32 Emotional Signs That He/SHe is Cheating

[chellee]

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worth reading jud ni dah...

watch out cheaters!!!

[bradfits]

Anybody here have watched cheaters on cable TV? This is a gud TV program for all cheaters!!!!!!

[mique]

hahaha!!! yeah... tig-tan-aw ko anang CHEATERS sa reality tv... atay mga cheaters!!! drama kaau... hehe

[bradfits]

@mique: mao lagi mga inatay kaayo mag cheat. kaluoy sa ilang mga partners. Maayo unta naa pud na dre kay magpa hire jud ko sa ila services... unya i spread dayon ang video.... hahaha

[P-Chan]

hala.. mga bigaon dira.. bantay2x mo...

[alfred_ant]

Now i know! Life sucks sometimes!

[dead_soul]

Nice one there... if you are that sensitive enough to know the changes. Putting these things into your mind would also be misinterpreted as distrusting. Hope you won't get that kind of experience. Be the best person, chin up if a person cheats on you, the guilt is not in you...

You will see what would happen to them in the long-run... weak pasts devours them in time...

[giver_bert]

thing is.. those signs could either be taking on both sides.. Â*either cheating or just trying to make out the relationship's foundation more sturdy than it is already..

1. Your mate is more attentive to your needs than usual. This is due to the guilt feelings experienced by the cheater in the early stages of his or her affair. The attention will diminish as the affair continues.

- it is, i believe, of every partner's wish that their better half could at least be fairly keen to their needs.. as for some, being more attentive than they usually are is a manifestation of utmost conviction..

2. Your mate begins buying you gifts -- lots of gifts. These are "Guilt Gifts" purchased because your partner feels guilty about betraying you and showering you with presents makes him or her feel better.

- one thing's for sure, it's gonna be one pain in my pocket, and it will never make me feel better knowing i have more than one partner to allocate my money for gift giving.. it would be out rightly ungrateful if one maintains that kind of "mindset," it somehow precludes a person's tendency to be more expressive with their feelings by giving a negative connotation to such deed..

3. Your mate's behavior is causing a gut feeling in you that something isn't right. If this happens, pay attention to your instincts. Ignoring them means you want to blind yourself to the truth. You know your mate's habits, routines and attitudes better than anybody, so be suspicious when these things change

it could go on either extremities..

blinded by truth

or

blinded by low self-esteem, inferiority complex, jealousy..

your gut feeling basically resides on primarily on how you feel about yourself.. if you're the possessive/jealous type, then regardless of your partners actuations or what, it will still drill down to same gut feeling - that he/she is cheating and that one way or another, your relationship is bounded to reach it's collapse..

relationship should not be treated like any business undertaking where professional skepticism should be maintained at all times, otherwise i don't think you will ever get to enjoy the very essence of it..

4. Your mate frequently picks fights with you. Doing this gives him reason to get mad and storm out of the house and thus the opportunity to meet a lover. A cheater may also do this because of mixed emotions he is feeling about betraying you.

- people could be cranky from time to time, on personal accounts, i've had serious trauma with thisÂ* recurring P.M.S. thingy that ladies have, but i'm aware that it's just natural.. or so..

5. Your mate constantly talks about your relationship ending when you fight or argue. She says things like, "What would you do if our relationship ended?" or "If anything ever happened to us, I would always love you like a friend." In general, she seems very negative about your relationship. Your mate makes these statements because she has a lover to fall back on if your relationship ends. If your partner repeats these kinds of statements often, be suspicious.

- i see it more as acknowledging something that is inherent in a relationship.. reality is, no matter how healthy the relationship purports to be at present, there will always be that possibility lurking from behind that things may not turned out the way you wanted it to be.. sometimes things could just go out of our grasp and no matter how we tried to get a grip of it, still we find ourselves slowly slipping away.. it's better to be ready of the possibilities, having fall backs doesn't mean you're cheating or preempting an undesirable outcome..

