Clingy, Manipulative and a Nagger Boyfriend: What to do?

[technowar]

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Give it a shot lang. Kajut ra man ng 9 months para mkaingon ka too late. If mogara nasad balik, buwag na jud.

[ellehpo28]

You made the right decision so stick to it and move on.
The first few weeks will be hard but always think of his attitude towards you and ask yourself if your relationship to him made you a better person.

Cheers! Be happy!

[emjee17]

Give it a shot lang. Kajut ra man ng 9 months para mkaingon ka too late. If mogara nasad balik, buwag na jud.

*If tagaan nakog LAST chance, of course naa joy changes. Number one, nako. Ug maybe niya. Murag everytime makakita ko niya dili na pareha before. Also, di ko ganahang makig balik niya kay tungod naluoy ko or wa ko ganahing makakita niya nga mag-ingun ana karun.. Galibog lang jud ko ba. Part of me di na ganahang mu balik, another is a bit confused.

You made the right decision so stick to it and move on.
The first few weeks will be hard but always think of his attitude towards you and ask yourself if your relationship to him made you a better person.

Cheers! Be happy!

*Well, he has been very possessive pero there were also times nga nakita nakong naa sad jud siyay sacrifices para nko ug nakita sad nakong love jud ko niya ug iya jud kong gi pangga. Pero, here comes the battle between my head and my heart.

My heart says give in but my mind says give up and focus more on my studies.

[yvonne6]

how did u start the relationship with your bf? was it like a quick relationship? bag o ba lang ka gikan sa usa ka relationship pagka uyab ninyo? naa man gyud nay basihan ang actions sa usa ka taw. seems like your bf doesnt trust you that much. why man?? ang mga lalaki, just like nato mga girls, they will not think of anything kung 100% sila sure nga maka trust sila nato. maparanoid lang ang usa ka taw for a reason. u better talk with him ngano ingon ana man

[Soul Doctor]

Hi! This is actually my first thread. Naa jud koy dilemma aning akong uyab and i hope nga tabangan ko ninyu. Please!

Last friday lang, nananghid kong mu adto ko sa ayala kay magbirthday akong amigang bayot ngadto sa Casa Verde. Then mga 8 ko ma uli or posible mga 9 naang pinakadugay.. Nisugot siya with the following conditions: 1) way laki dapat and 2) di ko magpalabi ug kiat.

Now, nanunga akong mga amiga mga 7 na then naka-kaun mi sa Casa Verde mga 8:10 na kay pwerti jud daghanang tao. Ang akong sala is, wala ko ka text niya nga nadugay mi ug eat kay mao ni mao na.

Karun, mga 8:45 ni text na siya nga aha na daw ko? Reply sad kog naa pa ko ayala, wala pa mi nahuman ug eat. Reply niya is "why naa pa man ka ayala? what time na man? abi kog nana kas inyu?"

Wa ko kasabots akong gibati, mura kog na pikon nga ga lagot nga na irita sa iyang gi text. Wala pa gud ko nahuman ug kaon then na dugay kog reply, ga sige na ug missed call, ga sige na ug text. Kinsa may dili mapungot ana?

Now, on the way home, ga sige na mig lalis sa text. Pero ni explain ko niya why dugay mi nakakaun, karun gi ingnan kog: "why kinahanglan pa man nga ara kas ayala mu kaon?? igo lang diya ka mu ara hatag sa imung gift then uli ka, kay ga expect kong sayo ka ma uli kay mao man imung pananghid.."

Nisamot jud kog kasapot aning iyang tubag. Then naa pa siyay daghang complaints like "wa man lang ganeh ka nagpa unli pag ingon na kog nagpa unli ko.." "gikalimtan man lang ganeh nimu ang dvd" (w/c is supposedly akong kuhaon niya kay mu borrow unta ko).

Ang naa sa akong huna-huna: "why naabot naman ta anang mga butanga? daghan ganeng sideline nga issues? Minor issues that is. Pwede mu focus ta sa atong unang issue."

9:30 pm ko naabot sa amo, diba 9 pa man na? I mean, within 9pm pa? Suko or nalain na siya why ingon ana nakong orasa naabot which is mao akong pananghid nga mga 9 ang pinakadugay. Ang gusto niya 9 impunto siguro nana kos amo.

Guys, what man ni? clingy? manipulative? nagger? I need your opinions.
Girls? I need your help.

Pakasli dayon ni miga.
Para inig kaminyo nimo himoon kang punching bag.

Kinahanglan mo makadetect early sa relationship sa mga "gagmayng" bati nga kinaiya
kay sigurado ko modako pa na inig minyo na mo.

[emjee17]

how did u start the relationship with your bf? was it like a quick relationship? bag o ba lang ka gikan sa usa ka relationship pagka uyab ninyo? naa man gyud nay basihan ang actions sa usa ka taw. seems like your bf doesnt trust you that much. why man?? ang mga lalaki, just like nato mga girls, they will not think of anything kung 100% sila sure nga maka trust sila nato. maparanoid lang ang usa ka taw for a reason. u better talk with him ngano ingon ana man

It was a quick relationship. We started off as team mates sa volleyball, i mean pareha mig team nga gi duwaan. Then, we went out for like 2-3 weeks? Before i met him, I was off in a relationship for like 8 months. I asked him why possessive siya, ana siyag ambooot?.

I still want to stick with my decision though.

[lorainz]

*If tagaan nakog LAST chance, of course naa joy changes. Number one, nako. Ug maybe niya. Murag everytime makakita ko niya dili na pareha before. Also, di ko ganahang makig balik niya kay tungod naluoy ko or wa ko ganahing makakita niya nga mag-ingun ana karun.. Galibog lang jud ko ba. Part of me di na ganahang mu balik, another is a bit confused.


u know what girl...other may say that "love is sweeter than the second time around" but for me it's not..cause i've been that..yes!. it is really hard for us to accept that guy for the mistakes they have done. maybe it's possible for us to give chances for them but, the problem there is it's all not they same. Feelings fade, the more it gives conflicts on you when the guy takes u seriously and your not anymore by this time, it's just like ur playing na lng na u don't care anymore f he's taking you sincerely.

lisod kaau na...
hai......

[emjee17]

*If tagaan nakog LAST chance, of course naa joy changes. Number one, nako. Ug maybe niya. Murag everytime makakita ko niya dili na pareha before. Also, di ko ganahang makig balik niya kay tungod naluoy ko or wa ko ganahing makakita niya nga mag-ingun ana karun.. Galibog lang jud ko ba. Part of me di na ganahang mu balik, another is a bit confused.


u know what girl...other may say that "love is sweeter than the second time around" but for me it's not..cause i've been that..yes!. it is really hard for us to accept that guy for the mistakes they have done. maybe it's possible for us to give chances for them but, the problem there is it's all not they same. Feelings fade, the more it gives conflicts on you when the guy takes u seriously and your not anymore by this time, it's just like ur playing na lng na u don't care anymore f he's taking you sincerely.

lisod kaau na...
hai......

Well, i guess i'll just have to give him the very last chance. Ako naman pud siyang gi tagaan ug contrata.. hehe.. na if mausab pa gihapon, wa nay mahayay..

[hobie]

He's just insecure sis. And, guys (some if not most) are very strict with time. If for example 7pm ang sabot, it should be 7pm. 15 minutes earlier or late only. That's all to it

Konti lambing nalang sis and just a tip. Guys need to be reminded always that we are loved

[mich_pink03]

if thats the case, dump him!