We broke up last jan.30, 2009... It was my guy's decision that we shud have cool off with two reasons , he just want time for ourselves daw and the reason that i was so possesive... Ako xa giingnan why shud we cool off , what if dritso nalang jud buwag coz for me ara raman pud padong, sakit kaayo sa ko part coz i really love him so much.. i was too possisive coz im afraid na mawala na xa sa ko but sayop ko kay nawala najud xa..
Possisive mean having or manifesting a desire to control or dominate another, especially in order to limit that person's relationships with others..
It all started ang prob namo last december he has an ex, 4 years sila ato, nagbuwag sila coz ang girl nakig play og lain team and mas gi prefer sa girl na mo kuyog sa lain na guy.. he met me after 1 month la break up and then he courted me for almost 1 month pud,so during sa amo relationship the girl kept on texting him pa, didto ko lagot na atong girla.. naay one time text2x mi ako bf, her ex texted him.. sa amo ag text2x naapil ang name sa girl sa iya txt nako, i freaked out cz y namention ang name sa iya ex.. then he explained na ya daw naapil ang name sa iya ex kay ni text daw nangumusta lang, he never meant it man daw, accidentally lang na sa ex niya ang name ya na text... but then, ako giaway ang girl coz y nag text2x pa niya... i textd d girl na "bitch" tungod lang pd to sako kalagot.. didto nlain ako guy kay why ingato daw ko ka freaked out!.. new year her ex called sa iya fam didto napud ko lagot kay unsa paman jud gusto sa girl y ingato pa ngita jud way na as if close jud ya fam.. nag post ko bulletin sa friendster paigo nako ya ex na sip2x kaayo, bitch , etc.. but i never mentiond a name, then after dat the girl change no.
after dat nana pud xa textmate.. didto napud ko lagot kay when i called him wala tubaga ako tawag kay nag tok xa sa iya textmyt d.i.. y ingato paman, unsa paman ya gusto.,is he not contented with me jud.?. he just said he want to make friends lang man daw..
we had a date last tues. and okey pa ayo mi ato.. nanghid xa na laag daw xa on saturday kay iya friends invite man niya.. ako xa ingnan if laag xa then expect na laag pud ko, di man ko pugong unsa ya gusto, di man pud xa sugot laag ko kay why daw molaag pajud ko.. its unfair dibah coz laag xa nya ako buro lang sa house xa lingaw2x...
Friday morning.. he texted me he wants us to talk daw... so i went at there bhaus 2pm... then that time he asked if am i still hay samo relationship.. and then i asked him "kaw?" he said "maybe we shud hav time for ourselves, and prob ud niya im too possesive nadaw ayo, nsakal na xa.. ya lang gusto na mag enjoy sa muna karon.. we jst let ourselves unwind muna .. maybe after dat we cud go back... sa iya man gud nauyab bfore na 4 yrs he never experienced to hang out, get drunk, and party diri didto so mao na ya nahan daw muna.. what you think do i let him have some time?? i mean what if sa iya hangyo maka meet xa og new girl?? unsaon nman lang ko na nag wait sa iya
is he fair enuf? he said he love me so much but then iya lang daw, na lessen ang love coz im so possesive sa 100% maybe 70% nalang daw ang love, is my decision correct na stop nalang jud coz ara raman pud padong
lisod ayo e move on but unsaon man nako... do i have to wait
we still text each other and talk sa fon and we exchange "iloveyou's" is it okey lang bah?? sa iya man gud dili dw xa mag waste iya time sa ako na text2x pa and tawag if la na xa love.. this weds. sabot mi na kita .. okey lang bah?? pls tell me.... is my decision correct? do i have to let him go nalang kaha??
Originally Posted by lady_blackrose