6. Your mate becomes very moody. He or she seems very upbeat and excited when leaving you but acts somber and depressed when around you. If your mate is in a long-term affair, he/she will try to keep both relationships running smoothly. Any problems the cheater has in one relationship will spill over into the other relationship as well. This is inevitable

- true, on a cheater's perspective.. i presume hehehe

7. Your mate never talks to you. You live together but don't interact. He has become cold and inconsiderate of your feelings.

- darn.. inconsistencies, when your partner becomes extra keen, extravagant, nice to you.. he/she might be cheating; when he/she never talks nor pay attention to your feelings, then he/she might be cheating as well..

so.. which is which really asa naman tawn mi lugar ani na either way taga-an man gyd ug negative connotation!

8. Your mate's taste in music suddenly changes. For instance, she always listened to pop music but suddenly starts listening to country music. Your partner might be listening to and growing fond of this new type of music because her lover listens to it.

- oh my goodness, even touching minute details like this one? thing is, we are dynamic organisms and from time to time we get to have different preferences and our idea of what's good to our senses.. and what the heck are they correlating this to cheating? so does it mean, if i'm a hardcore frank sinatra music listener then i should stick to it coz otherwise it may somehow give a signal to my partner that i'm starting to dig other ladies?

9. Your mate lacks self-esteem. This doesn't necessarily mean he will go out and have an affair, but an insecure individual often looks to others for guidance. If an insecure person's needs aren't being met, he might find the desired feelings of security and positive feedback in an affair with someone else.

- it could go either way again, most people that i know who lacks self-esteem opted to be aloft to people.. they somehow find emancipation to possible criticisms by living life in solitude.. although it is true that some might opt at looking for somebody who could give them a doze of ego-boosting means, but then again there are a lot of other avenues that they could plunge into - sports, friends, educ. curriculum etc..

10. Your mate continually criticizes another person. She is trying to make you think that type of individual would never be of interest to her, although there actually exists a secret attraction.

- "continually" presupposes that the person is already like that even before the relationship started.. so i guess being the same person that he/she already is just but normal.. sometimes stereotyping others could be really fun to do with your partner.. hehehe

11. Your mate criticizes things about you that he or she once found attractive and appealing.

- depends if it's constructive or destructive..

12. Your mate easily becomes offended at the comments, however harmless, that you make.

- if the comment is totally uncalled for, no matter how well you sugar-coat it, still one gets offended by it, regardless if he/she is cheating or not..

13. Your mate stops paying attention to you, your children and home-life in general.

- for ladies, if she happens to be a full time housewife and mom, then it could be one indication.. or perhaps an indirect manifestation of boredom

- for guys, as bread winners, sometimes they just get to fed up with work and other things of importance also that diverted their attention to his family.. i guess that's why most think that career and personal matters have an 'inverse relationship'

14. Your mate begins closing doors when you are around, when before he or she would leave them open. For instance, the Bathroom-Door Rule: Couples in long-term relationships often leave their bathroom doors open while attending to necessities even if their partners are nearby. As affairs develop, the cheating mates will close bathroom doors, distancing themselves physically and psychologically from their partners.

- uhhmm.. dunno about this, but perhaps there's that 'underlying erotic reason' why they used to leave the door open.. of which diminishes as time drags by hehehe.. so it could be one's idea of pumping it up again.. restoring the element of anonymity.. haha!

15. Your mate stops complimenting you on your looks.

- when there's nothing to be complimented upon, then i don't! now.. rather than being too critical of correlating it to a potential sign of cheating, it's better if they divert it to ascertaining what's left to be improved or changed at themselves and perhaps they would get the compliment that they want to from their mates..

16. Your mate stops saying, "I love you."

- love manifestation is better felt through actions or ways that would yield to tangible things.. everybody could just utter those words, but questions is how many have make those words into realization with their actuations?

- i just find those words overly abused, so personally i'd rather resort to picking up other lines.. like telling her "waffa kaayo ka, 'nya imal uyaakz pa jed!"



i'll get back on the other half.. (me sleepy)

[DebutsAndIDos]

Hahaha...

But, this is certainly worth reading.
At least, I will know what to watch out for when I finally get into a relationship again.

2 years na ko and running, wala bf, hahaha! Life is beautiful when I complete me.

[noRika]

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