For Girls, How do you define "space and time apart"?

[omad]

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bro in terms of money matters on how to survive in this world its no problem with that, sa dli lng paghinambog bro we have our business.. i can support her if mgminyo mn gani have a family no problem bout dat..i just want 2 finish my studies para naa sd title ko ba.. problema lng ani s dat misunderstanding lng dyd mi ani..

maybe this ^^ gave her the wrong impression. maybe your line of business is not what she wanted to do for both of you in the future. "family business" would include all the siblings and maybe she wants to shy away from that and do something on your own (you both) instead. maybe there's just something you did or something you said in the heat-of-the-moment when you were having those fights/arguments that triggered her in making this decision. my apologies for all this speculations, but I'm just looking at every possible angle why she's giving you a "time-out". but anyway, always remember that you're one of the actors in this story but it needs "both" of you to decide where the script will lead you to. but I tell you, be ready for any eventuality. a woman's mind is really hard to crack and breaking-up with you is a big possibility after the time-out is over. just cross your fingers and hope for the best.

[baboy]

yup!! na gets ko ana bro... im start workin hr naman sa business me & my bros ... for 25 years sa amo business salamat sa Ginoo naa pa until now... way out naman ni sa topic.. Â*

anywayz Â*i keep myself busy by helping r business pero dli dyd malikayan mka hona2x nya.. GOOD DAMN!!!

[baboy]

before, she's keep calling me sa fone & cry na mahadlok cya byaan nko den ana ko "dnt worry i will never live u no matter wat"....mao nalibog ko ba y inani mao dyd na akng question y inana...

[klavel]

before, she's keep calling me sa fone & cry na mahadlok cya byaan nko den ana ko "dnt worry i will never live u no matter wat"....mao nalibog ko ba y inani mao dyd na akng question y inana...Â*

much better for you to ask her why she's acting unusual lately and talk both your problems together..no problem is better solved than talking..forget her rules for the Time-Out..or if she prefers to keep what's bothering in her mind by herself, well respect her (i've mentioned this for so many times)..BUT assure her that you'll always be there..

for the meantime, concentrate first on your studies and tell her that she's your inspiration..say only if you mean it..**sigh**

[kenart]

bro, meaning ana maghunahuna sa siya ug maayo. perhaps she have seen/felt something with the relationship. nagduda sya nimo or nagduda sya with herself, we don't know. basta ihatag lang sa niya nang 1 month bro, it's not long man siguro.

advice bro, after that 1 month, adtoa dayon sa ilaha. buhata tanang pa tweetums. if you will feel nga layo na sya nimo, don't ask her about sa 1 month nga time-out mo, ayaw pud pasagdi motabi sya about it, meaning if feel nimo nga bulaganan naka, don't make her say it, continue lang jud sa imong pa-tweetums, be the guy she fell in love with 3 years ago. para kung naghunahuna sya nga bulagan ka, mausab pa ang iyang huna2x, hehe.

[baboy]

bro, meaning ana maghunahuna sa siya ug maayo. perhaps she have seen/felt something with the relationship. nagduda sya nimo or nagduda sya with herself, we don't know. basta ihatag lang sa niya nang 1 month bro, it's not long man siguro.

advice bro, after that 1 month, adtoa dayon sa ilaha. buhata tanang pa tweetums. if you will feel nga layo na sya nimo, don't ask her about sa 1 month nga time-out mo, ayaw pud pasagdi motabi sya about it, meaning if feel nimo nga bulaganan naka, don't make her say it, continue lang jud sa imong pa-tweetums, be the guy she fell in love with 3 years ago. para kung naghunahuna sya nga bulagan ka, mausab pa ang iyang huna2x, hehe.

lage pa tweetums ta ani ... damn inlove dyd ko nya oi 3 yrs 6 months nami mao ghapon ako na feel nya.... " if there is longer than forever i will love her like that"

[omad]

iya condition kay no txt og no col.. tried col ko gahapon kay gmingaw nko nya dali rasad mga 15 seconds ning txt dayon cya "dli mn ka kasabot og sabot?"

you're just making it harder on yourself. maybe this would be the last time she'll ask you to follow what she wants and obviously you're not listening or not taking her seriously. I myself would try to communicate with somebody I love but your situation is different. why not wait until the "time-out" expires and then talk to her about everything needed to get the relationship up on it's feet again. she's in a very delicate situation right now 'coz I think she hasn't done this (time-out) in all the three and a half years you've been together. am I right?

today is the right time to follow her rules. what have you got to lose anyway? 30 days?

compare that to "forever" and you'll know what I mean.

[baboy]

iya condition kay no txt og no col.. tried col ko gahapon kay gmingaw nko nya dali rasad mga 15 seconds ning txt dayon cya "dli mn ka kasabot og sabot?"

you're just making it harder on yourself. maybe this would be the last time she'll ask you to follow what she wants and obviously you're not listening or not taking her seriously. I myself would try to communicate with somebody I love but your situation is different. why not wait until the "time-out" expires and then talk to her about everything needed to get the relationship up on it's feet again. she's in a very delicate situation right now 'coz I think she hasn't done this (time-out) in all the three and a half years you've been together. am I right?

today is the right time to follow her rules. what have you got to lose anyway? 30 days?

compare that to "forever" and you'll know what I mean.

yah! mao dyd.. btaw ur ryt!!
nya naa koy nadongan na mo anhi cya dri amoa lugar kay naay toyo, mo txt ko nya na makig kta or hulat lng ko nya mo txt cya sa ako if nahan cya, kay every time mo anhi cla sa iya aunt dri amoa lugar we alwys invite them lunch ana day inig abot nla.. mgprepare dyd ako mom og lunch.. unsay maayo ana??

[omad]

nya naa koy nadongan na mo anhi cya dri amoa lugar kay naay toyo, mo txt ko nya na makig kta or hulat lng ko nya mo txt cya sa ako if nahan cya, kay every time mo anhi cla sa iya aunt dri amoa lugar we alwys invite them lunch ana day inig abot nla.. mgprepare dyd ako mom og lunch.. unsay maayo ana??

just let her be and leave her alone right now. i know you miss her so much but if I were you I'd stick to the "time-out" 'til it passes. just play by her rules. it really isn't hard to do if you think about it.

[baboy]

nya naa koy nadongan na mo anhi cya dri amoa lugar kay naay toyo, mo txt ko nya na makig kta or hulat lng ko nya mo txt cya sa ako if nahan cya, kay every time mo anhi cla sa iya aunt dri amoa lugar we alwys invite them lunch ana day inig abot nla.. mgprepare dyd ako mom og lunch.. unsay maayo ana??

just let her be and leave her alone right now. i know you miss her so much but if I were you I'd stick to the "time-out" 'til it passes. just play by her rules. it really isn't hard to do if you think about it.

btaw btaw... :mrgreen: ...nya kng mgkta mi sa city ana na day.. unsa mn ako buhaton?