Cool Off :confused:

[yanzkii]

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mahug mn gd nga desperado kaau f permi ta mu communicate dn sa part pd sa babae ky murag samukan 2 d extend nga d nah nuon ganahan time will tell ra jd f unsa,hays.. sa situation nko rn, hinay2x nlang sd ko ug kalimot ky f ma end jd ug break-up at least dli na kaau sakit sa ako part,wa nmn jd koy mabuhat f mao iya decision..

last option, moving on -_-'

[Baeybe_Bryce]

don't know what to do.. should i look for another or should i just stay hanging? this cool off thing sucks big time!! we've been together for 4 years, and ing.ani ra kadali pra nya nga mag cool off.. accept sd ko sa ako side nga naa ko sala ky nag work mn mi pariho dn weekends rami magka kita dn ds past few months ang among weekends nga dapat i.spend ky wala na, ky nka book na iyang weekend pra magkita cla sa iya friends.. wala ko mahimu,ok ra pra nko but things got even worst, bsan mangutana lng ko nga asa cya, mag unsa cya,etc.. masuko nmn cya, dli dw cya gusto permi monitoron ky mura dw cyayg ma tuok.. just to make this thing clear, walay 3rd party involve.. then i ask her nganu... all she said is she wants some space/time to think (for her future,daghan cyag gi think,etc.) lastly, she said she still love me but we need some time daw to think pra sa amu relationship and for our future..

Give her space and time na lang TS. Keep in touch from time to time. And I think it's about time for you to assess if the relationship is still worth fighting for, for both of you.


Why look for another? Are you in a hurry? As I've finished reading your post I can sense that you still care for the girl so I don't think it's right for yourself and for her , of course, to think about looking for another one. You don't need replacement but a solution.

The girl might be thinking about your see now-see later situation, so that had triggered her to keep it cool for now. You know, often times girls are just looking for the right timing to call it quits but for your case, I don't think she meant goodbye for good.

Maybe, it's just a wake up call for you to realize that she's been disappointed about the whole situation and you have to do something about it soon.

Just be thankful that there's no 3rd party involved. Though myself, I doubt if there's none. LOL JK. I know you know her better so just hope for the best.

Now, give her something to hold unto bro. If you love the girl then show her you still do. How about court her again? Nothing to lose, keep distant but show little gestures to make her realize that you're not planning of giving her up just like that.

[kimleeKINO_choi]

Even im a girl dili mn ko hilig cool-off ui..hibong pod ko why girls tend to speak these words that easy....nga murag buwag nman pod ni kong huna2on jud...hmp! anyway TS pasagdi sya. Have fun by yourself. Uyab raman mo dili kelangan nga cgeg report sya nimo or ikaw. Cguro miss mo lang sya pero naa bya pod syai life, give that to her and get a life also. Enjoy!

[xinevirtucio]

space and time and occasional paramdam...

hehehe..lols bag-o rami ni-agi ani nga phase...

it's me being stupid....

when I asked for the space....

he told me...if that makes you happy go...yaw lang kalimot naa rako dri...

turns out..all the boring things we do together is twice as boring when I do it alone....

problem sa amo kai gtake for granted ang simple things...hehehe....

same2x rmn ta ctuation....hehe let her be..mubalk ranah

[yanzkii]

so far amu communication ky ok rman, wala nami nag away o lalis2x.. she really needs time lng jd dw.. i don't know what that means, mura mn gd cyayg nalingaw sa iya mga friends pag highschool, mao every weekend insteadmgkyog mi, dli nah nuon ky mas nahan cya kyog sa iya friends.. "my friends over you" kaau..hays but still pasagdan lng ky mao mn iya kalipay ky kng imung higpitan mas mu dako mn ang change na mwala nmu..

[Cory1986]

"treadmill effect" ni Ts! caught on a routine nga pu.ol. . relationship takes a lot of effort to work. How about breakin' the routine once in a while? like visiting her sa iyang office in a weekday and taking her to dinner when she least expect it? stuff like that!! wholesome ways nga maka points jd sa relationship

OT: my ex used to be like that until na fall mi sa LDR. maka pu.ol jd ang LDR kay skype taga adlaw. "Hi, kumusta,I miss u" and end with " I love u" . maka pu.ol so nag buwag jd mi. though naa pa ko feelings nia coz sa among kasu.od while naa pa pinas, wa jd ko xa ni attempt to have S3x, which na appreciate jd nako, wa na jd ko nakipag balik kay LDR aint going to work

[hash]

don't know what to do.. Should i look for another or should i just stay hanging? this cool off thing sucks big time!! We've been together for 4 years, and ing.ani ra kadali pra nya nga mag cool off.. Accept sd ko sa ako side nga naa ko sala ky nag work mn mi pariho dn weekends rami magka kita dn ds past few months ang among weekends nga dapat i.spend ky wala na, ky nka book na iyang weekend pra magkita cla sa iya friends.. Wala ko mahimu,ok ra pra nko but things got even worst, bsan mangutana lng ko nga asa cya, mag unsa cya,etc.. Masuko nmn cya, dli dw cya gusto permi monitoron ky mura dw cyayg ma tuok.. Just to make this thing clear, walay 3rd party involve.. Then i ask her nganu... All she said is she wants some space/time to think (for her future,daghan cyag gi think,etc.) lastly, she said she still love me but we need some time daw to think pra sa amu relationship and for our future..

been there, done that.

Mu ana gani ang laki na mag cool off, sunod ana kay buwag najud. Tsk tsk. Hanu kaya dli nalang drechuhon noh? Or i think ilaha pud nang way para hinay2x ratang masakitan. I dont mean to be the antagonist of your love story. Hihi.

Pero ikaw, naa rapud na nmu. Saktu. Laag pud ug imu. Hihi.

[hash]

don't know what to do.. Should i look for another or should i just stay hanging? this cool off thing sucks big time!! We've been together for 4 years, and ing.ani ra kadali pra nya nga mag cool off.. Accept sd ko sa ako side nga naa ko sala ky nag work mn mi pariho dn weekends rami magka kita dn ds past few months ang among weekends nga dapat i.spend ky wala na, ky nka book na iyang weekend pra magkita cla sa iya friends.. Wala ko mahimu,ok ra pra nko but things got even worst, bsan mangutana lng ko nga asa cya, mag unsa cya,etc.. Masuko nmn cya, dli dw cya gusto permi monitoron ky mura dw cyayg ma tuok.. Just to make this thing clear, walay 3rd party involve.. Then i ask her nganu... All she said is she wants some space/time to think (for her future,daghan cyag gi think,etc.) lastly, she said she still love me but we need some time daw to think pra sa amu relationship and for our future..

been there, done that.

Mu ana gani ang laki/gurl na mag cool off, sunod ana kay buwag najud. Tsk tsk. Hanu kaya dli nalang drechuhon noh? Or i think ilaha pud nang way para hinay2x ratang masakitan. I dont mean to be the antagonist of your love story. Hihi.

Pero ikaw, naa rapud na nmu. Saktu. Laag pud ug imu. Hihi.

[hash]

Ahak. Unsaun pag delete ug post? Ga doble man diay ni. Hihi

[hash]

taga.i jud ng space...mo balik rana...og d na mobalik mas labing maau.......

.. Saktu2x. Hatagi ug space ts. Ganahan cguro na mag astronaut. Hihi.

Betaw. Ika tulo na ko ning gstrya rong adlawa: Daghan pang isda sa dagat.