What to do about a daughter who has been doing NOTHING since graduating from college?

[rubz_bix08]

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kadto college pa xa ing.ana gihapon xa ug batasan? na no care? does she have any friends? tingali naa lang jud na xa dako na problem mao di xa ganahan maningkamot....close na xa sa iya sibling? you can try asking those people na close niya kung unxa jud iya prob....kay maybe mag lisod lang jud xa ug confide sa imo...

[sui.caedere]

how old is she now? basin spoon feeding pud kaau ka niya? bright man diay na istoryaha lang ug tarong malumanay nga pagkasulti ug mas pasultihon nimo cya para mogawas iyang pinaka tago2x dha sa iyang kasing2x lahi2x man gud utok mga bata ron and most of them feeling nila sakto cla permi, they know their rights but they don't know their obligations/responsibility. basin naa cya plano sa life nga para niya dili ninyo ikalipay but mao jud iyang gusto or love to do mao ng nag-urong nalang. ingna bahala cya unsa iyang i-pursue sa life basta kanang naay kabulohan ug dili cya mag-urong coz life will not end by playing games in computer....

she is 22 na sis.

i already tried to talk to her over these years. i even approached her favorite teacher in school para maoy musulti niya, pero she refused, rather, pushed us all away.

she obviously has no plans and do not care know what future is!

[sui.caedere]

kadto college pa xa ing.ana gihapon xa ug batasan? na no care? does she have any friends? tingali naa lang jud na xa dako na problem mao di xa ganahan maningkamot....close na xa sa iya sibling? you can try asking those people na close niya kung unxa jud iya prob....kay maybe mag lisod lang jud xa ug confide sa imo...

no, dili sya close sa iya siblings kay may pagka maldita man.

she has few friends i could say nga tingali close but other than bonding when she is invited to watch movies (kay nag work na man iya mga ka batch).. she prefers to stay on her bed.

college? yes dont care gyud kaayo..kung pasar maayo..kung dili..aw ok ra pud. but she had excellent grades. like i said..she was magna cum laude material according the her dean.. did not make it kay she had issues with her first course.

[RemohDude]

kabalo ka brad, hasta ang dean nila nanghinayang. kay she was magna cum laude material..pero ..she is just so difficult.

if so, much better you should seek advice from a counsellor if its ok to her, things should not be like that for her and its so selfish on her part if she keeps on acting/doing like that she wasted 2 yrs already by just hangin' around in the house its not normal anymore, try to consult her into a counselling method perhaps will help.

[zrach]

ing.ani jud cya mostly? or like...nagka worse as days pass?

maybe her friends know something...

[sui.caedere]

if so, much better you should seek advice from a counsellor if its ok to her, things should not be like that for her and its so selfish on her part if she keeps on acting/doing like that she wasted 2 yrs already by just hangin' around in the house its not normal anymore, try to consult her into a counselling method perhaps will help.

it is more than annoying.
each time i see her, i am presented with my own failure, having raised a daughter like that.

see my avatar? that is how annoyed i am.

[sui.caedere]

ing.ani jud cya mostly? or like...nagka worse as days pass?

maybe her friends know something...

well, ingon ani jud sya.

except karon nga grad na sya, she is glued to her bed like a watch on a wrist.

[zrach]

ahhh... I think you have to spoonfeed her into a job. Like tell her what to do jud... pero not sd in a "you're a failure" way... hehe like ikaw jud mangita sa job.. then tell her to apply for this and that.

I think mu excel ra cya wherever you place her... dli lng cya mu initiate

Maybe lang

[jumps_zilla]

That's tough. I wouldn't know what to do if I were in your place, TS. Maybe she'll come around in her own time, but it's clear that she's not being productive and I think I can understand your frustration. Truly I hope you can resolve this with your daughter.

Cheers!

[sui.caedere]

That's tough. I wouldn't know what to do if I were in your place, TS. Maybe she'll come around in her own time, but it's clear that she's not being productive and I think I can understand your frustration. Truly I hope you can resolve this with your daughter.

Cheers!

So tough indeed. I never knew what surrender meant until this!

She is not productive..not proactive too.

Her dont care attitude is wrecking me to the core!