The One Who Got Away

[dessay]

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that's the spirit!

[bethia]

nice love story...too bad, some good things just wont last...it's nice to reminisce though..
all the good times, the intensity of ur emotions and the hopeless longings that well u obviously
still have now....we all have our stories..
same dilema though, it's too hard to find a decent partner nowadays..y is that?
wrong time, wrong persons? u just keep on goin in circle when in fact u're nowhere to go..
u keep on justfying things after all ur endless stupidities..heard all cliches from friends after
such break-ups wahahahha, am i doing it wrong? are they doing it right? dunno...
too tired for questions..
yup, u go on dating and meet other guys and adapting to whatever there is..
but u just wake up one day and realize that it's not enough for u..too greedy? naaahh..
just another mistake...need not to enumerate my varried mistakes...i still believe the right one is just out there..
you see..i think i have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding my princce..

[tokidoki]

hahaha... i think that's the real love story there. Lots of frogs before finding the prince.

In guys' terms. Magkaon sa ug buwad una makatilaw sa tilapia. hehehe...

Yes, it was good to reminisce. May nalang ba in spite of all the failed relationships you get to look back at someone that's worth remember. Kanang maka ingon ka ba... "damn, kato gyud siya noh? grabe, the best!" hehehe.... some sweet memories in the middle of the bitterness.

[bethia]

hahahha..
at least you're not that cynical with love after all..
yah, actually read an article about the "one" who got away..
nobody knows what will happen in the future...malay mo lang hahaha

[tokidoki]

of course i'm not. hehehe... ngano gud tawn. Naa ko sa pinas. Ngano maglisud man ko mangita preha niya?

OT: no, wait, naglisud bitaw ko! hahaha.... lisud na ngita morena ron. basin its a sign na westernized nata. puti na tanan :P

[bethia]

huh?? morena diay imong type?? hmmmmmmm....sus kadaghan pa dha oi..
kung naglisud na jud, u can go to trinidad & tobago?? hahaha

[tokidoki]

hehhe... yah. i think that may have been obvious sa akong blog.

[bethia]

oh well...gudluck..

[etzina]

nice story but sad ... i like the way you write... hehehe while i was reading your blog i thought i was reading a romantic novel... char!

someone will come along... though you've probably heard this a million times... try not to compare the others to her... instead try to find out what their strong points are... there are many smart women out there, probably you're just looking at the wrong place :mrgreen:

[n`gel]

tokidoki:

Sadly... there will always be one and only her. She has touched your soul in such a way that nobody can ever touch it the way she did ever again. And you'll never meet anybody just like her in your lifetime. You saw the beauty of her soul and that admiration and love came so very naturally out of you.

This game called life is a--mazing.. how chance crosses our paths with other people and what impact they do to our lives is so wonderful if we see... even pain... still beautifully.

I see relationships as testing grounds towards meeting the right person for everyone. When a relationship is broken we think that we've lost so much... we've lost the person we love and we've lost chance, time, our heart, our mind, our endeavours, our hopes. But why does God (coz i'm a Christian) let us be with people who're just gonna leave and hurt us? It is because her purpose for your life in your case is not to stay but to leave a memory, a lesson, a future to take you where you'd go. After every hurt, after every relationship, we learn lessons in love. It can cause us to fear to love again (which then eventually strengthens us), or it can cause us to become a better person so when the right person comes along... we've been through a lot and learned a lot.... and when the right person is finally with you... your maturity in love is not short but full.

She has such an impact in your life tokidoki... unfortunately you'll never find her in somebodyelse's eyes. She is her. But you will find somebody who can be greater than her or not... but one who you can truly love one day. You are a person who loves intellectual conversations and you require it from your partner... I do too... although I say I am a little flexible... any interesting conversation still ticks me.

And so... the feeling when we feel we've found our 'one true love' is wonderful... for the moment. Pero I tell you this, one day you will see that person greater than her or not. And if you can... choosing who to pursue next time... ready your requirements. For love is governed by principles. Don't stoop down yes I agree... just to have a gf.

Naa gyuy women like that... grabe kaayo ug impact ba... I myself find women like her very attractive and beautiful. A free and gentle flower... scarce pud mi (hehe). Just too bad when you know you've found the most beautiful flower in your life... you can't help when they leave. You just set them free.

Just too bad you didn't get to keep her... this and her shall forever be in your heart tokidoki. Di gyud na siya mawala and kasabot ko. She'll be one unreachable star sa imo life but you see her unendlessly. Bisan ma minyo naka. Basin in your part life napugos to iyang soul ug minyo nimo hehe and now... the present she went to find love away. You probably were a man who married a woman who didn't really love you but still smiled and kissed you because you yourself is beautiful.