HELP In Love with a Pregnant Girl

[WengIA]

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for me?it's a big NOOO!!!...
i hope that it won't happen to me either...hirap niyan bro..think first,wag ung puso paaralin...but if u really love her go on "package deal" na yan..no return no exchange,..

unga eh' hirap nga bro. leche talaga' kahit anong isip ko mali talaga to' nga lang gusto ko kasi yung girl sa ngayon tska naawa ako..huhuhuhu

[WengIA]

btaw bantay lang basig magamit ka as panakip butas.

naa ra na nimo if okay ra nimu nga naa na cya anak. naa rajud na nimo bai basta huna hunaa lang gyud maayo.

hihihi! mao jud! ako jud na gibantayan bro..pero di man sad mi uyab' pero mura mig uyab..hihihi :B

[WengIA]

well, first of all, if u really feel love for her, it wouldn't matter to u and u wudn't have any second thoughts. to love is to accept someone despite her age, abilities and disabilities, strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes, and stuff like that. and to love unconditionally is truly a blessing from God. if u love her, accept her, as well as the child she's bearing. u shud be ready for the responsibilities and consequences that u shud face in the future. i'm not trying to scare u or anything. this time, u have to be practical with the decisions u make. again, if u love her, accept her, no matter what.

it's not easy to accept jud ..usa pa unsa na lang ikasulti sa mga tao sa ako.ahuhuhuh mao gani pag magkita/istorya mi motago mi duha kay lisod na machismax..hihihihi ang nakalagot lang jud ani kay naa ko gusto niya unya lisod mag cge og pugong. mao ni nakalisod karon kay ang imo hunahuna dili gusto unya ang imo kasing2x pwerti kagusto..ayayay pag ibig ..

[WengIA]

it's not a problem if you really love the girl.. the problem is.. are you sure she loves you?!

based on experience.. sometimes the family plays a big part on a girl's relationships.. esp. if they are close.. i've had a bf of 5 yrs. but my family was against it.. daghan na talk.. confrontation.. drama.. eventually.. coz they were always saying negative things about him.. i just got tired nlng to fight for the relationship.. there really are times when we just fall out of love.. maybe that's what your gf meant..

because let's face it.. boyfriends come and go but family will always be there.. through hard times & good times.. through the 1st trimester.. thru the prenatal.. thru the labor.. thru the delivery.. and thru the growing up years of the baby.. with or without the father of the child..

just be sure she's not on rebound.. why don't you wait until she gives birth to decide if you're really willing to commit.. wait until you actually see the baby face to face.. right then and there.. you will know if you are willing to accept her AND the baby.. just be there for her if she needs you.. but don't make any harsh decisions as well.. this is your life & your future that you'll be deciding about..

good luck..

yeah' salamat sis' sa payo. ako ni buhaton imo giingon "just be there for her if she needs you" ..murag mao jud ni pinaka da best nga akong buhaton... hulaton na lang jud nako' mahibaw an ra ning katag inig gawas sa bata inig ka december puhon..hihihi' then kung naa gihapon ko gibati niya wala nay duhaduha2x go for it. bahala nag package deal' hihihi :B

[diem]

ing ani ang sitwasyon.. naa kay nainlaban na girl tapos nahibal-an nimo nga 3mos pregnant na diay sya sa laing lalake pero bulag na sila. unya ang girl kay nahulog na ang loob sa imo. ipadayon pa ba nimo ang imong gibati?

I humbly think you're asking the wrong question, friend. I think the question that should be ask is "Is it really LOVE that you're really feeling for the girl?" Because I feel if a person really loves someone to the point of being with someone totally, then the rest shouldn't matter much at all would it?

People have a tendency to make things more problematic than they really are. And that's DUMB.

If I were in the shoes of the guy who is in love with a girl who's pregnant by her previous partner, I don't think it should matter much to me. What I would do is just wait for her pregnancy comes to term, support her, give her courage and work out the things that would come along. If I am really serious about her then I'll be right alongside her every step of the way and even beyond that.

If there are still confusion to some of the feelings I have for her then it shouldn't be a problem to take things SLOW and see how things go. Being in love doesn't necessarily guarantee anything, like forever I'll be with you through thick and thin-- because no one lives forever.

But if I ever do care for the girl, I should show it as a good friend, just for now. See how things develop and face what ever changes that may come with due sincerity to her and to myself.

[akosabni]

@wengIA

ipadayon bai, ipadayon ang imong g'bati ... safe ka ... di na mamabdos ug usab in 6 months ang gurl

btaw, i agree with diem, wa pa man kaha ka maghunahuna ug minyo

alegre sab diri kay murag na'ay LQ

[WengIA]

@akosabni

bugoya ni mo bro oi' imo jud ko tudluan og binugoy ha..ahihihi' buotan baya ko' hihihi :B pero tinuod baya na imo gisulti..wahehehehe :B

@diem

yeah' ako sad nahuna2 mao na lang jud best nako buhaton friends na lang then accept na lang kung unsa sunod mahitabo..hihihi :B

[grlnxtdor16]

wow this is really a complicated situation oie...gubot pa sa lukot!

para nako noh, i think you should keep distance if your not ready to accept her for all of her... pero sa karon di pman gyud time for her to be involved in something romantic. she has to settle her issues first before involving another person in the complications sa iya life...

kung andam ka to be with her through thick and thin, accepte EVERYTHING... then go for it!

basta, ang ako lang...masakitan raka. u know why? for sure ma involve mangud ang amahan sa bata. and im not saying nga it would get in the way. but for sure it would be painful..

[xxkatgorgeousxx]

it wouldn't matter kung buntis cya as long as you love her..and she loves you too..

[WengIA]

wow this is really a complicated situation oie...gubot pa sa lukot!

para nako noh, i think you should keep distance if your not ready to accept her for all of her... pero sa karon di pman gyud time for her to be involved in something romantic. she has to settle her issues first before involving another person in the complications sa iya life...

kung andam ka to be with her through thick and thin, accepte EVERYTHING... then go for it!

basta, ang ako lang...masakitan raka. u know why? for sure ma involve mangud ang amahan sa bata. and im not saying nga it would get in the way. but for sure it would be painful..

gubot mo lang sis' ang ako mind andam mo keep distance pero ang kasing2x lagi mosukol man..pagkapaet'.. paet pa sa apdo. unya ang nakalisod pa jud kay permi na nako sya makit-an kay diri na sya nagstay sa duol..