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i left my friends and family bcoz of himOriginally Posted by nikki
bcoz i choose to be with him
am starting a new lyf.. w/o friends
we all want to feel needed and it is hard to leave someone u got used to being with for a long time. but u have to think and decide.. r u happy being the 'other girl' ? if he really wants to change, he can, with or without u or anyone else. do u wnat to be pulled down along with him ? if u decide to really help him, r u ready as in realy realy ready?? u said he's into drugs, that sure is a hard habit to break.
i think u already know what is the right thing to do... u just dnt hav the strength to do it. it seems to me that u'r looking for justification to go on with the relationship. i just hope nga wen u realize that ur at the loosing end, it wont be too late.
and is it really necessary to leave everything behind to be with the guy? that is a very big mistake.
yeah i know now that it is.. the biggest mistake na akong nabuhat..
pero am now on the oint where there is no turning back.. i have to prove to those who i left behind na nakaya nako..
am slowly learning now to accept my mistakes.. para when time comes na d jud nako madala na.. d kaau sakit ang sukmatan ko..
sana *hahayLAYP* mapakong na lang ko to make me realize..
naka realize naka.. naa lang ka sa self denial stage...
[ quote= "kai" ] [ quote= "nikki" ] ouch.. that's
a slap in the face. if there's something you're missing, man, end the
damn relationship. do things beneficial to yourself if you can and
work on something to bide your time for this time to pass and meet
other people. [ /quote ] i left my friends and family bcoz of him bcoz
i choose to be with him am starting a new lyf.. w/o friends [ /quote
]
grabeh ka naman.![]()
my friend had a similar experience to yours, difrence is she is the one making the pick....and she had to pick the one na she thought loved her more, needed her more (the guy turned to drugs and self destruction whenever she brings the idea of separation). Yes for a moment there she felt loved, she felt needed and she definitely felt very valuable. They were young, they had kids, things changed, they realized thay want more in life than the LOVE they share. The feeling is now mutual....they need space and the company of another person.![]()
just felt like sharing.
love gihapon pero mura lang lisod or lain sa paminaw nimo na duha mo kabuok
hmm... i dunno.. maybe i'll let him choose kinsa jud iyang gusto...
kinsa jud mo labaw...
how bout.. what will you do if duha sila sa imong life
hehehehe
kung mao na mdz.. kanta kag.. sana, dalawa ang puso ko.. wahehehehe![]()
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