Filipino-Chinese relationships

[legal_cd]

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akong mga kaila na chinese kay i surprise nako og ask about this type of question.. first reaction kay tulala.. mura'g mag lisod og tubag.

then mo ingon dayon "dili man", mao ra la nay lain, brief ra kaayo answer.

[kreik101]

Tradition, and business interest.. Ganahan sila nga ang pakaslan sa ilang anak kay kanang maka benefit gihapon sila and kanang kaila sad sila sa family, either through business or sa social life ba.
Pero daghan naman dili pilian karon maski conservative, pero daghan gihapon ang e scrutinize gihapon ang mapangasawa kung negosyante or educated ba. XD

[want2binvolve]

kai lugi negosyo...

[mYta82]

kay for some chinese they still stick to tradition...=p

[glennsmerchandise]

Because they know Filipinos are worth dying for. basin maghikog nya ila anak. hahahaha

hahah!! tinuod btaw sad

[Xie]

kuan na sa mga traditional rana pero honestly wa na sila ma buhat. ako gae akoang grandparents og mga aunts and uncles nahan dili pinay pero wa nata ma himo ganahan man ko. oh diba.

[greatspecs]

They worry so much about their wealth. That's the reality.

[yiennahs]

nganu pud kaha daghan pinoy ganahan ug chinese or chinoy noh?
siguru sa ilang chinito nga eyes and fair complexion... oh well they are not my type

TS, it's because they want their sons or daughters to marry another Chinese family and the combination of both families will bring more wealth and power

[glennsmerchandise]

it's because they want their sons or daughters to marry another Chinese family and the combination of both families will bring more wealth and power

kani jd ang sakto

[Githyanki]

There are so many reasons as to why. For some it may be focused on wealth, family tradition, inheritance, etc.. But when you look at these things as a whole, it boils down to culture differences. Both the Chinese and Filipinos have very different cultures. Conflicting even in some points.

For a Chinese-Filipino relationship to work, both sides have to work on understanding each other's cultures. Cultural differences can be sharp and fraught with conflict. They can extend to all areas of a relationship. These differences may say that each partner should do this or that. For example, a person’s culture might say that women should do this and men that. Most often, it means that men should run things and women follow along; men should be the primary breadwinner (even in these days!) and women shouldn’t work or work for household money only. Both of you should agree to those concepts before you proceed further. You should know what the score is: don’t expect a person to change overnight.