Anyone here who HAD loved ones who HAVE been murdered?

[endlessknight]

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Reopening old wounds? The families might not want to talk about the experience. Sakit kaayo mawad-an kug kapamilya, mas sakit pa gyud kung tungod sa krimen ang ilang pagkamatay.

[BanshEe]

My uncle was murdered.
But i was not yet born when that happend.
so sad to say i cant share what it feels like.
But the story goes like this, gi atngan xa gawas
sa discohan, sa taw nga na agrabyado pd niya.
then gi sak2 xa, dnt know where jud,
but that caused hs death.
it must hav been so sad.

[anjerika]

my cousin in law... was murdered by the MILF in the Mindanao war in August 2008. their vehicle was the first to be stopped by the militants in the middle of the road by 4am. he was ordered to come down from the truck and was taken far away to get slaughtered. then lots of houses were burned and several others got killed.

not only was he shot, he was decapitated - upper arm, feet, etc.

so sad, coz siya and my cousin has been married for 3 years pa lang that time and they have a 3-year old daughter.

you wouldn't want to see it in the news, a blogger posted his picture somewhere. maluoy lang ko for him and my cousin.


TS, opening up the topic won't help you cope. you're adding trauma to your experience. the more you will bear the pain about the incident that you can do nothing about anymore.

[medjz]

my cozin gi tripan lang sa kainom. relativ pa jud namu ang nagbuhat but dedz na pud sya ron, kay naa pud naglagot niya. rip to them..

ako uncle. gitripan kay dili man mulaban gud sa mga bogoy.. homebody man sya.. gisuyaan. wala man nakita kinsa ang mga suspects.. bata pa man gud ko ato.. RIP