what if imong uyab cge lang magduda?

[gamatoy]

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Bitaw!!! nindota bitaw ug ingon ana lang unta siya sa?? hehehe tarong man jud ko niya nya ambot sakto tanan nimong gi ingon... dili man pud ingon nga pasagdan basta naa pud unta koy freedom maski gamay sah?... aisuz... nara dyna... heheh oki... abi pa nako

aw ana jud na sya miss,,dapat jud unta na akay freedom bah na maka laag bisag kadali lang basta maka laag lang ka gud,,,basta makabalo lang sya asa ka ug kinsay kuyog ok na kaau na bah...if paranoid na jud aw buwagan oi..saon,,mag antos ka sa kasakit ug kuwang naalng tagoon ka s akaban...kuhaon lang ug ganahan,,,ayaw ana miss if dili na kaya aw biya-i na...aron sulbad imong problema ana klac na uyab...

[deia]

aw ana jud na sya miss,,dapat jud unta na akay freedom bah na maka laag bisag kadali lang basta maka laag lang ka gud,,,basta makabalo lang sya asa ka ug kinsay kuyog ok na kaau na bah...if paranoid na jud aw buwagan oi..saon,,mag antos ka sa kasakit ug kuwang naalng tagoon ka s akaban...kuhaon lang ug ganahan,,,ayaw ana miss if dili na kaya aw biya-i na...aron sulbad imong problema ana klac na uyab...

yah... huwat rako sako limit if dili najud kaia....hehehe mao nana aku filing nga mu tunga ra if ganahan, if dli gani, dua2 dayon nya undang text... yep... ill take not of ur opinion jud bro...lamat auuuuuuu!!!

[Soul Doctor]

we dont see each other everyday and i dont know he finds reasons lang jud na mag duda bisag sa SMALLEST reasons nalang jud, mag think siya na naa koy lain ka text or if sometimes bisag lakaw sa skul or family musulti siya nga nag laag2 ra kuno ko... kapoi pud baya.. how can i make him stop doing this?

This is a trust issue.
Probably insecure sad siya nimo.
Anyway trust is the foundation of any relationship.
If he can not trust you, then you can't expect anything from your relationship.

[deia]

This is a trust issue.
Probably insecure sad siya nimo.
Anyway trust is the foundation of any relationship.
If he can not trust you, then you can't expect anything from your relationship.

noh? he said he luvz me but he doesnt trust me and will never trust me agen... so this means no where na ang padulngan ani amoa?

[Soul Doctor]

noh? he said he luvz me but he doesnt trust me and will never trust me agen... so this means no where na ang padulngan ani amoa?

Do not believe that it is true love.
It is a selfish possessive obsession.
That is not love. Theres a big difference.
Love makes you do anything for the person you love.
He wants you to do everything for him.
Does not look like love to me.

[deia]

Do not believe that it is true love.
It is a selfish possessive obsession.
That is not love. Theres a big difference.
Love makes you do anything for the person you love.
He wants you to do everything for him.
Does not look like love to me.

i know... i have always known that he doesnt truly love me... he just seems to be fond of having me around... he cares at times but he has this temper and suspicions that are just unbearable... but the hardest part is that even though he treats me this way,,,, i still stick to him... its like im stuck and i just dont care as long as he doesnt leave me.... i sound pathetic sah?hehehehe i think i need some help here////

[Soul Doctor]

i know... i have always known that he doesnt truly love me... he just seems to be fond of having me around... he cares at times but he has this temper and suspicions that are just unbearable... but the hardest part is that even though he treats me this way,,,, i still stick to him... its like im stuck and i just dont care as long as he doesnt leave me.... i sound pathetic sah?hehehehe i think i need some help here////

That's the problem.
You want changes in your relationship.
Yet you hate change.
You are used to your relationship.
Maybe you've become dependent to him (financially, emotionally and physically).

[deia]

That's the problem.
You want changes in your relationship.
Yet you hate change.
You are used to your relationship.
Maybe you've become dependent to him (financially, emotionally and physically).

btaw noh?
i am maybe emotionally attached to him jud bitaw...
change? the thing is, id change anything for him... ANYTHING... but what about him?
after countless times of conversations and trying to set things straight he has already made up his mind about me...and that he will not trust me... it confuses me more coz,,,, nasta ambot...

[gamatoy]

wow nice conversation heart to heart talk,,,nway usa rana ang sulotion ana if dili sya ma change then i stop ang relationship aron wala nakay problema,,kay lisud mankaau na if nag sige lang ka minaw nya nya wala sya nag huna2x nimo na grabe imong pag antos nya ug nahog wala nakay freedom sa imong self...kana iyang gibuhat dili na sya love kundi mahadlok cya na mabawosan if naa man gani syay binuhatan...grabe na kaau na ka obsess and subra na jud na iyang gibuhat nimo...think evrything sa imong situation ron bout sa imong uyab na walay salig nimo...why mag antos manka ana nya....kami dri were trying to help u out sa imong situation ron....kana c soul doctor maau na sya mo advice bout love and kani among gi advice para rasad na nimo na maka amgo ug maka mata sa unsay maau buhaton nimo ana....

[GOthique]

kung in ana lng d i yang pag 2o meaning lack of trust cya nimo.

"the thinker is the doer" raba sis.

+++ I AGREE! been there