palihug, TAMBAGI ko... tabang intawn

[jOwEy cEe]

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@ravits: kaayo!

@camzywinsy: kadaghan nman mi nag2k na d ko nahan molarga. n she always use the "hopeless" card on me, na d njd daw xa mkatilaw ug lami na knabuhi. i envy u bcz ur mom let u do d thngs u want after u graduated. mine didn't and won't, untl i give her everythng she wants and d life that she always dreamt. like i was her plane ticket abroad or her key to a grand life. she wont let me off the hook untl i give dat to her, in exchange for all her "sacrifices". i don't want to leave d country bcz it is here dat i want to leave my life, work the job i want, live wth d ppol i love. but bein with her under d same roof wont let me do dat. wch is y i rly am considering leaving home. it's as if she dsnt want me to be happy bcz of d decisions i make in my life. but i'll keep dat in mind though. i still am hoping dat we cud patch thngs up. but 4 her to accept dat i dnt want to do d thngs she want me to do, i doubt it.

[masterjanuarius]

@masterjanuarius: i'm actually lucky to have a good guy beside me. bt sometimes, not being able to control my life makes me a control freak over r relationship. wch is also affected bcoz of d thngs i deal with @ home.

Good that you are aware of that ... and the greater situation will be, whether you will it or not, you will behave like your mother later on in life. Unless of course, a psycho social processing will be experienced by you TS.

[*sludge*]

kung sa ako lang... LAYAS..

on your part,try ug layas pra mka suway gyud ka unsay feeling kaysa mag sige ka ug doubt unsay feeling ana...i mean,if ma satisfy ba ka or asay mas nindot...

on your mother's part, if mo layas ka, siguro ayha ra mo penetrate sa iyang alampatakan ang imong gipang sulti kung wala naka sa iyang panan-aw.. mingawon imong mama nmo, aw mas mkahuna2x na siya nmo and mas mka huna2x na siya sa inyong mga conversation...

akong usbon....ug sa ako lang

[banban...^_^]

bitaw kng ako pud kay hawa dra sa inyu...but pananghid ug tarong sa imu mama....
i wouldn't know what to tell you that you should tell your mom kay wala man ko kaila niya...
cgro you can write her a letter? about what you're feeling, what you want to do to your life and what you want to happen... (before ka mulakaw hap...) dapat jd mananghid kag tarong kng mu hawa ka sa inyuha...

[Hammer_and_Sickle]

ayaw na lang ug layas, antos lang gud, mo-labay ra na, imo kalagot, pero mu-labay ra pud ang oras na maka-uban imo mama pero de na mabalik, ayaw lang padala sa kalagot, pagahi-ay lang gud, pero ayaw ug sunod sa mga dili nimo ganahan, ipakita niya na maka-barug na ka sa imong ka-ugalingun,

[ScoOobY]

pra nako lain mana

[malic_2]

how old are you? ayaw pa apekto oi, be in control..pasagdi lang ng yaw yaw sa imong mama, ayaw pa apekto, ingon ana lang gyud ng mga parents ganahan pod sila nga ilang anak maka larga sa abroad.

ang gi hona hona sa imo mama karon is tiguwang na siya ba, basta tiguwang naka ingon pa nila, ganahan naka mopahoway sa osa ka logar nga hayahayay(dili menteryo ha). nya tan-aw nila sa ilang anak mao nay ilang pag-asa sa ilang mga damgo nga wa ma kab-ot tungod kay ilang focus tua pa sa ilang anak nga gibuhi. nya karon nga mana ilang obligasyon ikaw napod ang mobalos. sabta lang na TS...maka sabot ra ka lagi ka inig abot sa panahon kung ikaw na pod ang mag minyo,mag buhi og anak,nya matiguwang.

dili lang kayo niya sigoro ma control iyang frusrations ba.

[BanshEe]

wow.. ka relate kaau ko..
momy naq, ing ana pud.. buot kaau tanan.. mag unsa ko saq life..
palargahon njud.. ky old na kuno sla,
sla napud hatagan ug lami sa ilang life..
well, maldita mn pud ko, so grabe sd jud ko mu tubag2.. rebel jd ko..
i knew it was wrong mn, bt it made momunderstand me..
ky xmpre, mahadlok na na xa mu talk nako that way,
ky she knws man mutubag ko.. i always remind her to trust on me..
ky bsag unsaon, im their daughter, i love them..
and promised that ill help them kng maka work naq..
di na tana mag suya2 sa uban, be contented on what we have..
pasalamat sad q, di na kaau mu pressure c momy..
di nasad ko magminaldita ky most of the times, moms know best..
tungod ra sad saqng ka maldita.. bt i dnt know if i should
advice u the same, ky bsin musamot mo imo mama..
just pray TS.. every thing will be fine..

[malic_2]

ang parents mo pressure gyud sa ilang anak, given nana, ayaw namo katingala. find ways lang kong unsaon ninyo pag deal in a way nga dii madaot inyong relationship.

[Scott Bernard]

Kapoya pod ana nga mama oi... i'm glad dili ing ana ako parents. If you want my advice, decide for your own, but do not disrespect your parents. It's hard and complicated but you have to live your own life, rather than be dictated by them.