What happened after she/he broke your heart?

[_dimples_]

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after a sudden break up ? u feel like its d end of d world..dat ders no point in living into this world all by urself....feels like u want to jump over mactan bridge coz of too mch pain but the
after few days ..depending on how soon u recover, u wud realize nga its all ka OAhan ...

things like this , be a lesson nalang para sa sunod relationship dli keu sakit dili nalang pada sa mga mabalaknun pulong sa mga lalaki way puangod

[histrionic0311]

ni hilom nlng ko after she busted me.. right now im moving on without her in my mind..

[palanggako123]

lately lang ko broken hearted. after he broke my heart several times, i finally let him go and try to move on. gilingaw nako ako self sa amu anak kay cute man nya gwapo.


nagchange sad ko working environment. kalit lang ko resign sako current company nya balhin laen callcenter. i don't care if i need to start from scratch. basta i need to start somewhere.

[Githyanki]

As for me, after the break-up :

devoted most of my free time to charity (in JCI and Mandaue Chamber of Commerce and Industry)
took up commercial cooking
studied or read up on management, engineering, music, medicine, and psychology
took on more responsibilities at work
went back to gym
made hundreds of new friends
started going out of my comfort zone and taking risks

[_dimples_]

-- loving my self ... stayed home lang sa coz kapoy going out and drink still d same it wont help

[giver_bert]

after she broke my heart last year?

lost 90 pounds of fats, and gained 40 pounds of lean muscle - there was something about weight lifting that helped me cope up with the pain.. it gave me the same satisfaction as when i usually go on top of a mountain and shout to my heart's content. Somehow the pain and memories fueled me to work harder..

Got back to freelance consulting - i used to spend at least half of my time with her, but after the breakup, i had so much surplus time that i managed to accept two more sideline jobs on top of my regular work as a gov't slave accountant hehehe

Went to a lot of places - i've been to at least 6 difference places locally and 4 abroad.. i've never realized i'll actually enjoy it. since then i hated the idea of riding a plane or taking long bus/train rides.

Expanded my existing hobby - went back to toy collecting, and eventually got the chance to showcase my collection to local newpaper, at malls, and even featured in a tv program.

Gained new friends.. dated a few.. and now i'm regularly seeing this woman, who happens to be my bestfriend also.



thinking of those, makes me realize breakups would either make your break you even more.. naa ragyd na nimo if unsaon nimo paghandle.. as for my case, i opted the former.. i've never felt and probably look so good ever since, thanks to her

[SALY]

kung ang akong heart is broke bahala nalang na siya kapoy niya mag find nalang ko another love nho

[cassiopeia]

after that i became stronger. wahahahahahahahahah!

[kimleeKINO_choi]

what happened? same as useless! haha bitaw...ok lang..life jpon gd. Wla mnpod ni hunong ako world when he left noh! i admit i was kinda wasted then but life..i mean MY LIFE ddnt end there. Padaun japon ko. hehe then i met the person i am with ryt now. hehe

[yonnis1980]

always find that happiness,
from yourself,
not from others...
and in yourself,
you can affect that good mood,
sa imo partner...

i like this.. and cant help but agree.

real and true happiness is within..
not in someone else..