Child abuse, Rape and Incest~

[crinkle]

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Although this isn't highly aired on medias, unlike other cases mentioned above.. concerned government agencies, particularly the Department of Social Welfare and Development are doing there jobs as much as they could so as to help battered women.. you can visit their office and you'll know what i'm talking about.. the problem also is these people sometimes don't turned to proper authorities after such an incident.. partly because of fear ( cause normally these culprits threatened the victims at killing them or their family) or partly because of ignorance/lack of knowledge....

right... but DSWD don't get enough funding. they don't have enough social workers too. my mom's one and i know what it's like for them ( a team o f 4-5 social workers ) handling 4 barangays. i don't know how many square kilometers we're talking about or how many people they'd need to attend to...

correct me if i'm wrong, but i remember the department being proclaimed as the least corrupt in the country... well maybe because they don't have anything to steal take advantage of at all.

[simply_kim004]

@ cutie jenny..i dont believe that courage is a gift but then thats ur opinion and i respect that.. yes, its true that it's easier said than done especially if we never go through it ourselves. my point is how can we help these women if they don't wanna be helped?
we are not talking about perfection here coz as we all know no one is perfect no matter how u strive for it. what i said is i dont think some of these women are lacking awareness or education.

its true that kids could not stand up for themselves but i do believe that battered women can. but then thats just my opinion.

i dont think dswd dont get enough funding. i think it gets enough only the people who runs it keep it in their pockets. sad but true.
peace

[crinkle]

i dont think dswd dont get enough funding. i think it gets enough only the people who runs it keep it in their pockets. sad but true.
peace

i disagree.

if you have time, drop by any DSWD office, particularly the one at the Cebu City Hall, you'd see what i'm talkin' about.

[simply_kim004]

i have many times. ...if all of the allotted money for dswd should have been spend in the right place then service would have been better...even if u say they are the least corrupt, corruption is corruption no matter how u look at it. they're taking money away from the people that suppose to get it and thats wrong.
peace

[giver_bert]

i have many times. ...if all of the allotted money for dswd should have been spend in the right place then service would have been better...even if u say they are the least corrupt, corruption is corruption no matter how u look at it. they're taking money away from the people that suppose to get it and thats wrong.
peace

Bro... i understand your post, if ever you mixed your insights with your sentiments with how things are going on with our government. But just in case you don't know, DSWD is one of the few government agencies that is set aside when it comes to government budget allocation. And Crinkle,i would like to correct what you said.. dswd has never been into the line of corrupt organization.. why? purely because this government agency is a cost center, unlike other government agencies which incur costs, but at the same time is earning.. it even incures expenses right before such funding for it is allocated.... ang ingon pa sa akong mama ay.. "unsaon man pagpangurakot sa mga tao diha na in the first place wala man say kwarta na ibulsa nila" i suggest you just don't drop by their office, look at their records and see how these poor social workers don't get what is due to them, but still manage to deliver what is expected... dali raman gyd ta maka come up ug impression na kurakot ang mga tao diha with the looks of their establishments.. if you're not satisfied enough..you can always inquire to Commission on Audit.

[simply_kim004]

@giverbert..thanks...if that's true.....then i must have been misinformed about the fundings, i stand corrected. so if thats the problem i commend the people that works there for doing the best they could despite underfundings.
peace!

[giver_bert]

OT: @simply_kim004... no harm done..

[SPRINGFIELD_XD_40]

It might not be specifically directed into but it will fall on the category COMMANDMENT number 4 and COMMANDMENT number 6 respectivley .

INCEST :

HONOR THY FATHER AND THY MOTHER.

"This Commandment was set down for men to better understand that honor, love, respect, dignity, had to be for The Father Himself, Our Heavenly Mother, and then the earthly parents from which all men would come. This Rule would automatically stabilize man's thinking, and permit man to rationalize the order of things. When a man upholds this Commandment, he is just with his neighbor and is aware of the need that respect brings. A solid foundation helps men to be able to withstand weakness and conquer it when needed."

oh...wow! this is a new "interpretation" for me...sorry, can't help but chuckle. i'm just blown away with that logic:

incest=honor thy mother and thy father

...all along i thought it meant...honor your parents (even if the parents are abusive)...i guess we do learn something ___ everyday.

RAPE :

THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY.

"This Commandment is to allow men to better understand that wrong use of bodily communication with other men has a definite disgrace in God's Plan. Promiscuous involvement to satisfy only the senses has many areas wherein men sin against their role in God's Plan. This Commandment definitely says that homosexuality, lesbianism, abortion, pornography, and all promiscuous endeavors of man, have a permissiveness that is against the reason for creating mankind.

