How do you handle partners with uncontrolled temper/anger?

[jennesse]

---

undress in front of him/her...get to the bathroom,...invite him/her to take a shower together.
110% of the time it works.


or


hand in her/ his cell phone.....let him express his/her anger and rage throught SMS/text messaging...even though you are just a feet apart....

this works too...


but I like the first option.

[jntio]

ilisi............

[michaelocana]

based on my experienced...tagaan nko ug time pra mo cool down...dili jud ko mosakay sa iyaha anger...leave him alone.. when his ready to talk to u then listen to him lang jud...

the most impt thing is to find out more about his past, find out why he can't manage his anger, it might be because of his past or his childhood experiences...understand ur partner well, open communication will leads u too better understanding his personality & life experiences...

I agree and its tolerable if this temper will experience not everyday or not even on a small things not related with your relationship. Kanang mga small things nga di dapat problemahon himoong issue nga di dapat unta. so your relationship mag puyo nalang sa sige ug argue sa mga things nga iyang gi sapotan or gi kalagutan. Agree ko ana sa imong suggestion kung ang uncontrolled temper is parehas ra anang mga monthly period meaning once a month....



..

[purecebuana]

I agree and its tolerable if this temper will experience not everyday or not even on a small things not related with your relationship. Kanang mga small things nga di dapat problemahon himoong issue nga di dapat unta. so your relationship mag puyo nalang sa sige ug argue sa mga things nga iyang gi sapotan or gi kalagutan. Agree ko ana sa imong suggestion kung ang uncontrolled temper is parehas ra anang mga monthly period meaning once a month....



..

if everyday na ang temper, u shud send ur partner for anger management counselling, abnormal nman sad if everyday to show tantrums..am married for more than 10 yrs now but wla man sad ko ka experience anang everyday...i would definitely freak out if everyday...i can't imagine how would i handle it...

[stephanie]

i give him silence and space for him to cool down. when his anger is over, then that's the time i'll talk to him. usually, when a person is angry, he only listens to himself. if your partner is mad and mo apil sad ka sa kasuko, gubot! or perhaps make lambing...

[michaelocana]

i give him silence and space for him to cool down. when his anger is over, then that's the time i'll talk to him. usually, when a person is angry, he only listens to himself. if your partner is mad and mo apil sad ka sa kasuko, gubot! or perhaps make lambing...

tagaan ug silence sama sa pg dokdok sa ulo para maka tog... hehehehehe para mahilom osa then pgka mata storya nata beh! hehehehehe



.

[sUnDoLp]

ako ra ipa vent out ang kalagot sa akong partner, igo rako mohilom ug dna mo lalis ky mosamot ra ang away. and i learned na it's always wise not to make decisions when ur mad..

[depzi]

pa apila na cya anger management program...
i'll just shut up pero kung manapat na hala tawag og police oi!
ala man gani ka kulataha sa imo parent...ngiga gyud niya wala cya malipong!

[WengIA]

di man nako paminawon bahalag magyawyaw sya diha.

[one try kid]

muay thai clinch!!! ohh yeah...