tabang! 1 week nako wala txc

[Blackjellybean27]

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LOL! same here sis jelly!!! daghan ng heartaches and heartbreaks nahitabo mao ng inAni nako ka-open minded karon.. preha sakong bana since naa xa sa abroad, i told him pangita nalang ug 'parausan' dha but always remember not to fall inlove with her coz kmi sa imu daughter ang kapalit ana... lisud mn gud ug mg-expect kag maau sa imu partner nga dli niya ma-meet, masakitan ra ka... mao ng openminded na kaau ko sa mga pwedeng mahitabo coz men will always be men, mgpakalalaki jud na sila bisag asa na sila ibutang aning kalibutana... bisag higugma pa sila sa ilang asawa, motilaw jud japon na sa laing putahe... LOL!

Same here. My bf's cellphone has a pass code. He might be hiding something there k why put it there if there's nothing to hide in the first place, dba?
D nalng ko mag cge think ana, coz it's just going to ruin my day. there's so much to live for. i dont have to spend my day contemplating "sh!t nanu, naa na sya pass code sa phone nya oi. naa jud na lain." believe me, it used to ruin my day, i created my own misery jud!
karon i focus on something else. I keep myself busy. I go out with my own friends. I think i must have told my bf, na if mu cheat sya, then pls make sure as in make sure jud na i dont find out. na i dont suspect a thing. k dira lng mu start ang pains ko. he knows and he realizes im not being tanga. oh my lord, he knows that i am definitely not tanga! hehehe!
by the way, i have caught him na ha being bastos and all sa other girls. u know all those sexy stuff online. plus, admitted to me he went out with another girl.
for several weeks, cge nlng kmi away. d na nice ang relationship. even though nag sorry na sya, ako pa jud balik balikon. unya mag cge pa jud ko test2x niya kng unsa sya ka loyal nako. sos ako lng nasakitan oi.
then i've learned to HAVE A LIFE!
karon, happy relationship. i dont see him texting when were together, he's always around as in murag 24/7 jud kuyog mi, esp kng wla work. maybe talking to him worked, i told hm na i get pissed off when he's texting (d baya ko mag look kng kinsa ka text) and etc etc. murag nag let go ko sa pgka spy ko. hahaha! that's when i started being truly happy. the reason i was so distrustful coz i kept comparing hm sa ex ko. who was so untrustworthy. but i stopped doing that.
OT kaau ang post ko pero its an insight as well sa problem mo. if di sya mag txt mag away mo, then dont text hm first like you used to do. if u know the problem didnt start with you then dont force urself to say sorry for something you didnt do in the first place.

[louiese]

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[Meebo]

qyztina and blackjellybean27, open minded lage kaau mo sa inyong mga partners noh.. pero.. ahmm makes me wonder, kamo? loyal ra mo? or... naa sad mu mga kabuang2 gamay.. hahaha.. akong wife di jud open minded ai.. faet. and yes mu agree raba jud ko boys will be boys, but i love my wife. very very much. which is why i try my best to not cheat jud, salamat sa lord wa pa sd nako nabuhat. hehehe.. OT na kau ta. lol. by the way TS, kanang imong bf, gahi lang jud na xa ug ulo, kung gahi xa ug ulo, pagpagahi sad ug ulo. life is too short sis.. dont make it SHORTER. think about it like this, ur apologizing thru all means possible, waiting outside sa kainit ug sa kauwaw ug sa iyang ka cold imo gihapon gi endure for something thats not even ur fault. let him come to his senses. pagka swerte nlng gud niya. relax na oi.

[KASAAC]

********* lang na ninyu sis wui...pakig istorya niya in person jud then e pagawas dayun tanan nimung hinanakit, then paminaw sad sa iyaha istorya rajud kuwang ninyu, i guess you need to let him know of how you feel

[iragurl]

ONE Thing i can say: Ayaw nalang textsi pud.. I may sound harsh.. and grabeh if feelings are involved. But sis, based from experience, dapat ka mu divert sa emung self para dili ka ma affected kau. time will come mu text ra lagi na. karun, emu ra sige think na wa sya ni text kay sige man sad ka think about the issue. try to divert urself or do something fun na dili maka think kau about him not texting u.. it may be hard at first, but once ur over it, basta mu text to sya, mukatawa nalang ka... i hope this helps.

