My mom is UNFAIR

[emailroy2002]

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ok rana kay at least ni attend imong mama..

kaysa ako amigo pag kasal wala ni attend iya mama...

nagsakit iyang dughan. hehe.

[rev]

basin adopted ko noh... pero ngano d i adopt pamn ko nila kung inana lng d i ilang treatment nko dba?

curious sad ko. maybe her mom is a bitch? pero bana bana nako ang lalaki man gud ang magdala sa apelyido sa pamilya. hinoun your mom needs to grow up. ug di siya ganahan nimo naa kay bana para IMONG pamilya. ipakita nimo sa imong INAHAN nga mas maayo paka mopalaki ug alagag anak niya dili nimo siya tularan sa iyang kasaypanan.

btw, unsay naa sa asawa sa imong kuya? or imong kuya mismo?

[tessF]

basin dli ka nila anak sis.. kay dli man fair ang treatment.. kng anak ka nila dapat special jud ka nila pd dli kay way paki.. maau ra sad imo sila gi sultian about na sa imo kalagot

[epoaxlan]

how about imong kuya sis wala sad sya makigtalk nimo regarding this issue? nakabantay ba imo kuya nga unfair imong parents nimo? i feel for u sis..d jud lalim labi na imong parents ra ang nag-in.ana nimo..

[jocylanne]

curious sad ko. maybe her mom is a bitch? pero bana bana nako ang lalaki man gud ang magdala sa apelyido sa pamilya. hinoun your mom needs to grow up. ug di siya ganahan nimo naa kay bana para IMONG pamilya. ipakita nimo sa imong INAHAN nga mas maayo paka mopalaki ug alagag anak niya dili nimo siya tularan sa iyang kasaypanan.

btw, unsay naa sa asawa sa imong kuya? or imong kuya mismo?

Dli mana nako kuya ako ng younger brother.. pareha man sila duha akong brother og iyang asawa na wla mga work.. pero my mom told me na ngano ako man imo basolon na minyo nman ka..then i told her ngano ikw man gihapon minyo namn sad na siya.. kung cge lng ka ngtabang nila magsalig rana nimo.

[maddox_pitt]

Hi Guys,

I have this feeling since im still a kid. Im the eldest of the family. then i have one brother. I always felt na favoriate jud akong brother sa akong mama og papa.. Everytime he wants things naa jud dayon.. if im the one who ask for something i still have to do things just to please them.

My brother got married last year. coz his girlfriend got pregnant. my brother dont have a stable job, then at the time during his wedding my parents are the one whose paying all the expenses for his wedding... ngutang sila sa mga relatives namo.. iya gibaligya amo yuta para lng sa kasal sa akong brother. after my sister in law naganak in a CS operation then still my parents are the one paying for it.

It comes to the point na I wanted to get married nsad. so my parents wants a church wedding. but my partner and i decided na mag civil lng mi coz we dont have enough budget.

During my civil wedding i havent felt my mama's support.. for her its just a normal day na ni drop by sa city hall after nikuyog sa restaurant para manga-on. She dont even ask me if i need something. even on my wedding ring na ako gipanso sa credit card niya iya paman gani ko gipaningil.

we had an arque last week i told her what i feel.. but still she get angry with me.. sulti pa niya luooy nimo nag self pity ka.. and ana pa cya kung ingana imo batasan biyaan lng daw ko sa akong bana.. basta ako siya gitubag-tubag sa akong kalagot..


sayop ba na nitubag ko niya? pero still iyang mga response nko mura rko dli niya anak.. ngano man daw mghasol pko niya na minyo namn daw ko.. adto daw ko mghasol sa akong bana.. pero akong brother lagi minyo na ngano cya man gihapon tanan?

pls correct me... kung unsa man sayop sa akong point of view..

ts, pareho ra man ta...
ana man sad ako mom... her favorite is my brother...siguro partly kay when i was born my mom was busy with her residency program and i was left to the care of my yaya most of the time... then when my brother was born, she was a hands-on mom na... mafeel man nako na sa una pa...ana man gud na siya...mas affectionate ug mas close ang iyahang affinity sa akong manghod..

pero later on i came to realize basig ana xa kay kabalo xa na kaya ra nako bisag di jud xa muhatag ug enough attention nako..part of the reason why i decided to stay away for college tungod niana...

