What do I do with the two women in my life?

[dave_03]

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i know man something will give jud.. i believe in karma pud pero daot lang jud ni ako utok kana bitaw murag bata "ayaw dula.i ang kultsilyo kei masamdan ka" pero dulaan jud, di merici..

i look for satisfaction and im always thinking i can get it through short gratifications but then to find out im still in need and wanting something.. insatiable thrist for i dont know what.. recognition, love, self actualization, i dont know..
or simply OA ra jud ko.. ana lng.. but then stupid kau oi, i got my self in a sandtrap

[suddenly_isee]

stop blaming ur self bro..n d 1st place it's all up into u kung willing ka anang mga changes...

hehe advices from us wd b n no use f u knw already nga naa ra sa imo ang mga tubag... ^^

[ahyango]

if you can not leave both then.. get together the 3 of you, then choose one of them.. that way mas clear iimu option having a visual of your choices together.. and adto pilia kung asa m sandig imong lawas.. ayeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!! bitaw, its hard to do, but it is the brave thing to do.. that way you will have peace of mind.. you will have to hurt the other one.. this will be for your own good ra sad..

[yvonne6]

lisud na bro, dili ka kahibalo mo discipline sa imong kaugalingon and even if u know nga bad na siya, gipatuyangan lang nimo. dili mana love imong na feel nilang duha. selfish ka, u r right. i cant tell u what to do because i really do believe that u already know what to do, u r just too stubborn to do it because you are enjoying ur women. nawa ug magkagubot na, diba labad pa nas lukot unya

[Tamsik]

bro, e let go ang isa..problema man kung duha gud

[reginakrys]

you are aware of your problem, and i believe you know what to do about it.. problem is, you WILL NOT do what is right.. better pa ang most toddlers nimo.. naa sila capacity ro delay self-gratification, like mghuwat sila makawiwi or makapupu sa right place and right time para malipay ilang parents.. if you really as in REALLY (as in all efforts exhausted) can't go about making the right decision and and don't have the determination to stick with it, you need to get professional help.. pwede man na ma-divert imong "thirst for something" into something productive.. "sublimation" ang term i believe..

as for your women, i think better to let both of them go while you try to fix yourself.. don't hurt or deceive them any more than you already have..

[AMD_infinium05]

maypa ka naa kay duha, nag ilog pa jud nimo... hehehe

anyway, make a stand bro... pagtinarong sa huna huna. guilty man kaha ka, then you should know by yourself on how to solve that guilt.

[cheesiee]

kahibaw ka bai.. ur selfish ... u want both of them but cant... ur trampling and playing with their emotions. not to be judgemental here bro but you have to let go of one or both..

sa case ni girl A, naa na ka history of cheating and infidelity so if you continue ur relationship with her, lisud na kaayo unless shes gonna develop selective amnesia and forget all the things you did to her. kung mag away mo, mo resurface jud na ang hurt nga iyang na feel when u cheated on her... its going to haunt you bro.

sa case pud ni Girl B, well, ikaw ang in love ani nga girl but i think shes jus using you for now, temporary companionship, she knows ull bow to all her whims and shes just going dump you later on. ull get hurt bro, BIG TIME.

advice (but i doubt ur gonna take it): leave them both... its better for the three of you, Girl A will be hurt but she deserves better. Girl B will probably be okay and move on to the next guy. And you bro, will still be messed up thinking if you did the right thing of letting both of them go, but ull be able to think better when both of them are out of ur life... then maybe ull life will get better...

dude, just like what i said as well, it's the BEST FIRST STEP. leave them both!!

[budoyski]

let go lang sa usa brod....basin makarma nya ka....tsk3x...

[nnaydolem]

u know what's right and wrong. u know what to do and what not to do... why dont u choose the right thing to do?
cognitive behavioral theory- the way u think affects your behavior
cognitive behavioral therapy- change the way u think bai or let someone change the way u think or let someone help u change the way u think.