teacher-student relationship?

[meimei16069]

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i dont agree with this..

it violates the ethical code of what a teacher is.. moreover, it degrades his dignity as one.

Teachers are being looked at by their students, mainly for the fact that they are pillars and the foundations of teaching and inculcating the minds of our youths..

If you as a teacher violates this rule.. you are no more like some seducer or pedophile, wanting to just undermine the innocense of your student.. Shame on you nalang! There is no justification of you falling in love with your student because the fact is always there that you.. of all things is born long ahead than your student was.. and you should of all things, know that loving someone under your jurisdiction and care tantamounts to disrepecting your student and the profession you have dearly swore oath for.

You are also undermining and putting shame to most of the teachers out there who have showed what education is all about and in turn their students have grown to love them more as their second parent outside their respective homes...
My own lang..

maybe you had the point. but are you really sure that this situation degrades the dignity of being a teacher? i don't think so. do you really think that teacher's who are in relationships with their students were after for something that is not right? oh please. you don't know everything that's going on inside that relationship so you should've not tend to be that judgmental. i'm sorry to say that but that's what i think. and also, you said, undermining and putting shame to other teachers? hmm. it is the other teacher's responsibility and choice what to feel. if they'll feel shame, hard luck on them. well, they can choose to be happy for the teacher who is in relationship with a student. if in case they disagree to that circumstance, they'd better be silent than to spread anything nonsense from their mouths.. they're causing themselves to be prone to sin. huh.. not that teacher guy who is related to his student. so, they'll have the harm. before they say anything, i think YOU should've at least thought of questioning YOURSELVES. "WHAT IF YOU WERE IN THAT SITUATION? WHAT IF THAT WOULD REALLY MAKE YOU HAPPY?" i think that maybe as long as i couldn't harm others and would not step in any other's foot, then i would follow my heart.

P.S.
THAT IS JUST MY POINT OF VIEW IF I WERE IN THAT SITUATION.

thanks.

[meimei16069]

no problem with this kind of relationship, just be discreet.

yea, i do think so.

[bonju]

maybe you had the point. but are you really sure that this situation degrades the dignity of being a teacher? i don't think so. do you really think that teacher's who are in relationships with their students were after for something that is not right? oh please. you don't know everything that's going on inside that relationship so you should've not tend to be that judgmental. i'm sorry to say that but that's what i think. and also, you said, undermining and putting shame to other teachers? hmm. it is the other teacher's responsibility and choice what to feel. if they'll feel shame, hard luck on them. well, they can choose to be happy for the teacher who is in relationship with a student. if in case they disagree to that circumstance, they'd better be silent than to spread anything nonsense from their mouths.. they're causing themselves to be prone to sin. huh.. not that teacher guy who is related to his student. so, they'll have the harm. before they say anything, i think YOU should've at least thought of questioning YOURSELVES. "WHAT IF YOU WERE IN THAT SITUATION? WHAT IF THAT WOULD REALLY MAKE YOU HAPPY?" i think that maybe as long as i couldn't harm others and would not step in any other's foot, then i would follow my heart.


P.S.
THAT IS JUST MY POINT OF VIEW IF I WERE IN THAT SITUATION.

thanks.

In our society today...this is still a norm but the reality is these things are happening. I know for a fact a situation like this, its our neighbor, she is a high school teacher and she fell in love with her student. their age gap is around ten years. there are so many hindrances in their realtionship from the beginning specially on the side of this teacher's family. Her family also reach to the point of shutting their home's door to this poor teacher which the only mistake she made is falling in love with her student. there is too much pressure also on the school where he teach as they are all saying this is immoral. they make this an everyday gossip in the school campus and this poor teacher don't mingle with her co-teachers anymore to avoid tensions. to make the story short, this teacher and the student continue with their love against all odds...at first they suffer too much from peoples judgement but in the end they are accepted...with her family and the school where she is teaching. they are now married with two children.

