How to survive, forget, recover and get over cheating and betrayal in a relationship

[paris2009]

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Take your chance on love, it's better to be hurt again and again but you will get stronger and better in time, and you won't miss on all the good things love has to offer. Otherwise just love your friends and spend time with them, lots of time to forget and in a few days, you'll be back in love, but better prepared.

[maitoots]

yes i think i should.... but the qstion is HOW?

accept that it had happened, feel the pain and go through it. think that your bf is not perfect and the reasons why you love him still.. but i guess the best thing to do for now is to love yourself even more than you love him. you deserve more than this. stand and be strong.. be proud for if you left him it will surely hurt but in due time when all the pains have healed you can love again, much more than you have loved him now.. but he.. he can never find another love like yours.. think about it.. it is not your loss.. pain is only temporary.

[HeThinksIDK8]

I've found out that my boyfriend/partner has been cheating on me and has been having an affair to someone else.
It's been 3 months already but til now i still feel the feelings of anger, pain, anxiety and depression though were already trying to work our relationship again. I want to hear something from you istoryans.... pls help me di ko gusto mwala xa nko after 2yrs and a half of relationship mahulog lng sa wla. maybe i was too jealous and nagger sometimes but i still keep on changing myself for a better me now.

I really hate that word "cheating". My hubby did too. I have access to his email account, thats how i found out. I know hell deny it, so i told him, make sure you wont leave traces of your fling with whores or else thats your fault already if i throw you in jail, coz you know very well i can put you in jail at this very moment, and then i turn my back on him. Namutla sya after I said that. But the truth is, I wasnt strong enough to deal with it. I closed my eyes so quick and said "God help me to be strong, no tears plz pwde po ba?" Suprisingly, i didnt cry, ksi uber sama na ng loob ko when i said it, and knowing iyakin ako. So akala ko talaga iiyak ako. Napakavulnerable ng babae when its comes to situation like this. Paranoid din ako. But plz dont forget to call God and cling on to him. You are pretty strong woman to accept him again. Just take one step at a time, get yourself busy with things. Like everyone said, focus on the positive side.
Ill pray for yahugs

[raizene]

ahh grabeha sad ipapreso man jud.... normal man tingali na sa mga laki na matintal sa lain.lolz

Pray nlang jud...

[HeThinksIDK8]

ahh grabeha sad ipapreso man jud.... normal man tingali na sa mga laki na matintal sa lain.lolz

Pray nlang jud...

He thiinks im lampa. So he thinks, i cant do such things to help myself up. Its like a warning for him. Sa awa ng diyos gumana naman haha! I always pray, the only thing i can do much in time of trouble.

[azumi73]

just learn to forgive and forget

f d na manda aw bwagi nlng ky kepoi keu na!!

unfair sad s u part na 4 almost 2yrs

relationship na nagtinarung ka tapos xa nagbinuang ra d i!!

faetz!!

[babychique]

hmmm, nice of you gihatagan ghpon nmu xa chnce..

f n.ana lng, dn't force yourslf.. u can always move on..
bt is not really that easy..

have you thnk na mbhat lng ghpon na nia blik?

bt of corz, people do change..

hmmmm,, follow your heart and mind..
sometimes ang heart cge lng love gd mskan kbw nka na wla ghpon maau na paadtuan f ipa daun..

[lynnkin_park85]

I really hate that word "cheating". My hubby did too. I have access to his email account, thats how i found out. I know hell deny it, so i told him, make sure you wont leave traces of your fling with whores or else thats your fault already if i throw you in jail, coz you know very well i can put you in jail at this very moment, and then i turn my back on him. Namutla sya after I said that. But the truth is, I wasnt strong enough to deal with it. I closed my eyes so quick and said "God help me to be strong, no tears plz pwde po ba?" Suprisingly, i didnt cry, ksi uber sama na ng loob ko when i said it, and knowing iyakin ako. So akala ko talaga iiyak ako. Napakavulnerable ng babae when its comes to situation like this. Paranoid din ako. But plz dont forget to call God and cling on to him. You are pretty strong woman to accept him again. Just take one step at a time, get yourself busy with things. Like everyone said, focus on the positive side.
Ill pray for yahugs

you know what sis the gud thing is i really dont hate my bf... ang makalagot man gud kay mgbalik2 sa ako huna2 ang pag-ingon sa babae sa akoa na "you have no license!"... as in makalagot kaau....but i think its too ironic coz those things that makes me fall in love with him are gone already... b4 man gud di jud xa gusto n masakitan ko, he's sweet and i see things in him b4 is xa n jud ang tao n di nya kaya n pasakitan ko.....now i ask myself why i still love him? the truth is... wa ko kabalo... as in wa ko kabalo why na wla nmn to mga reasons why i loved him b4.

[lynnkin_park85]

naa nko mnila karon. lagyo n mi. pero wla p mi closure which means kami lng gihapon. i ask him kung cla p ba ghapon atong girl. he told me na wla n daw cla. hmmm ambot di nko motuo. mao sad n iya ingon sa akoa b4 but then cla lng diay ghapon ato n tym and nasakpan p nko cla ningkuyog ang girl sa iya vacation sa mindanao. as in sabay sila ug leave from work. NOw he told me na di nlng daw to hisgutan. and he ask me na di nlng to nko cge huna-hunaon para di daw ko masakitan. now were not together and panagsa nlng mi mgcommunicate. im trying everything just to get over from those things that makes me feel those pain na ako naagian b4. but i admit i really2 miss and love him and im hoping that he also feel the same.

[lynnkin_park85]

ahh grabeha sad ipapreso man jud.... normal man tingali na sa mga laki na matintal sa lain.lolz

Pray nlang jud...

cnxa n sis ha. but i think its not normal na matintal cla. naa ra na sa ila kung mgpatintal na cla. just like us sa mga girls... naa sad matintal ug naa sad dili. its up to them kung huyang sila or dili. for me kung huyang ang isa ka tao sa ila relationship it just mean na di cla ligdung pasabot they're weak, unfaithful and liar!