HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[YM24]

pag xure dira ue...unsa may reason nmu bi??

[Sol_Itaire]

nicely said. the problem with some women is that they always compare the nows and the thens. like saying "sa uyab pa ta sweet pa kaau ka. pirmi ko nimo i date every saturday's. karon di na.". they don't see that even if we liked to, we just find it hard to time. lisud pangita ug kuarta para ibuhi imo pamilya.

I don't believe in sacrificing the relationship for the sake of the family's financial stability. husbands should find time to date their wives as much as wives should find ways to add to the family's finances.

[nitwit]

I don't believe in sacrificing the relationship for the sake of the family's financial stability. husbands should find time to date their wives as much as wives should find ways to add to the family's finances.

sakto jud ka maam. nagwork pud baya ko, fulltime and occasional job pero i always spare time just to be with my husband. bisan unsa pa na ka busy, makaya pa gihapon luto ug dinner, laba, limpyo balay but none of those have been appreciated. di man sad ni sila ka ingon na nagpabuhi ko sa ako bana, wa nalang jud ko right magreklamo kay breadwinner siya,nag work siya para mabuhi me. wa baya intawon me anak, we both work, both have different businesses. ako lang jud kay wa man me problema financially, mag timewise pud siya oy. sige lang ako tig sabot.

about the honeymoon stage, sir wa man ko nag expect na mag always me honeymoon.what i said is right after 3 months of marriage, nagsugod na siya ug ka workaholic. 2 years plus napud ko inantos ug sabot. sa uban diri dali ra kaayo pagsulti na...ngano nangabit gud ka?biga rana imo. dali ra kaayo mag judge sa babae, porke na inlove sa lain tungod kay way oras and pagtagad ang bana ingnon dayon nangabit.

gusto na nuon nako magwala, instead of doing my wifely chores, ill get a maid to do it for us. kay abuso na kaayo.

i dont know how to persuade my husband.

update: im now in counselling by my self. hubby is gonna undergo one in philippines.

[skyblue_lord]

basin dili cya satisfied sa lawasnong kalipay sa iyang bana mao cguro...........

[unique]

mam nitwit, have you read my first sugestion? hope that can help

[YM24]

bsta naa kay saktong reason..okie ra kaau..

[ggtumulak]

Sis, how r u na? Ask daw if love pa ba ka sa imong husband. Kay kung love pa jud ka niya he should be appreciative of you managing your time doing both your job and wifey chores. Probably he needs to realize what you have been doing for him. Communicate lang gud mo, tell him what your complaints are about him and what you expect him to do. Listen pud sa iyang side basin dili lang cya expressive but he really appreciates what you are doing. Perhaps naa pa jud way na ma-settle ni inyong conflict without surrendering your marriage. Just don't give up that easily.

[cptn_star]

unsa na update ani?

[esprugodoys]

k sakit ani nga suliran oi... ^_^

[mich_pink03]

yataps! ka luoy pd ni husband gurl..