a tricky question

[spike_jersey12]

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wat would u do if nadiscover u na junkie (adik) ang imong uyabs? would u commit him (rehab) or leave him, or plain just live wid him/her?

speaking of rehab - this is a personal commitment. if the addict is not willing to change bisan pa pila na ka years nimo i-confine sa rehab - rehab won't work. plus you can't force your bf to be confined. so, you need to extensively talk this out with him. if needed, you can have a third person sa inyo communication preferrably a trained therapist or experienced social worker.

leaving him is another choice. but if you love him, try to help him first and see if he changes. if he loves you enough, he will. if he won't change, then leave him before he sucks you down into his black hole (one good example: whitney houston na addict ug coke due to her husband bobby brown).

deciding to live agrrwith him even when there is the proverbial "pink elephant" in the middle of the room is a very stupid idea. i recommend you do this only if you are worthless as a person, desperate and nobody loves you.

other than that choose decisions wherein you are preserving your life, identity, dignity, etc.

agree!!!! its a commitment to go to rehab....i've been there to observe***

[winter]

as his girlfriend i'm one of the people na mkabadlong niya.. bisan unsa pa iya reasons na ngano nag drugs cya, ma problems man or need niya para maka pulaw cya kay nursing lagi para mag study.. unreasonable ghapon.. i should talk to him and ask him to stop what he is doing.. simple as that.. people who are into drugs are people who need lots of attention and care.,

[kenoidz]

ipa-rehab oiz!...luv mn kha na nko ang tao, so y not suport wats best 4 her?...dba?...kung d na gyd madla, dungan nlng mig suyop oiz!!joke!...hehehehe

[7DMM]

rehabilitate.pero kung dili na matabang pangayo ug tabang kang dumpit!

[giver_bert]

reflect, perhaps.. i have my own share of the problem... provided the situation came about after the inception of the relationship..

relationships should bring out the best of every individual, and not drive them further out of normal circulation.. i surely wouldn't plunge to anything as dim-witted as drugs.. if i'm happy and contented with my partner then i surely have my hands full at her..

[maev7983]

leave him...

[JuRa^]

ill stay with him and encourage him to make himself better by going to rehab. or kung di gani madala mag dyuts ming duha hehe

[jumps_zilla]

i'd tell her that i love her and i want the best for her. then i'd ask her to go into rehab and tell her family too. if she refuses, then i'll give the most drastic punishment: leave her to the consequences of her actions. i'll break up with her too. i don't want my partner to be involved with anything illegal.

[Anonymous_23]

dnt sacrifice urself ... it wil afect ur future.. tel d persons concern bout his act. yaw na pag hasle2x.. u have a life.. move -on.. bsin later on u cant escape f grabe na ang situation.. dghan potentials ang adict, dli na ni cla mo ila og taw///.. better secur urself.. :mrgreen:

[Lavender_babe]

i advice nga magparehab oi! ug dli sugot , buwagi...(wa jud kay future ana' niya)..wat f , kamo mgkadayon? patay kang bata' ka...