Love ka sa imo gf/bf pero dili xa magselos? Is that ok for you?

[kidlovejeayanne]

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seloso baya kaayo ko, if magselos ko ako sad paseloson..

[[Avenging PIRANHA]]

Hmmm... Ive been in a relationship now for 9yrs and a half... Turning to 10yrs next yr. pohon.. Unfortunately, we already undergo alot of things and experiences nah.. Very opposite au mi, since ako kay very negative/selosa/possesive/higpit/suspicious/sensitive og uban pa... While my boyfriend is very calm and cool guy... Imposible pod au na wala xa LOVE nko dba.. Sa 9yrs namo, pero the problem lang is.... I CANT FEEL HIS TRUE CONCERN FOR ME, i mean dili xa magselos maski unsaon... Maski naako ka talk lain2x guy, dli mag ask if c kinsa toh. bahalag naa magtext nko if busy ko text2x sa ya atubangan, dli jud mobadlong nko.... Ok rman sad na since naa mantay freedom pero nagliBog langko kay he wont show na nagselos xa.. i dont know deep inside sa yaha pero never pjud ko ka try na giingnan ko nya sa ako face na nagselos xa!!! hahayz..naa diay mga GUYS ingon ani sah? Kuyaw pod og style ani oi.. so my question is, if u were on my side, is it OKAY FOR YOU bah? na ingon ana inyo GF or BF? for a long long year being together? DOes it MEAN THAT THEY DONT CARE AND LOVE U AT ALL?? OR MAYBE THEY JUST KEEP THEIR JEALOUSY ON THEIR OWN? WAT DO U THINK KAHA?

TS for me, that's ok may nuon na wala jud nagselos ang imong uyab. Kung seloso pa na imong uyab magkonsumisyon jud ka sure jud kaayo ko.... Hmmm I think love man ka niya kay 9 years na jud mo managuyab and for that wow naamaze ko dah as in 9 years palakpakan pangkasal naman na eyys well anyways i think wala lang siguro niya gishow up nga naselos siya maybe he afraid nga basin masuko ka niya or magaway ba mo.....

[sHenZee03]

little jealousy helps siguro

I agree. Jealousy becomes bad when it becomes too much. Being jealous in the right place and time isn't so bad at all. But since your guy isn't a jealous type, then just be cool with it. That ain't bad too.

Just because your guy does not get jealous at all doesn't absolutely mean he does not care. ^_^

[krone]

For my point of view lang ha;

I think it's awkard for me na wala lang gud reaction ang imo partner most especially if there's a need jud na magselos. Bati man gud pud if wala ka makita na response when you expected na mao na iyang buhaton dapat.. ^_^

[YaeL]

para nako.. sa 9 years wla jud sya nagpa kita or tel na selos sya? or now lng na 9 years namo? di naman sad na normal oi.. pero naa man jud lain tao na di jud pakita kahinaan nila or di sila ganahan gubot mao di mag ask.. basin super secured na sya nimo.. or di sya seloso.. coz sometimes man gud kana seloso or selosa mao ga selos coz binuhatan sad nila.. but not most of the time ha.. hehe.. di man lng sad sa pag selos mapakita ang love.. sa lain ways nlng sad e feel if di jud nimo makuha sa ngano dili siya ga selos.. hehe..basta.. mao na 2.. thanks..

[ain]

TS for me, that's ok may nuon na wala jud nagselos ang imong uyab. Kung seloso pa na imong uyab magkonsumisyon jud ka sure jud kaayo ko.... Hmmm I think love man ka niya kay 9 years na jud mo managuyab and for that wow naamaze ko dah as in 9 years palakpakan pangkasal naman na eyys well anyways i think wala lang siguro niya gishow up nga naselos siya maybe he afraid nga basin masuko ka niya or magaway ba mo.....

--- ana jud q nmo ani BRo Piranz.. hehehe nakoy2x pajud tawn ning thread nq... hay salamat nnyo mga amigo og miga ha sa pgsud dri.. hehehe mdyo dugay2x na bya ning wa nq ma check up basin nsakit nani bah hehehe..

Ont: Bro, wala pa mi mgkasal pero pLano palang namo maybe 2 yrs From now.. For financial Reasons pa.. yes bro, update lang q.. hangtod karon kami japun sa aq bf and mo 11 yrs nami next yr.. hehehe..sobra pa sa ancient.. antique pa gani..

