even telling lies to your parents, then after many years she's still that ill-mannered b*tch you once knew...who knows by now she's already learned the art of hypnotism and use it to get whatever she wants... This is really weird...

[splendid moonlight]

I think your logic is doing fine. You did say this was a girl who pulled your hair, slammed you against doors, and took stuff from you. Not to mention went to your house when you never showed her the location and asked your parents for money AND acted like a lunatic in the jeepney years later. I think you would do well to avoid her. You don't need to find out whether or not she has changed by letting her in your life once again. If she has changed then I'm sure she will, if she hasn't already, find new friends.

[quirkychinita]

@splendid moonlight. Thanks for the assurance! I feel loke im being childish for being a hefty girl who would make a helpless dachshound as a shield against that raging bully! Hahahaha!

@adia.... I havent met her parentss eber cuz shed lie about where she lives. And she got expelled twice and got suspended countless times.

soo. There goes the problem daughter..... Geeze! I pity her..... But i still fear her labaw na karon na i live alone...... (there goes the paranoid me again!)



anyway, just this morning around 4am i decided to buy bananas and eat some before getting into our offfice gym. By tje time i passed by our wifi area on my way to the store, i saw her alone, smoking and surfing the net. Ii was half sure if it was her but i just pulled my hoodie cuz i was wearing a hooded sweater to hide my face and walked fast although my knees ffelt like gelatin due to fear..... I said to my self that im not getting off the office at 4am..... May na lang naay office gym to let time pass...........


Have u ever had that moment when you walk brisk bisan kahumok imung tuhod? It felt like mamumo ko in every step...... Stupid!

Makawala ug poise!

[mindtrickz]

pusila para motagam

[tophat]

I was rather small sa elementary, not having many friends. There was this bully, a son of some political leader in our town. Ako man gitrippingan, daghan man sila grupo. What I did was bring a hunting knife the following day, and when he picked on me again, I chased him all the way to his house.

After that, no one dared messed with me again in school.

[lolzXD]

Kanang mga bully psywar-an lng ka ana. First meeting pa lng ninyu mura mog mag tinutokay unya ang unang mupiyong mao'y pilde..

[higanstolsdawen]

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[doritos_ug_mr_chips]

hmmm.. wala man gyud nag cge bully naku before. naa sometimes, pero murag mu try but i'm athletic since high school so mao na nga dili mag cge ug dili mag dugay. na sungog naku ug classmate before but mahadlok na kung ako hagdon. kusog mana sila sa istorya2x ug hambog2x pero kung tinod.on nimu hadlok na sila.

naa to older year naku pag highschool nga ni try ug bully naku. pag kahibaw niya nga mo duwa kog soccer, ni try out pud siya. aku gi pikhan pag scrimmage. dugo lage ilong. hehe

pasagdan ra na sila. wala na sila mabuhat sa ilang life. they feed on their own concept and their bugal2x sa usa ka tao to cover their insecurities. they're losers.

[domzgnrlover86]

haha i've been bullied for 9 years pagka elementary upto highschool... but nakayanan raman pd nako..wala sad kaayu koy friends kaniadto sa skul tungod anang mga daog2...