HELP My boyfriend has a son

[falloutmac]

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try lang i-accept xa as ur own.. in that way mas mu nndot ang pundasyon nnu sa imung bf.. trust me.

[joshbonz]

lisod jud ma accept ang reality nga dili nimo na kadugo ang bata..

it will always haunt you down.. being a stepmom to your bf's kid needs a special kind of understanding lang jud, especially on your part. I totally understand on your part that your somewhat envious to the fact that your bf is spending fatherly quality time on his kid.. a kid from a separate girl.. the thought of the child coming from another girl, not you.. totally makes you somewhat hate the child in some way or the other..

just remember lang sad that you know your bf situation long time before you agree to have a commitment with him.. so? my best advise is that just be the mom of his child.. when you commit to someone.. youre not only loving that someone all along.. but, youre taking part whatever that comes with him na... and that includes his child from his past..

[excon]

OT: i totally agree...

love him as your own nalang wala naman ka mahimo ana...

[hunt99]

sis if love gyud to nimo ang laki then try na mo agwanta ka ky love man sad kaha ka niya og caring sad siya nimo pero kung wa siyay klaro aw likay na lang niya di na lang ka cgeg huna huna niya para di ka masakitan naa bitaw daghan lain

[boylaang]

when u get into the situation you knew about it right? so accept it.. thats why he sticks to you cause he knows you accepted him and his son.. think of yourself a part of his family.. what do you want to talk about diay? yourself? its about you and him and who he loves. and believe me the more you'll love his kid.. the more he will need you and love you..

correct double chek

[jamylicious]

Know what guyz your advices were very helpful to me and that's what im actually doing ..Im loving the kid as if he's my own...but in some point there are moments especially when I'm spending time with my bf and his son...i can still think of this question (" What's my role in my bf's life??")...
Maybe i cant help myself asking this all over again because he once asked me this( OH! not really once but i think a couple of times ) ..
" Asa liwat akong anak?" ....when i heard him asking this to me..mura jud ko gsagpa bitaw...i want to punch his face and tell him sa imung x..hahahaha ..but ako lang jud gpugngan akong self due to some respect..i dunno what is he up to when he's asking me this...is it because LOVE kau niya iyang x sa pagbuhat aning bataa ( well of course nahimu gud) and worst is up until now LOVE ghpon ni nya..and here comes ME iya lang ggmit to forget the girl nga nagbinuang nya and so ME nalng mobarog nga inahan sa yang anak...HELP guyzz....libog au ako utok npud...

[egent_kakashiZero]

ni sulti nka nya personaly unsay mga kalagut nimo?...and if his just using u as a rebound girl or a "for the mean time mother" sa iyang anak..just talk to him nlng jud dritso...sory if nka pa libug mi tnan og maayo nimo..dli jud bitaw lalim imo situation krn.."Asa liwat akong anak?"...laina ana oi..mdyo manhid lagi imo bf.. cncya na sis...pila nmo ka months?..mybe just tel him na u ned sum tym to think lng sa cgro...

[jamylicious]

@ egent

lagi noh? lain au ingnun ka ana kung asa liwat iyang anak..wa jud ko katingog daun... but here comes ako nga padaun lng ghpon sabot...wla pa jud ko ktel nya honestly sa akong mga hinanakit nya coz he's busy sa work and if mgkoug pud mi naa ang bata...faet au bah..maybe il just set a date nga mgka talk mi and tell him everything ako na feel...ang nka apan man gud naku noh kay DILI jud ko ktingog daun..mohilum ra ko especially if mag-away mi..hehehe

[egent_kakashiZero]

@ Jam...


hala...kung mao na mohilum rka..dili mo mag daog ana..unsay work nya?..sak2 imo plan..u tell him na mag date mo kamu duha..as a special occasion "kuno"..pra wla ang bata..nya 4 u to say it all just be brave.. no more chance njud na mgka talk mo na kmo sa duha...so just be brave and tell him tanan kasakit nimo... prepare npud og face towel or pwd pud tu-alya kay 4 sure mag hinilakay mo ana hehehehe..
joke hehehehe....1st tym ni nmo na mka uyab na complicated kaayo?..

[illan]

ok rana atleast naa naka baby instantly.. dn if you love him... u accept him kng unsa naa niya...