HELP Unfaithful Girlfriend

[j3thro]

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ever heard the song 'there's no easy way to break somebody's heart'? by James Engram? take time to listen to the lyrics.. it's for you...

Find time to personally talk to your boyfriend.. this matters of the heart needs time and close personal communication for the parties to understand... and resolve.

We all are tempted from time to time, instead of blaming the TS, we should find time to console and help her. After all, we're just humans, frail and subject to wordly desires and temptations..

Tell it all to your bf your misdeeds... there's no way easier than that. Remember, if your boyfriend really loves you that much.. he can accept your faults and give you one second chance to correct your mistakes. It might not be right then and there.. but a guy who truly loves her girlfriend, knows how to forgive, (perhap's forget.) It takes time, I know.. but that is what loves all about man sad.. you accept the person for who or what she is.. for everything about her, bad and good.. as long as the person is sincere with her apologies and never ever to commit that mistake in the future again..


Cheers and Good luck!!

[sandsss]

Break things off with them. Tell the truth. They may not like you for it, but you'll be free from the burden of lying.

Now comes the "guilt" part. What you did wasn't the best - and you know it. Allow yourself to heal. Charge your mistakes up to experience. Learn from them. Everyone makes poor judgment sometimes.

Dismiss those who tell you you're up to no good. You know the irony: everyone forgets your good deeds over a single mistake.

[P-Chan]

bitaw.. buwagi nalng... if he's worth the trouble...

[hunt99]

im in a serious and committed long distance relationship. last year, i met another guy and until now im still seeing him. hindi alam ng bf ko na im unfaithful to him. and this guy also dont know na may bf pa ako. i dont know why im still dealing with this situation even if i know na hindi to tama. i love my bf so much and i cant take it if i will lose him. but a part of me want to be with this other guy. i know im really so bad and if i may say it, i feel like im a b**tch or a prosti. theyre both inocent and i know im the only one na me kasalanan. i dont know what to do. im already hurting them both.

in your situation sis ayaw anang ing-ana ky di na maayo ky love gyud nimo imong BF and ayaw og pag-hatag og sakit ky kung maka balo ang BF nimo ana masakitan siya bisan kanang bag-o nimo ka koyog ma lain sad ky wa ka mo solti sa tinood just tell the new guy na asa a friend lang mo and ayaw binoangi imong BF ky wala man sad ka na ga binoang nimo ky akoang past sa una bisan laki ko ako ry gi binoangan sad sa akong uyab but past is past most important is the present

[xkenikensx]

tsk tsk tsk... furbida ngano g buhat mani nmo oi...

[roybrian69]

If your gonna continue what you're doing all i can say to you is B-I-H!!! put yourself on the shoe of the person nga imung gi binuangan... tabla rana ug gi kulata ang feeling... ikaw kaha kulatahun ganahan ka?

[gamatoy]

sos ang bigat mo miss,,,ikaw pa yung unfaithful,,,,astig...kasalanan mo yan miss kase hindi ka ma kuntinto sa isang lalaki lang....dapat piang isipan mo b4 ka mag on sa iba..heavy mo miss..hahaha

[Driftwood]

kabalo ka mam, the thing you did, you are practically giving your BF abroad all the usable justification to bang just anybody abroad without guilt... but it does not mean he already did/ or did not. You should have thought about it before you cheated. lami nang cheating uy... mas stimulating ang tago na relationship... pero it all boils down to Karma and if you are ready to face all it can slap back at you...

Guilt is a very heavy burden to carry. it is self inflicted mostly and so only you can lift it. best way to lift it is to forgive yourself and ask the forgiveness of the other parties you are at fault with...

tell the truth to both parties. then let them decide... after all you suck at making these kinds of discernment. if they both say they still want you then...

weigh things... ingon man jud ka na you are attached to both... ask yourself why you are attached to your BF. Financial ba? emotional ba? physical ba? then huna-huna.a why you are attached to that other guy right now... I mean you have not even told everyone unsa jud inyo relasyon... kung uyab ba mo, MU, FUBU? if he courted you seriously, or was it just spur of the moment na nagkakiligan lang mo then you then tira dayon... then ask what's keeping you from breaking up with him... physical ba? emotional? financial?

Then make a decision and stand by it... bear in mind that Karma is out there waiting for the right time to either call your "utang" quits or make you pay for it... so choose your decisions wisely...

kung ako naa sa imong shoes? the only way I can clean myself is break up with both... then start anew...

[mP_tiu]

pili.i oi.. karma jd ka ana!
nya karun nganu mg cge mana ana mga babae na mga LAKI JUD!
HILIG KAAU MAG TWO TIME!
nya ang i rason ani
tao ra pud ko na masayop pud..

[Kishin888]

if you dont want to forget something tie a ribbon in your hand


if you want to forget everything TIE A ROPE IN YOUR NECK