Being friends after break up...

[iLuVarcher`d`great]

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over the weekend we've tried to be polite to each other. i think he finally realized that we really have to be friends at least for the sake of our daughter. so far it's going well. it's for the best.
...the only negative thing i can say about being friends with your ex is that you might fall in love again and doing the same mistakes and once again will end up being hurt...again.

parehas jud ta, we're trying to be civilized to each other, although sometimes, i get real cranky coz, i made the stupid mistake of "falling in love with him again" Â* Â* Â*looking at him, gently and sweetly holding the baby in his arms....*sigh*

this is really difficult...sheeezzz!!! cudnt imagine feelin this way...

[gangrene]

k ra.... so far, sa akong mga ex, 1 ra ang dili nko friend karon, wala ko ganahi makigfriend niya kay bati among experience katong kami pa.....

[titaniumbox]

ok lang..you don't want to lose the friendship.. must learn to move on..

[tamxy]

when will be the best time nga angay muf magka friends mu sa imu ex after a break-up? and what are the signs nga ready naka makig friends niya? please do help me...

[Serene]

I give chances to people who deserves it. However, i do not believe in platonic relationships. What happened in the past should stay there...and that includes the ex. i mean, what for?

[vladmire]

as much as possible, after na mag-break mo... so far in my situation, i still have my 2 ex as my friends since most of them doesnt live in the phil anymore. wala nako balita nila!!

[cuttie_angel]

it all depends on how you break-up and what causes to your breakup. i mean, being friends with an ex is hard to do especially na not good inyong pagbreak. lisod kaau it takes time jd na cya. hehehehe...but in my situation after mi nag break sa akng ex- friends man dayon mi kay we both agreed man na good or bad atong breakup we still be friends lng gyapon and the good thing is real good friends kaau mi karon.

[shimiyu]

hmmmn as for now, being the hurt party, i find it difficult to handle being friends with her, at such a fresh time.
i guess i need space from her.. how long..? i don't know.[br]Posted on: September 13, 2007, 17:42:40_________________________________________________

when will be the best time nga angay muf magka friends mu sa imu ex after a break-up? and what are the signs nga ready naka makig friends niya? please do help me...

ask yourself first.. can you handle being friends with him?
if not.. then don't push it.. focus on life first.

[shimiyu]

what for?

yeah, i can understand w/ Serene there. it's hard to revert back to a platonic friendship especially if the previous was an intense romantic relationship.

[yokam]

Anytime, provided that both of you has already moved on.