Would you allow your gf to go out with her friend's male friends?

[diem]

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she tried to ask me if "di ba lang daw mi mag-istorya" i just pretended not to hear her and just took off.

@visionplus, dude, everyone knows that clear communication is required in maintaining a good relationship for not everyone is gifted with mind reading. Have you clarified the issue with your girlfriend? What are you planning to do? Just let it through in self-denial, ignore her until she figures it out and apologize? Come on, what's the plan man?

i don't see her commitment in our relationship. for 34 months, she should have understood that having a bf is way too different than before i came to her life. i'm just too stupid not to realize we didn't look the same way.

Well I could understand that perhaps you've tried to make her things your way... make her understand how you truly feel about matters. True things do change in a relationship and if she isn't responsible enough to deal with, clearly then she is not ready yet to settle down.

Dude, again its really a matter of maturity. Are you mature enough to stick it out with your girl? Could you be patient and wise in making her understand? Bro, rather than waste time playing games, just be honest and sincere, air it out, make things clear. If both of you cannot accept or meet common ground and compromise, why in the world are you together?

If you leave an open glass of water alone outside, soon enough you'll find it empty.

[wicked_b]

well,k ra maglaag ang ako partner pro dapat kaila ko or kinsa dn asa connected iya kuyog..
pro mas nndot kuyog ko...
and speaking with the probz above...hmmmm, overreact ra jed xa bai..
gamay raman sad na nga concern lang ka sa iya mga kuyog...

[nolex]

hmmm lemme think about it..

[d`monyita]

i have many male friends....but i will not go out to heaven-knows-where with guys i do not know and as n`gel so very well described....naka-hug ka sa driver. good grief! kana gani habal2 ayaw ko sakyan precisely because of that! you dont feel safe on the bike unless u make gakus the driver. kalokah noh!

brod, ikaw man mas mature... palampason ba yan nimo since as u said... 34 months na mo di ba? sayangan ba ka sa time spent with her and stick it out in the hopes na mag-mature din sya?

i always see it like this.... if she cannot respect u now nga uyab pa mo.... there is definitely no respect pag minyo na mo. bakit pa sya nagpaalam kung di man diay sya mu-respect sa imo wish NOT to go with the group? and for me that is a BBBBIIIIIGGGG issue. (oh and that goes both ways ok? for u guys too)

maybe she wants space to play. after all she was not even out of her teen life when u two went steady and ikaw maybe working na and have already experienced life. why dont u find someone her age pa rin but at least naka-experience na ng life?

thoughts lang from mother dee

[IMD]

why not allow ur gf??/as long as shes not the flirty type of girl ..no probs na!!! naa man sad goi mga girls nga humok og ilong mao lisud musalig ang uyab nila

[if_i_aint_got_u]

^^mao jud... as long kaila lng pud nmu iyang male frends... der's no problem with dat.. allow her to go out... yaw lang permiha...

[redlites]

id only let her go out with male friends that i have met and ive been introduced to. and most especially ive hanged out with already.. that way kahibaw sila nga naa syay uyab. just to let the other men stay away. hehe..

[junmar4]

it's her choice. iya na katungod mogawas with other people.

[Isteb]

why not? i hang out with my friends' female friends a lot.

[nolex]

again i'll think about it