sa church nako nga catholic, basing on the rules, it is a sin. period. basing lang jud sa commandments ha, im not trying to be self righteous or anything. but who are we to judge. it is not our business. the only thing we can do is focus on our own sins and ask for forgiveness. if there is something you can do to help, then by all means help the girl. if there is none, then mind your own affairs. dili nato kawatan ug trabaho ang Ginoo, who is the ultimate judge.