OK to be in Love With Your Friend's BF/GF/Ex?

[butbuton]

halaaaaaaa da uy! just do the right thing girl. follow ur heart
tutal wa man ka mangilog. and then married na man sad imong bestfriend


If she will give you the go ahead then I suppose it could work. natural lng sad ng malain imong bestfriend.
thats ok. good luck

[kamikaze426]

Nothing is wrong man siguro since your bestfriend is married already and you are not hiding it from her. If he makes you happy then your friend should be happy for you also

[wicked_b]

you felt guilty? how come? for friendship's sake? mmm, maybe bcoz of your principle that you stand before.

i am uncomfortable with this situation since this has happened to my bestfriend before and it was really bad (her ex-bf and other bestfriend are now married). i even gave her advices and uttered words like "i coould never imagine doing that to my friend" and "how could she?"

[coffeemate]

i wish everything isnt THIS complicated. at first ana raman ako friend nga tubayi ra na oi (when i told her that her ex is texting me). i remember now that she was even the one who gave my number to him. and so i made tubay ra jud.. maybe this is my fault.

[Zahara]

I don't think it's a good idea.

First, you said bestfriend and not just any friend. How can you do this to her?
Second, i know it's not your fault. But whatever happened to your principle?
Third, how would you feel if the situations are reversed? Im sure you will feel betrayed. I would have.
Fourth, she is married and doesn't feel anything about the guy anymore. But it is still awkward.
Fifth, it's like sharing underwear or sharing bfs. Luod kaayo! Ewww
Sixth, you said you fell for the guy already. It was your fault and your own doing. If wala nimo gi-entertain in the first place, you wouldn't be in this situation!
Seventh, what if you took the chance with the guy and it doesn't work out, can you talk to her about it? Kiwaw!
Eigtht, are you ready to lose her?

Im sorry if im so passionate about this. Im a girl so i understand. But being one, i can also emphatized with her. I would never ever understand why bisan kapila pag explain kay there are just some boundaries you cannot cross. Have respect for the friendship oi. If ma-happen na nako, im sure i would drop my best friend for doing this to me even if i don't like the guy anymore. If she is my best friend then she would understand. And i would never do it to my best friend either.

[kamikaze426]

dont be so hard on your self, it is not your fault. In the first place dili man ikaw ang nihatag sa imo number imo man bestfriend.

[coffeemate]

i just talked to my friend a while ago (mga 20mins ago) and she just laughed about it! whew! she gave me a big laugh after i said hello. hehe.. she finds it really funny daw. she told me to give it a shot and that she appreciates my honesty. kato man gud kuno case sa iya bestfriend before kay gitago to nila and so my bestfriend felt betrayed.

[earljahn]

Its your call....

[kacey]

yah a bit awkward but i guess its ok ra cause ur bestfriend is ok bout it mn sad and even gave you the Go signal.. if u really like the guy, then follow your heart..

[andch81]

for me.... never... i could nvr do that coz ex or what i know it would not be ok for our frendship and its doesnt feel right...it would realyl be diffrent after that..and i choose frendship than any other... bstfrend na gud na..may lang tag silingan ra nku ang xgf sa guy.hahahha