Dare to steal boyfriends?

[Phantim3dx]

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I hit the wrong button I was goign to add more, so here it is

The idea of the "hard to get pinay" s as laughable as the next joke coming out of a comedian's stand up line. Again i am not saying all filipinas are this way, but I do think the majority are. Now some of you ladies/males might thinkw ell "you really werent with a gtrue hard to get pinay" or "she really wasnt a true pinay because she acted in this form etc etc"
all the pinays ive dated, played, and have been played by, were all intelligent, highly reputable in society as well as in the academics, and they weren't much harder to get in my room or theirs as me buying condoms in a store..okay a bit harder than buying condoms from a store...
I personally think as a Fil-Am the reaosn why I may have an easier time with the pinays is because i am a firm believer there is a common bond and understanding when you try to date, or pretend to date, a person in which he/she is of the same race/ethnic/cultural backgruond as you.
I do have relatives in Cebu and other places where my female cousins are truely these "hard to get pinays" where "pamiseta(spelling?) has to be done and all these other courtships have to be meet, etc etc. If a lady was like this I have no problems with it and I encourage her so she can pick the best guy she has out there for suitors as well as find outt he true intentions of that person.
Have I ever made real pamiseta(dspelling?) i dont think in all honesty. but have I visited the parents/family of girls I wanted to get with, sure. I play along with the game and do the best I can in the "field of hunt" to maximize my potnetial of whatever my true intention is whether it is truely to get a girlfriend or jsut get a laid.
I APOLOGIZE IF THIS IS GOING OFF TOPIC ith the true main subject

[Phantim3dx]

Ronna thank you for your kind concern on me by expressing it thru a song.
I do sometimes in all honesty, you guys might find it hard to believe, do think about thisa bout growing old and single.
for the time being though the whole idea of fully committing and the dreaded "M WORD", marriage, really scares me. Maybe someday when I am financially secure and have a eprmanent and stable job which I can live on as well as future family could i change my mind. but to drudge thru a future path with uncertainties and always having concerns on whether I can support a fmaily or someone really scaes me. Perhaps this is a reason as to why I tend to enjoy now as a single person rather than not enjoy @ all.
Were you surprised by such a comment like this Ronna, where I am a bit more serious inr elation to my previous posts, which you went on a rant against me?

[fanhan]

phantim, are u commitment-phobe? hehe..
since you are a phil-am, your orientation is different. it's westernized. in other words you are liberated. if you talk about filipinas growing up in u.s. , then you've actually just talked about filipinas who has the same orientation as yours. but come over here in cebu, it's totally different..

[Phantim3dx]

fanhan don't be so quick to assume that the filipinas I most had fun with were "Fil-Ams" Although the number is quite small in comparison to im sure the others in here on Istorya. but I only spend about 2 months time @ most when I visit the philippines. Visited twice and in that period I've had a "conquest" tally of 6 true filipinas. different sure, i don't disagree @ all, that's why any good hunter would change there tactic and scheme of hunting prey, and I did just that. I played the game, and went along with it. Worked out fine so far.

[Ms.Beau]

so phantim's points are:

1. he thinks and proves that pinays are not hard to get...not at all
2. he is very good in playing the dating and getting game
3. he dreads commitment but also fears growing old alone
4. he is trying to enjoy things now

whats the fuss? no problem bro...your thoughts are not really a threat to society. i'm sure they are millions out there who have the same thoughts as yours.

as to his comment here

feminism and this whole chrade of women's rights is so damn overrated.
i assume ms beau you won't be getting into a relationship with a Japanese male, sterotypically speaking, anytime soon?

that's your opinion. i respect that. for me though, the feminist movement, or rather waves of the movement are milestones in humanity's history. there might have been extremes or excesses, but the advantages still outweigh the perceived disadvantages.

[Phantim3dx]

1. you are correct i dont think most pinays are hard to get @ all
2. i never directly said i was good @ the dating/ playing game. there's a difference in having confidence and being good @ it. My batting Average in trying to get a date with a girl probably hovers in the range of .190-.200. I can admit defeat and the fasct that most of the time I don't succeed; it's this difference with other males and females(to make it politically correct for the feminists here), that unlike those who easily get discouraged for being rejected, you take it as it is and move on, no harm done.
3. ironic isn't it? i'm somewhere in between those two, since I have been committed with my g/f I care much about for over a year and a half now, yes the longest I've ever been in.
4. you're right I am trying to enjoy things right now and tomorrow in accordance to the opportunities that come by me, and most people should.

I know my comments aren't a threat to society, but I love the fact though that everyone here goes on the "oh my god is he for real" bandwagon rant. And I am glad and happy for those other millions of people in society who are enjoying themselves and have somewhat of the same "thought" as me. I don't want to be stuck eating the same cereal everyday for the rest of my life, life needs different flavors, and lots of it to keep it excitingand moving.
"the feminist movement, or rather waves of the movement are milestones in humanity's history" how so? Care to enlighten me some more, or was it just a spur of the moment for you to state previously that "feminism is serious matter"; which if it was then to me you've just are another person to stagnate the movement of "feminism"
So, you didn't answer ym question, with your current "fight" for the charge of advancing female equality rights, should I assume you won't be dating a japanese male anytime soon?

[jugs_06]

OT: whew.. this guy phantim right here is the man.. rock on rochester kid!!

[Phantim3dx]

i sure will, I sure will Jugs.

[Ms.Beau]

4. you're right I am trying to enjoy things right now and tomorrow in accordance to the opportunities that come by me, and most people should.

I don't want to be stuck eating the same cereal everyday for the rest of my life, life needs different flavors, and lots of it to keep it excitingand moving.

the logic is good, phantim, but lemme just remind you that not everybody share your definition of fun. the world is too big to accommodate just one kind of fun, isnt it. to insist or impose one's kind of fun on others is just narrow-mindedness or well, plain immaturity. not all single guys want to play the numbers game (perhaps they're the quality-over-quantity guys). you can share your point of view and convince people that it is indeed fun as you see it, but that's all you can do. if the other guy enjoys being faithful to his gf and doesn't mind having only one or two girlfriends in his lifetime, then what is the problem there? happiness and contentment are the end goals and that guy has those...you might even want to consider his ways if your own prove to berather ineffective.

"the feminist movement, or rather waves of the movement are milestones in humanity's history" how so? Care to enlighten me some more, or was it just a spur of the moment for you to state previously that "feminism is serious matter"; which if it was then to me you've just are another person to stagnate the movement of "feminism"
So, you didn't answer ym question, with your current "fight" for the charge of advancing female equality rights, should I assume you won't be dating a japanese male anytime soon?

i'n no expert on feminism but i guess i've read more books on it than you have. sure i will enlighten you on that but not here, bro. part of being an enlightened female is knowing that she is going to be posting an off-topic post already

and to answer your question, let me just say that i have not joined any formal feminist organization (yet) and my "fight" is rather internally-directed...i don't fight for equality with men or with a male partner but just truthfulness to my personhood which means that i shouldn't be afraid of my own greatness--that i shouldn't let the issue of gender hinder me. so dating or not dating a japanese or any guy from earth is beside the point. it's not really a problem or an issue.

and to redeem this rather almost off-topic exchange, lemme just wrap this up by saying that there are many options in life and some of those are not so selfish but still beneficial, and those are the ones to consider if you have or are starting to get the idea that stealing someone's bf or gf is a bad idea. personally, i think it's not only bad, it's stupid (my own opinion there...so don't argue with me.)

done

[r0mm3L]

you know girls, stealing is punishable by law