[mP_tiu]

opinionated ra ni ha.. yaw away.. hahaha
knang ok raman pero mao lagi na love= sacrifice...
lose your job para iya.. hehhee

[meimei16069]

In our society today...this is still a norm but the reality is these things are happening. I know for a fact a situation like this, its our neighbor, she is a high school teacher and she fell in love with her student. their age gap is around ten years. there are so many hindrances in their realtionship from the beginning specially on the side of this teacher's family. Her family also reach to the point of shutting their home's door to this poor teacher which the only mistake she made is falling in love with her student. there is too much pressure also on the school where he teach as they are all saying this is immoral. they make this an everyday gossip in the school campus and this poor teacher don't mingle with her co-teachers anymore to avoid tensions. to make the story short, this teacher and the student continue with their love against all odds...at first they suffer too much from peoples judgement but in the end they are accepted...with her family and the school where she is teaching. they are now married with two children.

wow, this story is a "WOWER" for me. i think that it is truly an inspiring example.. don't you think so?
i think, that's how magical love is. it makes us more courageous to face any obstacles without even noticing that you are doing something na pala.. it's the urge, the desire, the passion, and the determination in staying in that relationship that keeps them alive and strong. i believe that they're happy right now after all those challenges..

[meimei16069]

opinionated ra ni ha.. yaw away.. hahaha
knang ok raman pero mao lagi na love= sacrifice...
lose your job para iya.. hehhee

hmm. there's no argument here.. sharing of beliefs and perceptions only.
please don't think any other..
yea. sacrifice.. ^_^

[scope_hunting]

sometimes it happens coz the gurl na attract ni sir kay responsible si sir, maayo mo storya maayo care and maayo mo joke2, daghan ani sa high-school, but depende ra sa situation as long as si Sir or si Mam walay sabit.

[meimei16069]

sometimes it happens coz the gurl na attract ni sir kay responsible si sir, maayo mo storya maayo care and maayo mo joke2, daghan ani sa high-school, but depende ra sa situation as long as si Sir or si Mam walay sabit.

yup. attraction is really a common thing.
i think it is inevitable. but temptation is there..
for me, nothing is really wrong about it.
if people would think that it is unethical,
it is there choice. they can believe what they want to believe.
but mind you, they shouldn't bother any other's lives.

[bonju]

wow, this story is a "WOWER" for me. i think that it is truly an inspiring example.. don't you think so?
i think, that's how magical love is. it makes us more courageous to face any obstacles without even noticing that you are doing something na pala.. it's the urge, the desire, the passion, and the determination in staying in that relationship that keeps them alive and strong. i believe that they're happy right now after all those challenges..

Yup, they are happy right now...because they are accepted. they still face many problems in life like what normal husband and wife is facing but the thing is they are together because they fought for their love. Me personaly was inspired by their love story thats why I shared this one.

[hunt99]

hmm. yea. that's right. if they really love each other, they would surpass any challenges that would come their way no matter what. but more often, people tend to think about the teacher's professionalism and the student's responsibility as such. we are not thinking about age here 'cause as we all know, that matter can be exceptional because people has nothing to do with it. that's a common situation.. but a teacher-student relationship is an issue? talking about the college teacher in his relationship with her college student in the bigger cities, first reaction of people is their state of being shocked. but later on, they will be on the state of accepting. but i think most cases like these happen in towns/provinces.. as what i have observed, people in these places is likely to be more aggressive than the people in bigger cities. they ought to attend other people's business, unlike people in bigger cities... they have their own way of running their own lives, not being a destruction to other people's lives. i can say that human imperfection is part of the world and they have this ability to prejudge which is inevitable to us because it's our nature. i just don't understand why people were like questioning what's wrong about this matter when in fact.. the Law of God doesn't forbid any of his human creatures like student and teachers to fall in love with each other. the scripture doesn't say anything like that. it's the human's perception which advances their minds to the negative side. yes, it may be unethical because our living is not used to this kind of relationship. but why not? what's really the matter about entering that relationship? we are all responsible for our own happiness and God does want us to live in abundance. let me clarify, in my opinion, a "TEACHER-STUDENT RELATIONSHIP" is never said to be a "SIN".

so.
anyone who agrees/disagrees with me?
state your point of view.

you know sis i agree with you its not a SIN as for me as a catholic onsa my naka sayop anang dapita ang student will love the teacher and the teacher will love the student both of them actually age doesn't matter and that situation of relationship is not bad its your happiness kama-o sad gyud ka sis onya agree sad ko nimo