How do you control jealousy?

[Monmyhand]

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jealousy is really makadaot sa relationship. it might sound kilig to newbies but it does destroy relationships big-time.


unsa may situation TS nga nagselos ka then nagresult nga nag away mo?

most of the time kailangan nato mo lugar pud sa atong pag selos. hehe. when we should let it out or let it control

pero if di ka kapugong, sultii lang gud imong uyab og pasabta hinay hinayi... ayaw lang mo diretso away. and when balik2x raba ning selos2x, makalagot raba pud. lol.

yes in my case balik2x..
pero i am doing my very best to lessen
the intensity each tym..

ang selos dili baya mulugar ug iyaha..
it consumes me.. wrests control from me..
i feel so weak against it..

so far, a method that works for me is..
to invoke the thought and reality..
that she loves me so much..
risks her very life to love me..
despite the complications..

mag selos man.. its not as heated as before..
but im impatient to get rid of selos..
kay unhealthy gyud kaayo..

dili man ko mu dretso ug pangaway oi..
love kaayo nako sya...

i make a remark .. selos driven or not..
and she just get ignited like a waiting fuel mixture

[rAiNe_]

selosa kaau jud ko ai..
mag selos ko kay kataw an raman ko sa akong uyab ui.. murag di effective ang selos nako..
ahahaha.. kingkoy jud guro kog nawng..

pero makadaot jud ni xa.. di maayo kay wala na jud trust ani nahabilin..

[BanshEe]

LDR pa jud..
Well, salig nlang..
And pray to God, that
if its her, make her behave dear God..

[anjerika]

yes in my case balik2x..
pero i am doing my very best to lessen
the intensity each tym..

ang selos dili baya mulugar ug iyaha..
it consumes me.. wrests control from me..
i feel so weak against it..

so far, a method that works for me is..
to invoke the thought and reality..
that she loves me so much..
risks her very life to love me..
despite the complications..

mag selos man.. its not as heated as before..
but im impatient to get rid of selos..
kay unhealthy gyud kaayo..

dili man ko mu dretso ug pangaway oi..
love kaayo nako sya...

i make a remark .. selos driven or not..
and she just get ignited like a waiting fuel mixture

pila na imong edad? og unsa may imong selosan?


ang pangutana, iya ba nang gituyo nga ma selos ka? kay if wala, that's when you will know you should control yourself.

for example, prioritizing other things than you, or selosan nimo ang iyang mga suod nga friend. samot na lalake nga close niya.

i was told that your tendency to get jealous reflects your self-image og imong perspective towards things. do you have insecurities?

[ravits]

guapa siguro na imo chix bai....

[Monmyhand]

guapa siguro na imo chix bai....

as beautiful as she is smart and intelligent..

very beautiful..and sexy

she attended a wedding recently..

she told me.. murag di katuohan nga siya akong uyab..

kay dili man ko gwapo..

[Monmyhand]

pila na imong edad? og unsa may imong selosan?


ang pangutana, iya ba nang gituyo nga ma selos ka? kay if wala, that's when you will know you should control yourself.

for example, prioritizing other things than you, or selosan nimo ang iyang mga suod nga friend. samot na lalake nga close niya.

i was told that your tendency to get jealous reflects your self-image og imong perspective towards things. do you have insecurities?

i have not given much thought if gituyo ba to do activites para mag selos, but now that you asked, i think wala man gituyo.

she is being naturally too friendly towards others whom she feels close.

insecurities? hmmm .. maybe.. i do.

[Monmyhand]

LDR pa jud..
Well, salig nlang..
And pray to God, that
if its her, make her behave dear God..

im considering blowing my head off...
if i cant control this stupidity..

[BanshEe]

hayy.. u knw what TS..
we are making our own misery..
thnking too much of our partner,
makabuang jd na..
just find happiness in yourself..
do things you want.. you enjoy..
pasagdi to siya, ky kng nagbinuang jd to,
ull realize whch is cold or hot.. hmm..
respect yourself..
and just trust her, and believe that she loves you too..
ky kng dili pa, shell probably have break up w u..
dugay ra..

[anjerika]

i have not given much thought if gituyo ba to do activites para mag selos, but now that you asked, i think wala man gituyo.

she is being naturally too friendly towards others whom she feels close.

insecurities? hmmm .. maybe.. i do.

TS naa man gyuy mga taw nga naturally friendly gyud, if that's all that you mean. maka spark sad gyud og selos panagsa pag ma close sila. basin panagsa ma over analyze nimo ang iyang actions. maybe she's just trying to be courteous, hospitable, enthusiastic and friendly to other people, pero imong na interpret as flirting. lol.

but for me lang, ako lang huna hunaon pirmi is for as long as wa sila mag flirt2x or secreto2x og labok then i should control myself. pick your battles. you don't have to get jealous sa mga taw nga muduol and maganahan sa imong gf coz she is really attractive, di na malikayan nga naay maganahan pud niya. naibog gud gani ka. but i stick lang sa imong utok that she chose you above the rest, granting love is her biggest motive nga gisugot ka niya. most of all, you can't resist jealousy alone and in a snap of a finger. why don't you try open that up to your gf, hinay hinayi lang og sulti. and pray nga makapugong ka sa imong gibati. maybe you need to start with yourself too, check your self-esteem. coz most jealousies come from unhealthy self-images. hehe.