[raboy50]

Mao lagi na ang matabo kon maka first base na kay mangita na dayon ug bikil magpasingit dayon. Pagbantay jud mo sis ayaw mo patonto kay daghan kaayo ron lalaki nga marukoy kaayo makuha na gani ang iyang gusto mangita dayon ug bikil aron makaipsot. Ayaw jud isurender ang bandera basta wa kay kasiguruhan sa lalaki kay aron di ka mohilak sa kaulahian.

[Blackjellybean27]

qyztina and blackjellybean27, open minded lage kaau mo sa inyong mga partners noh.. pero.. ahmm makes me wonder, kamo? loyal ra mo? or... naa sad mu mga kabuang2 gamay.. hahaha.. akong wife di jud open minded ai.. faet. and yes mu agree raba jud ko boys will be boys, but i love my wife. very very much. which is why i try my best to not cheat jud, salamat sa lord wa pa sd nako nabuhat. hehehe.. OT na kau ta. lol. by the way TS, kanang imong bf, gahi lang jud na xa ug ulo, kung gahi xa ug ulo, pagpagahi sad ug ulo. life is too short sis.. dont make it SHORTER. think about it like this, ur apologizing thru all means possible, waiting outside sa kainit ug sa kauwaw ug sa iyang ka cold imo gihapon gi endure for something thats not even ur fault. let him come to his senses. pagka swerte nlng gud niya. relax na oi.

OT lng ta gamay ha. answer ko lng question ni meebo. hehe. yes openminded to that kind of stuff. the reason why i am like this, na realize man nako na boys will be boys jud. i talked to a lot of guys, yes they love their wives and gfs pero naa jud times na temptation will set in. well, as one istoryan said, temptation is a woman's weapon and a man's excuse. hehehe. that's true.
of course i would get mad kng its right in front of my face mag igat2x ang girl or if my bf would flirt (of course he doesnt do that nman. naa pod sya respect oi.) i think when we first started out together and sometime ago he was cheating on me, whether through text or doing the deed jud. but lately na notice lng nako, the less i nag him bout the girls, the less he texts and the more we are together, like after work kuyog jud mi. the only time we're not together if there's work.
contrary to belief, i'm not being openminded because naa ko binuang gamay. sos, tell you honestly i'm loyal to the core. no texting other guys na (i used to, pero friends na guys, pero i stopped nlng para wla ma say hehe), no hanky panky on YM, or FB or FS. Before kng unsa buhaton ng mga ex's nako, like if he cheated on me, ill retaliate. pero karon, i changed my attitude and am feeling better, happier. hehehe. i dunno why.

P.S.
makaya gani nimo to control yourself, other guys pa kaya. hehehe.
it's all just a matter of emotional maturity and i think you are one of those rare guys who has that. hehehe.

[Blackjellybean27]

ONE Thing i can say: Ayaw nalang textsi pud.. I may sound harsh.. and grabeh if feelings are involved. But sis, based from experience, dapat ka mu divert sa emung self para dili ka ma affected kau. time will come mu text ra lagi na. karun, emu ra sige think na wa sya ni text kay sige man sad ka think about the issue. try to divert urself or do something fun na dili maka think kau about him not texting u.. it may be hard at first, but once ur over it, basta mu text to sya, mukatawa nalang ka... i hope this helps.

corek jud sis.
TS: learn to be independent. it's what my bf tells me as well. believe me, dont rely your happiness on other people.
plus, kng d sya mag text eh di wag. i mean ok lng cguro if first time ni. pero this is like the nth time na jud! nag salig nalng sya na ikaw always ang una say sorry even if its nt ur fault.

[louiese]

Salamat kaau nnu tanan! Ok nami ok na kaau. Walay na kwaan love. Mas napun-an pa. Salamat kaau nnu tanan from the bottom of my heart. salamat sa tanan prayers

[acecrystal]

LOL! as in, pwede na ipuli nilang GOMBURZA sa pagka-martyr which is not not not really really really healthy in a relationship...

o wui... blinded per se...well dat's how thing goes.... but they have to know their stand.....