HELP I got "too close" with the girl I like!

[cosplay]

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Well, if it relates to this topic then post it here.

[michelle_eaea]

well, ok raman. from that day nagka talk raman mi. and got together sometime. but something bad came up....

but thats for another topic to post

what is that "something"?

[werty]

well, before i tell about this "something" its better if i tell the story weeks before this topic happened.

things started last december. close me for about 2 months. sa tinuod lang the first time i told her na i like her,she did say to me na "ok lang" etc etc. but after that, she started to ignore or naglikay likay nako. i thought why kung ingon sya ok ra? she ignored me for about 3-4 weeks. until a time na napuno na ako(di ko ganahan likay likayan gud) and we got to talk and thats when she said na naa na syay gi sugot weeks before pa nisulti ko niya na gusto nako siya. that being the reality, of course sakit sa ako coz "gipaasa" ra ko niya. so this time ako nasad ang nilikay. this happend for about a month or so. nagilis ko sim aron lang di ko ka txt niya. but since i work(i handle an internet shop) near where she lives, di malikayan na sa shop nako siya mag internet and we see each other. she has been showing signs na gusto sya makipag talk but ako na ang nag iwas kay di na ko nahan masakitan ang at this time im still trying to heal,dba ana man jud na?

so the time came na ako gikapoy likay likay. so i started na managad niya but not the way i used to. lets just say na mutubag lang ko if she asks to. then we set a day na kuyog daw mi lakaw. i say ok ra. when we were there sa mall, things were just like when we started. but things change when we sat down for some snacks. didto na siya nibuhos about what happened to us. na sorry sya na na gipaasa ko niya ato na time. na it was her fault na nasakitan ko etc etc etc. i mean hala, why open up those wounds again when humana man siya ug sorry nako before? well ok ra unta to, but what struck me was when she talked about her BF. ingon sya na duwa duwa ra daw unta to iya. murag palipas ra daw unta. na dili siya serious. and she is considering to break up with him kay para niya mura raman wala. nakaingon ko hala, ngano ani man ni sya karon.

at that time i asked her why tell me something like this, when u know na i still care and like you so much. she cant give out a good answer,but aron lang daw mag sorry kay wa jud daw sya mahimutang. diri palang na part daan libog na ko if i should go on continue to get close to this girl or stay away since naa man sya uyab ang to think na i still like her,magsakit nya ko madugay. but then i chose to be friends with her and get close. things were smooth. we got to exchange more about ourselves. i can say were much closer now that we were before. we even talked about things like what if kami ang mag uyab etc etc etc...

so ok ra to. then this "hugging" thing happend... and ok nasad me

now the "something" part. it reached the point na napuno ko thinking btaw na even if wa sila klaro sa iya uyab or something, the fact still remains na naa pa syay uyab. ingon sya na she liked me more. shes happier with me. even her boardmates thinks na mas uyab pa mi kaysa iyaha real uyab. ang even joke na kami nalang daw.(her boardmates and people i know also). so i dont see any real reason ngano maglibog pa man siya. she told me once, na im just a friend, but she ddnt realise na i was treated differently from her other friends. like she is very comfortable around me.

so it came na gipapili nako siya (stupid of me) i asked her do you want to know kung unsa jud na imo na feel nako. why do u think im different from your other friends? do u really want to know kung asa ta kutob? coz u knowing na i still like you this much, i cant do the things i have been doin to you if im just goin to be a friend. or u can choose to forget all of these, and focus and try things out sa imo BF now. coz the only reason i would stay is 1. if you came back to me, talk to me,and your relationship ddnt work, 2. my feelings for you have changed. i knw i wont get the answers right away. so i propose na im not got let you answre these now. if your ready just let me know. but until it happens or u give your answer,it is best na di sa ta magkita or magtalk. she just went silent from there until we reached her home. i then asked, shall i get your answer 3days from now? ingon sya na libog pa daw sya.and since nag summer class siya, its exams week.mo txt ra daw sya. i say ok then said our goodbye. so mao ni sya ang something

sa tinuod lang, i regreted making that decision. but then i think i did the right thing aron kami duha naa na peace of mind. naglibog sag ko niya coz when she sense na magpalayo ko, siya magsige duol. when i sense na siya palayo ako ang muduol. hahai. its been about 5 days now since that day and i am yet to see or hear from her even sa txt. though i came to her and gave her something 2 days ago aron unta makipag reconcile because i made her life, i made things complicated..

so mao na.. if naa comments hala bira...

pero ask lang ko, is it ok if i contact her first, and try if naa na sya answer? or should i wait nalang jud..

[br]Posted on: May 08, 2008, 03:06:15 PM_________________________________________________o r maybe, what wrong did i do?

[michelle_eaea]

huh! taasa ani bro. hmmm!! basa sa ko ha.. heheheh

[cosplay]

I suggest you wait. People do not want to be pressured ya know..

[werty]

dah, ingon btaw ko na its another topic to post.. kay taas hehehehe

[bemS]

@carmicaeld and werty..

smartasschic is right agree ko sa mga ingon ni smartasschic..

@carmicaeld again, i think ill say it but i wont have this cold-shoulder treatment towards you,. or were you too kulit and commanding na in telling her to go home? hmm[br]Posted on: May 09, 2008, 05:28:20 AM_________________________________________________

so it came na gipapili nako siya (stupid of me) i asked her do you want to know kung unsa jud na imo na feel nako. why do u think im different from your other friends? do u really want to know kung asa ta kutob?

never let a person choose until you are ready with whatever decision. reality bites bya..

with the questions asked,, na pressure ang girl on her part.. there is always a reason as to why the girl sticks with a guy bisag nanay lain

[cosplay]

never let a person choose until you are ready with whatever decision. reality bites bya..

with the questions asked,, na pressure ang girl on her part.. there is always a reason as to why the girl sticks with a guy bisag nanay lain

She said it. Yup, I agree.

[werty]

mao btaw stupid of me. my emotion got the better of me that time. not to mention hang over pa ko ana kay nag inom ko pagka gabii ana. mao bitaw she wanted to talk to me kay she knew i dont drink, and she knew sya rason why ko ato. kay suppose to be nagluod ko kay that day nagsabot na mi ana daan na mag "date" me but she declined last night when nag expect na ko na madayon....

anyways damage is done. i regret pressuring her like that. but then its done...

now i just need advice labi na sa mga ladies, its it ok if i call her, not to ask about it again. but just to reconcile whatever is still left sa friendship. or is this something na pasagdan nalang jud ni sya, until she decides to come and talk to me?

duol ra baya iya baording haus where i work. i can come anytime. but im afraid is she will give me cold shoulders. i was planning na magpalaban ko sa iya ate(her baordmates since kahibaw man sila about sa amo relasyon) but i dont know if involving them would do any good.

anyways mao ra to...

[Genocide]

She said it. Yup, I agree.

Aprir bro bhe!

agree.