God said to Moses, 'Men will have many excuses and will justify their sins against this Commandment. Also, men will deliberately attach only specific sins on this Commandment, for shame will make them call this The Hidden Commandment'."

Impurity - attack through the senses, lack of self-discipline, permissiveness, self-love.

Promiscuity - encouraging men to act without dignity, degrading the purpose of human intimate relationship.

Self-abuse - physically, mentally, emotionally.

Mental abuse causes grave sins, sometimes grave intention for sin, permitting the intellect to become so permeated with sinful thoughts that men sin consistently and it weakens them in every way.

dang that bible, why is it not written in straight-forward manner to avoid confusion...i thought adultery involves two CONSENTING adults...and rape involves ONE "not consenting" person...*sigh*

you're funny...i give you that.

Thats how I see it because if the COMMANDMENTS that are bound to be obeyed will not only limit to 10 ..... maybe the 100 + commandments if thats how you want it starightforward. You are the one who is funny because you interpreted it LITERALLY . It is clearly cited that INCEST is having an affair close to you as a relative . Just because the # 4 commandment specifically said for the parents ie the mother and father , it is not limited to them but to the family as a point of view of a Christian specially as Catholics .

Did you even know that for a mans dirty thoughts on women is a sin because it applies to all women that will boil down to Mother Mary ? Can you see that in the 10 commandments ?? Nope and will never be but it is very much associated . Like I said .... if you want starightforward commands , we will have more than 10 commandments . Well if you are a not a Christian then it sounds funny but if you are one , know youre religion better .

[KuLaSa]

Thats how I see it because if the COMMANDMENTS that are bound to be obeyed will not only limit to 10 ..... maybe the 100 + commandments if thats how you want it starightforward. You are the one who is funny because you interpreted it LITERALLY . It is clearly cited that INCEST is having an affair close to you as a relative . Just because the # 4 commandment specifically said for the parents ie the mother and father , it is not limited to them but to the family as a point of view of a Christian specially as Catholics .

of course, i forgot god is so poetic you have to read it between the lines…and not only that, it's open for interpretation as well. no wonder there's so many Xian denominations out there because they interpret the bible the way they want.

Incest=honor your mom & pops…why not just put it, honor your family then?

okay, here's one for ya: Do you believe in the story of Adam and Eve, springfield? Hmmm…how did they multiply? Cain and Abel…guys…one woman…eve…hmmm…I think god is okay with incest, no?

Did you even know that for a mans dirty thoughts on women is a sin because it applies to all women that will boil down to Mother Mary ? Can you see that in the 10 commandments ?? Nope and will never be but it is very much associated . Like I said .... if you want starightforward commands , we will have more than 10 commandments . Well if you are a not a Christian then it sounds funny but if you are one , know youre religion better .

...you better throw away those damn copies of playboy, maxim, fm…

aaaahh no wonder catholic priests would rather have dirty thoughts on them little boys' bottoms!

you really are funny…but hey, you're entitled to your convoluted interpretation…and so am i.

i agree to disagree…so spin a win!

[SPRINGFIELD_XD_40]

Well ...... I am not convincing you to believe me because you are what you believe that proves your point and not my point . I am who I am to prove my point and not your point . Yes there are a lot of Christian denomination and for the record , I am believing in he oldest denomination of Christianity and the widely used .

Like I said , it is up to the person who interprets it . In ur statements on Adam and Eve , I know there is no proven facts of them existed thru solid evidence of the Garden of Eden , their existence by excavating their skeletons or whatsoever . It is the faith that runs into it that makes me believe it happened . Just because you dont beleived it or misunderstood it , just question me and not GOD . You are commiting a blasphemy already of Him being poetic on the 10 COmmandments . Nobody said that you have to believe into it . I dont give a damn on ur beliefs , you are free to enjoy it . You ask about why it is not straightforward right ?? I gave you answers that to understand literally the 10 commandments you are lost, what else do you want to know ? How we multiplied because their is only 1 female ? And it is considered taboo ?


By the way , who argued that catholic priest are that perfect ? They are just sensationalized because of their position in the societies . But do you even think they are the only ones subject to it ? Whats with the Maxim and FHM ? You read that too and so is Playboy ?? My point is .... kung ikaw Kulasa usa ka pedophile or commited a sexual act with a boy , do you even think you will be sensationalized because of the act ?? Nope and probably will never be because you are just a mere ordinary person in these sophisticated society we have compared to a priest who commited with the exact crime you did . Whats new with it ??