how to say goodbye ....

[hopeey]

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di na jud love?
aws, tell him/her na wa na jud tanan...
unsay dugayan?
mas dugay mas molaom na unya noon...

sayon ni sultihon kaysa buhaton ts pero kinahanglan.

uu, di na gyud sir.
cge sir, i think mao lang gyud na ang saktong himoon..
salamat ..

[cuteboy_kahoy]

TS question....

something too much gentleman or bo.utan is boring literally...

1.pila namo ka years sa relationship ninyo?

2.naka agi namog mga catastrophic problems or away sa inyong relationship?if yes how did both of you over-come the problems?

3.unsay mga reasons nganong nawala imong love nya same relationship routine? or accidentally found someone?

4.after your love fades, naa kay gibuhat pra mo balik or you just go with the flow?

5.did you try to reminisce your happy memories with him? may be that will help you realize to do something pra mo balik ang spark..

sometimes if we don't have motivations inside the relationship it will end up with "love fade"...

bitaw TS don't answer kung those thing hehehhehe gusto lang nako maka try ka og ask sa imong self ana.....pero kung gusto mo answer better pra mahibalan ang scenario why love fades..(^_^)

"finish or not finish past is past..."

[walker]

hopeey, dili kaha you still care for him? that is why you are so concerned nga masakitan sya?

[Chel Fernandez]

there are no goodbyes that aren't painful especially if there is a great feeling that gets involved...
no matter what strategy, you will still end up hurting the person... just say it... and say it now... do not wait for perfecting timing because there are no such thing as perfect timing...

just be honest but polite... do not put flowery words... "like I don't want to hurt you but..." or "I tried but..." coz i have said its still a goodbye and words can never comfort the pain of it... start by saying "it's over then sumpayi"

[ryeaka]

True goodbyes are the ones never said or explained.

[walker]

If too much love can kill.. much more so are Goodbyes.

[hopeey]

hopeey, dili kaha you still care for him? that is why you are so concerned nga masakitan sya?

i dont know sir, maybe i still respect him maong di ko ganahan nga masakitan siya.

[hopeey]

there are no goodbyes that aren't painful especially if there is a great feeling that gets involved...
no matter what strategy, you will still end up hurting the person... just say it... and say it now... do not wait for perfecting timing because there are no such thing as perfect timing...

just be honest but polite... do not put flowery words... "like I don't want to hurt you but..." or "I tried but..." coz i have said its still a goodbye and words can never comfort the pain of it... start by saying "it's over then sumpayi"

okey .. cge, i will .. salamat
i hope sooner, ako na gyud ni mahimo ..
and i think nakafeel or nakahibaw na gyud cya nga wa gyud (his also visiting this site, peru dili siya active) ..

[hopeey]

TS question....

something too much gentleman or bo.utan is boring literally...

1.pila namo ka years sa relationship ninyo?

2.naka agi namog mga catastrophic problems or away sa inyong relationship?if yes how did both of you over-come the problems?

3.unsay mga reasons nganong nawala imong love nya same relationship routine? or accidentally found someone?

4.after your love fades, naa kay gibuhat pra mo balik or you just go with the flow?

5.did you try to reminisce your happy memories with him? may be that will help you realize to do something pra mo balik ang spark..

sometimes if we don't have motivations inside the relationship it will end up with "love fade"...

bitaw TS don't answer kung those thing hehehhehe gusto lang nako maka try ka og ask sa imong self ana.....pero kung gusto mo answer better pra mahibalan ang scenario why love fades..(^_^)

"finish or not finish past is past..."

cge sir, i will try my best nga matubag ni

1. months pa lang mi atu, wla pay year..

2. i think wla, mga light ra gud, as in light ra kaayu.. peru kanang tinuod nga away gyud kay wla ..

3. wala ku kabaw sa reason sir, basta nikalit na lang nga murag na-irritate na lang ku niya ..
though wala gyud mi giawayan or mga misunderstanding churva ..
and also, wla gyud third party nga involve ani ..

4. wala, and uu, ni-go ko sa flow ..
and naglagot ko kay di ko katingog ani niya tanan..

5. yes, i try, promise.. but unfortunately wala gyud..
gi-try nako nga mbalik tanan like before but nothing happened ..


am afraid to face him again ..
coz, murag since nagcooloff mi, murag nkabantay guro xia nga gipanindigan gyud nako akong pagkasingle ..
mupost siyag mga pakonxia nga status sa fb.. maigo ra bako
hahays. nahan na ku makig talk niya.. but i really donu where to start, what reason, and etc.

another thing is, mu-take xiag board karong march, and busy baya syag review ..
nia, nakafeel ko nga sukad atung magcooloff mi kay nagkagubot na iyang utok ..
basin nia mao pa ning madahilan kung di xia kapasar ...... huhuhuhu ..

peru lain man xad kung mustay pa ko niya nia plastik na lang d.i to akung pagtagad.
hahays. kalibog ba ani ui..

[cuteboy_kahoy]

cge sir, i will try my best nga matubag ni

1. months pa lang mi atu, wla pay year..

2. i think wla, mga light ra gud, as in light ra kaayu.. peru kanang tinuod nga away gyud kay wla ..

3. wala ku kabaw sa reason sir, basta nikalit na lang nga murag na-irritate na lang ku niya ..
though wala gyud mi giawayan or mga misunderstanding churva ..
and also, wla gyud third party nga involve ani ..

4. wala, and uu, ni-go ko sa flow ..
and naglagot ko kay di ko katingog ani niya tanan..

5. yes, i try, promise.. but unfortunately wala gyud..
gi-try nako nga mbalik tanan like before but nothing happened ..


am afraid to face him again ..
coz, murag since nagcooloff mi, murag nkabantay guro xia nga gipanindigan gyud nako akong pagkasingle ..
mupost siyag mga pakonxia nga status sa fb.. maigo ra bako
hahays. nahan na ku makig talk niya.. but i really donu where to start, what reason, and etc.

another thing is, mu-take xiag board karong march, and busy baya syag review ..
nia, nakafeel ko nga sukad atung magcooloff mi kay nagkagubot na iyang utok ..
basin nia mao pa ning madahilan kung di xia kapasar ...... huhuhuhu ..

peru lain man xad kung mustay pa ko niya nia plastik na lang d.i to akung pagtagad.
hahays. kalibog ba ani ui..

good! your truly honest with your answers...i see that when it comes to relationship ang 1year paubos na pag kuyog2x is a stage of knowing each other pa jud na...well i learn it from my past...sometimes mn gud maka ingon ka na love nimo sya nya pero magkadugay mo kalit lang og kawala (sometimes)...pero we can't control or avoid it but when can learn from it.....so imong buhaton remove na word cool-off then...

you tell him na ...we can have this kind of relationship where, one of us is turning cold...tell him your hurt kay na wala ang love pra sa iya...butangi jud ani na line "Its good to be true" ...e encourage lang jud sya to pursue what hes doing (board exam) then supportahan nimo sya as a friend.....after that tell him na maybe we could both be single for a while until we find each other again (they said 2nd time around is the sweetest)......mas nindot mn gud na mitras sayo pa...but you can't blame your self kung masakitan sya ... kay buot huna.hunaon mas nasakit pud ka or naglibog pajud.....


GOOD LUCK TS....don't forget to pray for guidance...post nya kung unsa man...sge2x good night..

PS: "real men know how to set free their love ones"