Long Distance Relationships

[Von!-x]

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The time to love is short. The time to emotionally and physically connect with someone is much shorter.

:o

Why the distance, and not eliminate the space between two people in love?

[alas]

some things are beyond our control and have to face the reality that both of you are dealing a long distance relationship.

[pridi]

hmmmm.... my gf is from bicol, den cebu ako... but for 3 years, were still strong.... karon lang cya ari diri cos were planning to settle down na and maka ipon.... grabe and fon namo sauna oi.... lipay kaau ang smart for 3 years.... but i know its a good investment man pud.....

[jrluzana]

you would really need to see each other.....
both of you will always take it to another level....
ma-bored man gud mo and there are many temptations around...

always take it to another level....

[jellyFish]

you would really need to see each other.....
both of you will always take it to another level....
ma-bored man gud mo and there are many temptations around...

always take it to another level....

cant you take it to another level without the constant "seeing" part of the relationship... ?

question lng na

[prettymeeh0505]

Unfortunately, there is no final answer. Distance can work against you, but it can also work for you, it all depends on how much you care about each other and making it work. Since you don't have regular date nights, constant intimacy, "quick fix" activities, and physical closeness to help your relationship blossom, it's up to both parties to nurture the romance and apply that extra effort necessary.
It also depends on the circumstances. There's a big difference between distance in an already established relationship and distance in one that has yet to develop -- if your girlfriend is being transferred to another city for her career, for example, you already share memories and experiences to help bridge that gap. But what if the two of you meet in an Internet chat room -- how do you even know you're right for each other without the necessary physical contact?
As well, we can't compare temporary and long-term distance; if you're sent overseas for six months, you know there's an end in sight, which makes it easier to survive the time spent apart.


While globalization can be the reason behind your separation -- since travel has become a staple in many careers, and cyberspace has become the new way to meet people -- you must take advantage of the different means of communication that can make you feel like you're next door to each other. Use e-mail several times per day, chat on the Net for hours, and talk face to face with the Internet and a Web cam. This is the closest you're going to get to a "real" conversation.
The Internet is particularly great as it eliminates long-distance telephone fees, and allows you to send detailed e-mail or even short e-greetings to show you're thinking about her.
If you're using the phone, set up telephone dates to ensure you speak and catch up.
Sign it's fizzling: She doesn't reply to your e-mail or phone calls, and offers no explanation.

[jellyFish]

you would really need to see each other.....
both of you will always take it to another level....
ma-bored man gud mo and there are many temptations around...

always take it to another level....

cant you take it to another level without the constant "seeing" part of the relationship... ?

question lng na

weird question... i take it back. sorry

i got my answer

[**julliene**]

Unfortunately, there is no final answer. Distance can work against you, but it can also work for you, it all depends on how much you care about each other and making it work. Since you don't have regular date nights, constant intimacy, "quick fix" activities, and physical closeness to help your relationship blossom, it's up to both parties to nurture the romance and apply that extra effort necessary.

well said!! :P

[KaTzKi]

for a gurl ba.. is it ok to visit the guy when yer in a LDR or mgwait lng dyud mi na ang guy mu visit namu? ask lng ku..

[**julliene**]

nope...you have to visit us also oi...we can spend for your trip man if ever maglisud sa budget....it's not only us ang dapat mubisita ninyo...kamo sad dapat...the ratio would be 10:1

10x ang guy muvisit = to 1x sa girls...payts na kaayo na!!