2 years ago we got into a fight... i was really mad then...kalimot nako ngano... i remember telling her how bad i felt...how unfair she was while i was growing up...i told her sometimes i don't feel like i'm her daughter...and i hated it when she'd fret that i'm my dad's favorite...
she answered me with "because i know you can make it on your own"...
i don't know what's in the line...im not so sure if it's positive or negative...if i should be glad because she trust me enough nga dili ko magbinuang unlike my brother...or if maglagot ko kay mao na lang na maningkamot ko ug ako kay wala man siya....asa man diay ko mangayo ug tabang?
till now i still feel the same..pero everytime i do, i try to shrug it off.... siguro i came to accept na sad na ing ana ra gud xa...wa nakoy mabuhat... usahay man gud makaingon ta, nganong ana man xa? malain ko usahay kay dili man sad na siya supportive nako...if mangayo ko ug a little push, di man na xa muback up nako.... paeta noh??

last yr i was having a hard time with school kay gabi-i na kaau ko muabot sa amo-a kay gamay ra man ang jeep pag past 6:30pm na...nya i have a class that ends at around 7-7:30... so i'd end up sleeping na lang when i get home at around 10pm...the next day problema na nako kay exams man every day..so i asked her if i could get a motorcyle or rent a room near my school para di nako lisuran..i was afraid of failing...pero giingnan rako niya mahal daw if mupalit mi ug motor nya aside sa bayad/month kay mahal sad daw pag maintain sa motor..so i had no choice but to deal with the ordeal..sa tinood lang i almost quited from school last year kay gikapoi ko... then come 2nd sem, my brother went home to continue his schooling sa amoa.... guess what? nangayo ug motor...gitagaan sad dayon...see? faets noh?

i know how you feel ts....i can't blame you for answering her back... pero what i learned, i should strive for my own good na lang,...karon as much as i can, i try not to ask anything from her na lang... para wala nay disappointments....

ikaw sad... sana you'll learn to understand her na lang... ana ra jud ang life... we can't do anything about it but to accept the fact na lang... if tagaan ka, well and good...if di ka tabangan...ok na lang sad...

[xinevirtucio]

as an only child, i will probably never grasp this kind of feeling fully.

yet, I have watched my mother suffer over and over again because of this so-called unfair treatment by her parents.

Like you TS, my mother has her fair share. The story is very long but the bottom line is she was the least favorite. My grandmother always favored her black sheep of a son (3rd sibling), her foolish, gullible son (2nd sibling), and her eldest daughter (nga mao say pinaka gwapa).

My mother is the 4th child. since bata pa cla..iyaha na tanan..while iyang mga igsuon ngdula..cya intawn ang tig limpyo, tig laba, tig luto...everyday.

Even as adults...mafeel ghapon nya kinsa ang paborito sa akoa lola....kapila nko kita nya nghilak tungod sa unfair treatment. In simpler terms, mura xag yaya nilang tanan...pero in the end cya ghapon ang bati.

Like you, naka tubag tubag sad xa sa akong lola..and like your mother...cya ra ghapon ang gpakasala.

I know naa times nga mahiubos cya..pero ang iya gbuhat....instead of having dghang anak..she opted to have one..para daw wala favorite..para daw wala bahin ang attention.

She made it a point not to commit the same mistakes....kai matod pa niya d xa gusto nga muagi ko sa iyang g-agian.

Ang ako lang masulti..ayaw nlng na huna hunaa...focus on your family..total makabarog naman ka sa imong kaugalingon

[davidsky]

paita sad ani oi hehe

[unper]

Hi Guys,

I have this feeling since im still a kid. Im the eldest of the family. then i have one brother. I always felt na favoriate jud akong brother sa akong mama og papa.. Everytime he wants things naa jud dayon.. if im the one who ask for something i still have to do things just to please them.

My brother got married last year. coz his girlfriend got pregnant. my brother dont have a stable job, then at the time during his wedding my parents are the one whose paying all the expenses for his wedding... ngutang sila sa mga relatives namo.. iya gibaligya amo yuta para lng sa kasal sa akong brother. after my sister in law naganak in a CS operation then still my parents are the one paying for it.

It comes to the point na I wanted to get married nsad. so my parents wants a church wedding. but my partner and i decided na mag civil lng mi coz we dont have enough budget.

During my civil wedding i havent felt my mama's support.. for her its just a normal day na ni drop by sa city hall after nikuyog sa restaurant para manga-on. She dont even ask me if i need something. even on my wedding ring na ako gipanso sa credit card niya iya paman gani ko gipaningil.

we had an arque last week i told her what i feel.. but still she get angry with me.. sulti pa niya luooy nimo nag self pity ka.. and ana pa cya kung ingana imo batasan biyaan lng daw ko sa akong bana.. basta ako siya gitubag-tubag sa akong kalagot..


sayop ba na nitubag ko niya? pero still iyang mga response nko mura rko dli niya anak.. ngano man daw mghasol pko niya na minyo namn daw ko.. adto daw ko mghasol sa akong bana.. pero akong brother lagi minyo na ngano cya man gihapon tanan?

pls correct me... kung unsa man sayop sa akong point of view..

after reading this i said to my self "Im Not Alone!!!"
almost same ta. i feel it sis, but more than that pa akoa

[SioDenz]

after reading this i said to my self "Im Not Alone!!!"
almost same ta. i feel it sis, but more than that pa akoa

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