Falling out of love, is there such a thing?

[nheavenw_chri]

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guys, i have this problem with my wife. things have changed between us in the past years. we're young couple with 1 daughter who is already 2 years of age. after r child was born, we planned on not having 1 for like 5 years cguro. but then, it doesnt mean that we wont be making love in that period of time. currently kasi, my wife always gives me that ill feeling of rejection. like when i try to kiss her, she just shoves me off, like parang nandidiri. then, yung mga supposedly love making sessions, nagkaroon na ng sked na minsan pa, nauuwi sa wala kasi she'll bring up reasons like napagod cya kanina, di cya nakatulog that afternoon, then, makulit yung daughter namin. at first ok yun, pero katagalan, hindi na. and the thing is, di pa kami magkatabi matulog. also, whenever we have time to relax together, she would rather be busy going online, doing things na di naman important, and what really irritates me is that she keeps asking for material things. di naman cya ganyan before. sama pa kasi whenever i try telling her about my feelings, di cya makikinig.

my love for her started to die kasi nasasaktan na ako sa mga ginagawa nya. what m i 2 do?

i can really relate to your problem, I'm married and has 15 months old daughter. I feel some kind of rejection from my husband too, maybe because I gained weight and doesn't look appealing to him. But despite that, never did I feel that I fell out of love. Pasensya lang ko niya, he has his own reasons..i just try to understand him and sacrifice my own feelings.

[grlnxtdor16]

i dunno ha. pero we dont have children yet. but for my observation noh, i think the love is still there. the thing is natabunan lang xa ug laing priorities and stuff mao na ma feel nimo nga u "fell out of love". as a couple you both have to have time for each other because that's the only way na u can have a marriage in love... work things out between the both of you. make time. dont wait for a time na kai tungod free mo. no! wrong na xa. dapat ma hatag jud mo time for yourselves. different pod na ang time for the kids. balance lang gud.

[peewee_toot]

panguyabi og balik bro.

[rocketdog31]

If you can still salvage your relationship then do so. But also be open enough to realize that maybe she's no longer into you.

When she spends more time online, that's a warning sign. Next thing you know, she's hide-texting and hide-chatting. She will be secretly texting someone else and will make sure she erases such evidence on her phone. She will also start closing her ym or chat software everytime you're around.

Next thing you know, she's in love with someone else. Or she may already be.

If she can easily change her feelings and love someone else, your relationship will not last. Trust me. I've been there. And she can just as easily change her feelings over and over without taking your relationship into consideration.

As early as now, I suggest you ditch the b*tch. She won't be worth it in the long run.

[T0xic]

when ang love na tabunan na ug anger and hatred mao na ang fall out of love.....di naka kahibaw unsaon pag balik or asa nimo pangitaon within you ang love na na feel nimo sa una for that certain person. nahitabo na oi. sayang pero unsaon man nga usahay di man jud nimo ma likayan. especially if ang partner badlungun kaayo, mao nang ma fall out of love jud ka...and the worst part ug wa kay lain choice....murag everyday nagpuyo ka sa impyerno.

[black_vixen]

panguyabi og balik bro.

The best effort you can do. Bring back the mushy thing you've done before.

when ang love na tabunan na ug anger and hatred mao na ang fall out of love.....di naka kahibaw unsaon pag balik or asa nimo pangitaon within you ang love na na feel nimo sa una for that certain person. nahitabo na oi. sayang pero unsaon man nga usahay di man jud nimo ma likayan. especially if ang partner badlungun kaayo, mao nang ma fall out of love jud ka...and the worst part ug wa kay lain choice....murag everyday nagpuyo ka sa impyerno

There's love but wrapped with hatred. Pero unsaon nlang pag.cope up if ang tao wala man lang effort
to determine nga naa siya sayop, like mka.buta bungol sa imong concerns. Mao na dha ang love matabunan nlang sa kalagut ug mo end jud sa wala ang tanan. Sayang lang!

[doydi]

i don't know kung naa jud bah

[ruchgin]

marriage is a commitment, there's no such thing like "falling out of love"... its a give and take relationship... usually its the husband that directs the relationship, the wife submits...talk over wth your wife before its too late

[yvonne6]

kalisud sad anang dili maminaw oi. ani na lang, u assure her how much you love her and that naa pud kay needs as a man. tell her, i dont want to do something stupid or be close to temptation bec i love u and our daughter but please help me nurture our relationship. if u dont help me, the love between us will die and i might eventually end up cheating on you because of whats going on. basig, maka wake up call na niya ug maka realize siya sa iya sayup. hahayz. faet, kami sa ako bf, tanan2 himuon gyud nako dili lang mi mag break. mas ako pa gani mang hagad niya, nyahaha. importante kaau ni para sa mga guys

[Undercoverlover]

ok rana bro... just talk to ur wife about what u feel.... kasabot rako sa imong part... just try to talk to her about that... para ma klaro..