Dli manjud xa seloso Eversince oi.. naa gamay mag ask xa ang nag duda xa b4 ya g open nq pero dman to selos tingale.. aw ambot kaha pod.. maybe slight lang.. pero never mangud q ka try na yaha jud q totally gi singkahan coz nagselos lang xa.. anyway,naaanad nalang q.

Thanks for ur wish Bro...

[ain]

I agree. Jealousy becomes bad when it becomes too much. Being jealous in the right place and time isn't so bad at all. But since your guy isn't a jealous type, then just be cool with it. That ain't bad too.

Just because your guy does not get jealous at all doesn't absolutely mean he does not care. ^_^

I do also agree.. Same here.. I know that either...and perhapz he showed to me this kind of Stuff, so i was able to Adopt on it.. hagbay nq nka adopt pod.. though sometimes it sucks 4 me due to my wrong impressions that maybe he do not care and love me at all. Pero, i just forget it anyways...

[ain]

For my point of view lang ha;

I think it's awkard for me na wala lang gud reaction ang imo partner most especially if there's a need jud na magselos. Bati man gud pud if wala ka makita na response when you expected na mao na iyang buhaton dapat.. ^_^

Yes so true pod bya.. pero unsaon mani n2 kon ingon ana jud yaha personality,... ever since manjud ni xa.. walay changes hang2d naniguwang nalang mi duha hahaha... sometimes, mgkatawa nalang q mag think og ngano kaha ana ni xa... dah naanad nq bro

[ain]

para nako.. sa 9 years wla jud sya nagpa kita or tel na selos sya? or now lng na 9 years namo? di naman sad na normal oi.. pero naa man jud lain tao na di jud pakita kah dawinaan nila or di sila ganahan gubot mao di mag ask.. basin super secured na sya nimo.. or di sya seloso.. coz sometimes man gud kana seloso or selosa mao ga selos coz binuhatan sad nila.. but not most of the time ha.. hehe.. di man lng sad sa pag selos mapakita ang love.. sa lain ways nlng sad e feel if di jud nimo makuha sa ngano dili siya ga selos.. hehe..basta.. mao na 2.. thanks..

Bro, actually mo 11 yrs na gani mi next yr.. hehehe..

Ont: Actually b4 nka remember q k2 nagka compLicated mi,nka uyab mangud q lain ato..long story actuallly, and katong time na nagkabalik mi,actually no foRmal breakup man mi ato bya.. kalit2x au toh, then nkauyab nalang q new one na wala mi nag breakup. pero pagbulag namo sa k2 new bf pod nq kay kato na time, nag ask jud xa nq na basin ga kita2x pa daw mi,, katong time na dd2 ko SM nagkuyog mi jep sakay ato kay padong xa HIWAY sa mandaue coz work manxa lapu2x ato na time sa shangrila, so ana xa nq na ngano daw adto q sm, ninaog daw xa a2 gsundan q nya...kay ana xa na basin nagkita mi ako X...HALA KA DHA OI!! wala jud bya buwag nami ato.. so kato pa lang, nka ingon jud q na NAGSELOS tingale xa.. pero kato raman og katong one time na ingon xa nq na nagno daw mag cge q change og SIM gaduda daw xa.. hahahaahahahaa.... ambot kaha selos bana. wala mangud q maanad nya magselos.

[[Avenging PIRANHA]]

--- ana jud q nmo ani BRo Piranz.. hehehe nakoy2x pajud tawn ning thread nq... hay salamat nnyo mga amigo og miga ha sa pgsud dri.. hehehe mdyo dugay2x na bya ning wa nq ma check up basin nsakit nani bah hehehe..

Ont: Bro, wala pa mi mgkasal pero pLano palang namo maybe 2 yrs From now.. For financial Reasons pa.. yes bro, update lang q.. hangtod karon kami japun sa aq bf and mo 11 yrs nami next yr.. hehehe..sobra pa sa ancient.. antique pa gani..

Dli manjud xa seloso Eversince oi.. naa gamay mag ask xa ang nag duda xa b4 ya g open nq pero dman to selos tingale.. aw ambot kaha pod.. maybe slight lang.. pero never mangud q ka try na yaha jud q totally gi singkahan coz nagselos lang xa.. anyway,naaanad nalang q.

Thanks for ur wish Bro...

all i can say sis is that "YOU ARE LUCKY TO HAVE BF LIKE THAT"

sa inyong relationship sis jud ayo ko naks grabe mag 11 years na.... If financial ang problema, what if mag civil wedding lang kaha mo ok ra man siguro nah hehehehe