OT: don't look at it in VERY black and white terms. You may not have had a serious and committed long term relationship but for sure, naa kay mga friends guys or girls and some nga close friends dba?
or naka try naka panguyab pero wla lng gyud ning sugot ang bae?
in today's society, some people tend to look at things in very black and white terms. the world is gray so learn to adapt to it a little. why a little lang? because the whole world being gray doesn't mean one's ethics and principles can go gray as well. you should be firm and surefooted on what you believe in, on what your conscience guides you.